will123 Posted November 11, 2019 Share Posted November 11, 2019 2 hours ago, TreMartEyes said: I have never had an orgasm in my life. I still try even though I know its kind of pointless. I enjoy the feeling its kind of like an itch that needs to be scratched. It isn't driven by my environment but from something inside. At least you're trying. I'm not sure what my reaction would be to no orgasm when I pleasure myself. Link to post Share on other sites
argar Posted November 11, 2019 Share Posted November 11, 2019 @TreMartEyes I have had at least two orgasm's in my life. So at the very least I know the difference between having an orgasm and not having an orgasm. Special circumstances lead to the orgasm in both cases, and it was a while ago. Link to post Share on other sites
will123 Posted November 12, 2019 Share Posted November 12, 2019 Spoiler I don't get spontaneous or uncontrolled erections anymore. In some ways that is a benefit. With 'stimulation' my erections are just as 'strong' as they were in my younger days. Link to post Share on other sites
TreMartEyes Posted November 15, 2019 Share Posted November 15, 2019 On 11/11/2019 at 8:45 AM, argar said: @TreMartEyes I have had at least two orgasm's in my life. So at the very least I know the difference between having an orgasm and not having an orgasm. Special circumstances lead to the orgasm in both cases, and it was a while ago. Was it the lack of trying or did you feel you could get your self to that point. Link to post Share on other sites
Dances With Cats Posted December 2, 2019 Share Posted December 2, 2019 I'm 51 and I masturbate. Not very often, but to me it's like scratching an itch. There are no sexual fantasies involved, just me and my vibe. Link to post Share on other sites
will123 Posted December 3, 2019 Share Posted December 3, 2019 20 hours ago, Dances With Cats said: I'm 51 and I masturbate. Not very often, but to me it's like scratching an itch. There are no sexual fantasies involved, just me and my vibe. I should've added a comment yesterday (lack of sleep will do that). I liked your post because it was nice to see that you're comfortable enough to post about it here on AVEN. I never felt any shame in doing it, but before I joined AVEN a couple of years ago, the discussion is generally negative. Most people here that post about masturbating do so in a positive way. Link to post Share on other sites
JenniBee Posted December 28, 2019 Share Posted December 28, 2019 Its all about the endorphin release for me. Means to an end. Link to post Share on other sites
BreeMoo Posted December 28, 2019 Share Posted December 28, 2019 I find myself masturbating as a means of a high and tiring myself out to go to sleep some nights. Although sometimes it takes too much effort, and it makes things worse than before (no real release, spent too long and overtired myself which means I won't sleep as easily). Link to post Share on other sites
Gnomeish Posted January 2, 2020 Share Posted January 2, 2020 Annoying. Get the feeling of my body parts acting against my interest because I ate too many apples or whatever triggers some sort of hormone and the feeling like having to pee gets too much. Once a month, maybe. Takes for-fucking-ever, only works to imagine fictional characters, always two guys, made me hella confused if I wanted to be a guy for a while. (No thanks I have enough body hair as it is, lol.) So lame. Link to post Share on other sites
nerdography Posted January 3, 2020 Share Posted January 3, 2020 I masturbated more when I was younger. Maybe once a week. But, now in my late 30s, I might do it once a month, if that. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted January 15, 2020 Share Posted January 15, 2020 I'm Asexual and I find I still have abit of an urge around my ovulation period before my menstrual cycle. So I tend to masturbate. As I saw someone say before on here that it's a like scratching an itch and I don't feel a need or urge to find a partner to help with that. Link to post Share on other sites
will123 Posted January 15, 2020 Share Posted January 15, 2020 2 hours ago, AJ 0688 said: I don't feel a need or urge to find a partner to help with that. A lot less drama involved as well. Link to post Share on other sites
tiptoenail Posted January 25, 2020 Share Posted January 25, 2020 For myself its more of a self maintains program then anything. Your body is going to clean out your system one way or another and when your past a certain age cleaning up the nocturnal emission in the morning isn’t fun anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
