AceOfClubs Posted November 13, 2018 Share Posted November 13, 2018 so I have been questioning myself a lot lately since, ironically, I am becoming more sure I am ace. I bet you all have that "things are going to good, something must be wrong" moments and that is me. Basically I already decided I must be demiromantic, still some questioing there, but I am now questioning if I might be gray. I am not sure what sexual attraction feels like, being 14 and probably ace, so I think that I might have experience it and never noticed. What I am getting to is HOW DOES SEXUAL ATTRACTION FEEL CAUSE I THINK I GOT THE INSTUCTION MANUAL IN THE WRONG LANGUAGE AND MY FRIENDS THAT I CAME OUT TO AINT HELPING! Thanks in advance grays and demis that are good enough to word it in a way that stupid me can understand. awkward fist bump Me Link to post Share on other sites
SithAzathoth WinterDragon Posted November 13, 2018 Share Posted November 13, 2018 You may be asexual but that is for you to call yourself that since we can't say that you are now that is not saying you're NOT since what you've said indicates that you could be somewhere in the spectrum. WELCOME TO AVEN! Link to post Share on other sites
AceOfClubs Posted November 13, 2018 Author Share Posted November 13, 2018 11 minutes ago, Shieldmaiden WinterDragon said: You may be asexual but that is for you to call yourself that since we can't say that you are now that is not saying you're NOT since what you've said indicates that you could be somewhere in the spectrum. WELCOME TO AVEN! I guess my subject was VERY misleading. I want to know what that type of attraction feels like. I mean I know I am demiromantic cause of the amazing people a part of this community but I have no idea what sexual attraction feels like and if I felt it Link to post Share on other sites
SithAzathoth WinterDragon Posted November 13, 2018 Share Posted November 13, 2018 Just now, AceOfClubs said: I guess my subject was VERY misleading. I want to know what that type of attraction feels like. I mean I know I am demiromantic cause of the amazing people a part of this community but I have no idea what sexual attraction feels like and if I felt it I have no idea what it is either and I have no desire for it or anything with it and no worries. You'll make good friends here as you stick around and YES many are great people. Link to post Share on other sites
Katie15 Posted November 13, 2018 Share Posted November 13, 2018 Yeah, I think with a lot of this stuff, it's more about what instinctively makes you feel gross and uncomfortable (for me the only experience I have is from seeing stuff in tv and movies and even reading in books) - something that you just can't imagine yourself doing, or don't want to. and that can maybe lead you some way towards how you think you identify. that's how it has been for me in terms of the icky stuff (I think the fact I have to call it icky stuff and not the real word kind of might be a clue, ha). anyway, hope that might be a teensy bit helpful. either way, I'm here and it's nice to meet you :-) Link to post Share on other sites
AceOfClubs Posted November 13, 2018 Author Share Posted November 13, 2018 Graysexual and demisexuals lend me your knowledge for I am in self doubt of my knowledge. Sincerly set forth with an awkward contact of fists, Me Link to post Share on other sites
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