wolf1992 Posted October 20, 2018 Share Posted October 20, 2018 I've been super hesitant to come out due to family problems, but am 90% certain that I am at least bi, probably leaning toward women b/c men just piss me off half the time. I've gone on a few dates with men, but have never actually dated. Here's the kicker though, my sexual attraction scale is super low, sometimes nonexistant,and I identify as asexual (not repulsed). Now that's not to say that those feelings won't change if I'm in a committed relationship and actually develop feelings for someone. I suspect that I may just be more gay than I thought and demisexual, however obviously I won't know until I get to that point. Soooo how would y'all advise I start my dating process? I get newly out women being a danger zone for lesbians hurt in the past, and I'm not trying to lead anyone on, but I just don't know at this point. Doesn't help that I'm 26yo with no experience in this department how would you start dating if you were me? Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted October 20, 2018 Share Posted October 20, 2018 Proceed by being honest. If you start to think you like someone enough to want more than casual dating, tell them you arent sure if ace or not. Link to post Share on other sites
Blaiddmelyn Posted October 20, 2018 Share Posted October 20, 2018 Be honest about it and maybe get to know someone as friends first. I made friends with someone who then asked me out and I told her upfront that I wasn't sure I was attracted to women. We had a long discussion about it and decided we'd keep it casual at first, partly to give me space to work out how I felt. It helped a lot that we'd had that initial discussion. Turns out I'm attracted to women. So there we go. Link to post Share on other sites
Telecaster68 Posted October 21, 2018 Share Posted October 21, 2018 Paging @CBC. Link to post Share on other sites
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