alto Posted November 29, 2018 Share Posted November 29, 2018 So there's this guy out there that I don't really think I have a chance with. I still really like him though...and I would like him to be my zucchini (I'm aro). He knows nothing about aro discourse, or about the concept of zucchinis, or anything like that. I don't even know him that well. I just really really like him based on the YouTube videos he's put up (he's something of a YouTube star). He's always so interesting and thought-provoking. I sent him an email just now...he mentioned in a video that he always responds to his emails and takes it very seriously. So I am hopeful of a reply. I should mention that he has a girlfriend. I would like to reiterate that I am not romantically interested in this man. It's a squish, not a crush. Link to post Share on other sites
Tunes Posted November 29, 2018 Share Posted November 29, 2018 Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted November 29, 2018 Share Posted November 29, 2018 I also wish you good luck! 🌻 Link to post Share on other sites
Gizamaluke Posted November 29, 2018 Share Posted November 29, 2018 I also have never heard of the concept of a zucchini, what is it? Link to post Share on other sites
Tunes Posted November 29, 2018 Share Posted November 29, 2018 1 hour ago, Gizamaluke said: I also have never heard of the concept of a zucchini, what is it? It's the term for a partner in a QPR (quasiplatonic relationship - basically a platonic form of a romantic relationship/marriage, culturally speaking). Link to post Share on other sites
Gizamaluke Posted November 29, 2018 Share Posted November 29, 2018 13 minutes ago, Tunes said: It's the term for a partner in a QPR (quasiplatonic relationship - basically a platonic form of a romantic relationship/marriage, culturally speaking). Oh cool, I was thinking along those lines but couldn't be sure. Also if it was a British relationship it wouldn't be zucchini it'd be courgette. Link to post Share on other sites
alto Posted November 29, 2018 Author Share Posted November 29, 2018 Update: I emailed him last night about the content of one of his videos. Specifically, Zen Sickness. I mentioned that a similar phenomenon often occurs among practitioners of Deep Tissue Massage, when they are learning the ropes. He emailed me back, and gave me a pretty positive reply. Said he wasn't surprised in the least, and mentioned that the Zen Master Dogen said that the mind is not seperate from the body. Awesome sauce. Link to post Share on other sites
kaysir Posted December 7, 2018 Share Posted December 7, 2018 If he has a girlfriend, I would not recommend breaching the topic of a QPR unless he has expressed availablity outside of that relationship. However, I do wish you luck in becoming friends and if a QPR were to develop I think it would be much more appropriate than striving for a QPR from the beginning. Link to post Share on other sites
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