pickles. Posted January 28, 2020 Share Posted January 28, 2020 I don't remember a time when I didn't masturbate, which makes me guess that I started around age 4. I have always liked it; it is not annoying or a chore. Link to post Share on other sites
pickles. Posted January 28, 2020 Share Posted January 28, 2020 On 9/12/2019 at 6:39 AM, Salmiakki said: I can't believe that you thought that I was old... like... how... how could anyone think that I'm old, that's soooo weird... I don't think you need to read too much into someone assuming you were older. The title of this thread is "Masturbation and older asexuals," so it would be an easy assumption to make. But of course anyone of any age is welcome to post! Link to post Share on other sites
Salmiakki Posted January 28, 2020 Share Posted January 28, 2020 30 minutes ago, pickles mcgee said: I don't think you need to read too much into someone assuming you were older. The title of this thread is "Masturbation and older asexuals," so it would be an easy assumption to make. But of course anyone of any age is welcome to post! I didn't post in this thread before will tagged me. He quoted my post from another thread. I never originally posted here, he assumed my age based on a post that I posted in a different thread. It had nothing to do with the title of this thread. Also, I was surprised that he thought that I was much older than what I really am cause I knew he had read many of my previous posts and I thought that based on all those posts it would be obvious to him that I was young. Also I feel like in general when I post I sound young, but maybe not everyone thinks that? idk Link to post Share on other sites
will123 Posted January 28, 2020 Share Posted January 28, 2020 6 hours ago, pickles mcgee said: I don't remember a time when I didn't masturbate, which makes me guess that I started around age 4. I have always liked it; it is not annoying or a chore. I knew about Spoiler jerking off as a teenager, but didnt start 'pleasuring myself' until I was 18. X2 on the latter part. @Salmiakki I'm sorry that me thinking you were older has bothered you. There was no malicious intent on my part. Link to post Share on other sites
daveb Posted January 28, 2020 Share Posted January 28, 2020 6 hours ago, Salmiakki said: Also I feel like in general when I post I sound young, but maybe not everyone thinks that? idk For what it's worth I always thought you were pretty young, maybe typical college age (like early 20s?). Back on topic. I'd say my own experience is similar to what pickles mentioned. I probably do it less these days than when I was younger though. Link to post Share on other sites
Tunhope Posted January 28, 2020 Share Posted January 28, 2020 Same as @pickles mcgee - enjoyable and from when I was 4 or 5. I definitely count as an older asexual! Link to post Share on other sites
will123 Posted January 29, 2020 Share Posted January 29, 2020 I guess a younger person could check the thread to see what us older folks think of the subject... Link to post Share on other sites
daveb Posted January 29, 2020 Share Posted January 29, 2020 There is no reason younger people can't check in on or participate in threads in this forum. It's all good. Link to post Share on other sites
will123 Posted January 31, 2020 Share Posted January 31, 2020 When I was in my 30s and 40s (probably the peak of my masturbating) I could easily masturbate and orgasm twice in quick succession. For the last few years (I'm 58 now) even if I want to do a 'double feature' I'm pretty much beat/fatigued/spent/exhausted after my first orgasm. I can have another session after about an hour's rest, but the second orgasm isn't near as satisfying as the first. I have no idea why I even bother doing it twice. Something along the lines of 'the chase is better than the catch'? Link to post Share on other sites
blue dog Posted January 31, 2020 Share Posted January 31, 2020 On 1/27/2019 at 2:55 PM, LauraGarnham said: I've had the same thing recently, it's been a bit so so, I would usually do it maybe once a week, but haven't for a few weeks now ... will wait until I feel the urge again and then maybe enjoy it more. oh yes i would say to do on a regular schedule would be rather boring and so so , when with the urge is more worth it. Link to post Share on other sites
Someone Else Posted February 4, 2020 Share Posted February 4, 2020 I get nothing out of it. One part of the body is no better for self-touching than any other. I might as well rub my elbow when trying to orgasm. Link to post Share on other sites
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