Bourbon Posted December 6, 2018 Share Posted December 6, 2018 I miss waking up to a man. The times I did it was very delightful & I don't regret it 1 bit.. I'm tired of meeting people that only are trying to use me for sex. It is becoming annoying .Every man I get .Then I thought to myself.. I think my issue is with men that label themselves "straight" they seem to have person issues or their mind is trapped somewhere in a box. When trying to reason with them they seem to be reasonable; until they blow up on you in rage when they cannot get they want which is "sex" of any sort.. whatever happen to cuddling? or even picnics by the river?? Its seem to be always about "sex" .. no matter how much you give them, it's never enough.. then people wonder why rela's never workout. sometimes a person goes as far as to how much they should be getting from you and such, what type of shit is this ??? Link to post Share on other sites
Techie Posted December 6, 2018 Share Posted December 6, 2018 Can you use a larger font 😳 Link to post Share on other sites
LeChat Posted December 6, 2018 Share Posted December 6, 2018 Hello, and welcome!  You've come to the right place; there are others, here, who also have mentioned feeling frustrated about relationships.  If you're interested, there's a thread for asexual people of color, (in the Intersectionality Forum); there are also thread in the Older Asexuals Forum, where you could choose to chat with other member who are around your age, too.  If you're worried that using a smaller font size might not been seen by members on their phones, there's no need to worry: there are members who access the forum on their phones and laptops who can still read messages in the forum's default font size. If you need help resizing your font, others and admods would be happy to help; new members ask for help with things like that all the time.  I hope this helped. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted December 6, 2018 Share Posted December 6, 2018 2 hours ago, InquisitivePhilosopher said: If you're worried that using a smaller font size might not been seen by members on their phones,  Yes it's actually a lot harder to see that giant font on my phone because each word is split up over multiple lines, it's INCREDIBLY difficult to read. Regular font is scaled to be big enough to read so I can generally see it fine on my phone despite my terrible eyesight and weird eye conditions. Link to post Share on other sites
Telecaster68 Posted December 6, 2018 Share Posted December 6, 2018 But is your love casino? Link to post Share on other sites
RoseGoesToYale Posted December 6, 2018 Share Posted December 6, 2018 4 minutes ago, Telecaster68 said: But is your love casino? XD What has happened to this forum?! Â Anywho... there are definitely men out there who care very little or not at all about sex. After all... we've got plenty of 'em in here! Sometimes it's just a matter of stumbling upon someone whose needs line up with yours. It's also perfectly ok to directly say hey, sex is not on the table, I'm looking for (platonic cuddling, just friends, etc.). If they're not into that, then you can move on to someone else. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted December 6, 2018 Share Posted December 6, 2018 1 hour ago, RosyIcepick said: sex is not on the table To which the guy will respond: 'it's okay the bed's comfier anyway..'  Link to post Share on other sites
Skycaptain Posted December 6, 2018 Share Posted December 6, 2018 There's several bad jokes about sex on a table, or a snooker table, given that "potting" is a colloquialism for sex Link to post Share on other sites
Zo_E Posted December 14, 2018 Share Posted December 14, 2018 That’s all I miss from being in a relationship.  Someone to sleep next to. Link to post Share on other sites
Demi Dad Posted January 1, 2019 Share Posted January 1, 2019 i miss kissing, holding hands, hugging,cuddling/spooning and massages (giving) Link to post Share on other sites
Phantasmal Fingers Posted January 14, 2019 Share Posted January 14, 2019 It's not possible to sleep with anyone else.  The sleeping sleep alone.  When I wake up I don't want foreign objects in my bed. And that includes people - all people except me. Link to post Share on other sites
Gone Boy Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 There are definitely men out there that are not interested in sex. They might be in the minority but they do exist. You will find some of them here and there are dating forums for asexual people as well. Link to post Share on other sites
Dreamsexual Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 . Link to post Share on other sites
James121 Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 Whatever happened to cuddling, picnics by the river and so on... Men are only interested in sex...... Actually this isn’t a gender thing as many woman out there want to end the romantic picnic and cuddle with a nice bonk but are refused by their man who engineers yet another pretend headache to excuse himself.  I think the key here is to acknowledge that there’s a trade off. Word it how you like but there is a trade off. You want the bits you’ve listed in big letters, you wouldn’t like to be accused of ‘using someone’ for company during a picnic or for cuddles so it’s not really reasonable to assume that straight men only want sex for one reason.  Just my opinion.  Link to post Share on other sites
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