_James

Completely confused about my sexuality

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_James

Firstly, im a 17 year old male and feel absolutely no sexual desire to anyone.  This leads me to believe I might be asexual.  Although I have never dated before I do want a partner to be happy and cuddle with.  I’d be happy enough dating either gender, although for some reason the standard of men I’d date is much higher than a woman.  

One of my biggest concerns is that I can’t ejactulate.  Porn doesn’t turn me on, and rarely ever get boners, I once tried to masterbate while I had it but nothing happened.  I thought it might be because the tip of my penis is incredibly thin, I went to the doctor about it but he said it’s only mild and shouldn’t be a problem.  I also thought it may be my hormone level, but I show usual signs of good testosterone like a grow facial hair very well for example.  I’m much confused about what in the world is wrong with me.

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TheAP

It sounds to me like you're asexual and non-libidoist.

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MichaelTannock

Welcome to AVEN!

 

It's likely you're a Non-libidoist Asexual like @TheAP suggests since you can't ejaculate.

It also sounds like you're Biromantic, but with a slightly higher preference for women.

 

Incidentally, it is a tradition here to welcome new members by offering cake,

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The Angel of Eternity

@_James Hey! Welcome to heAVEN! There's an infinite amount of 🍰 here, so take what you want!

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Chocolatedevil00

Welcome to AVEN would you perhaps like some more cake? But please don't eat my ducky friend Rubber-Ducky-Baby-Shower-Cake-SQ.jpg

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_James

Wow, thanks everyone.  That makes a lot more sense now, and I can stop stressing over it now.  

Also thanks for the cake🤤

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