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NewAce7

So i have always wondered how sexuals think when they get into certain situation.

My question to to the Ladies.

What happens in your mind when you see a nude guy?

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borkfork

Why is he nude? Am I watching porn? Is this a hypothetical partner? Halloween costume?

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Serran

When I see a nude guy? Usually.. nothing. Or ew. Or awkward. 

 

If I see my partner nude ? Mmm. Nice view. Occasionally, the idea of asking them to come over to the bed and kiss me. 

 

The lets get sexy times going thoughts come more from when we are kissing or otherwise being close already, not viewing someone naked. 

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Wissem

If he does have muscles i try to guess which kind of sport he practice: swimming, running, climbing?

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Galactic Turtle

Close my eyes, maybe scream, definitely run away. 

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disGraceful
22 minutes ago, borkfork said:

Why is he nude? Am I watching porn? Is this a hypothetical partner? Halloween costume?

Yes, I need clarification. Is this an appropriate time for his nudity? Do I know him? Am I attracted to him? I'll try to think of scenarios and how I'd feel about them.

 

Random naked man in public, regardless of attractiveness: AH EW WHY PLEASE STOP IMMEDIATELY

Partner: Yes, good!

My patients: Nothing, they're not choosing to be exposed and it's often because we need to clean them or they aren't in their right mind and are confused. I just cover them up when appropriate to give them some dignity.

Art: Nothing regarding the actual nudity. I appreciate the work of art and attention to detail of the physical form and what messages it portrays.

Porn with attractive man: Meh.

Porn with unattractive man: Ew.

Friend, acquaintance, stranger getting dressed in my vicinity, such as a locker room: Nothing, it's just their body.

A naked man swimming or at a spa: Nothing. I really wish they wore a bathing suit but to each their own.

A nudist: Nothing, just mild confusion as to why they'd want to live like that. My mind would stray to the sanitation of surfaces they sit on rather than the actual nudity.

Actor in a movie: Nothing, it's part of the plot. I might appreciate his appearance but it would be fleeting.

Accidentally walking in on someone while they're naked: OH GOD WHY ME KILL ME NOW [sheer embarrassment] 

 

I can't really think of any other scenarios where I could potentially see a naked man. For the most part, I don't think much of it. Pretty much the only man I like seeing naked is my partner. And if it's inappropriate for someone to be naked, I wouldn't care if they're attractive or not. If I don't mean to or need to see them naked, I would be very embarrassed for the intrusion. 

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embracetheace

uh... depends on the context. If it's half-nude like a swimming event or something I don't mind and maybe admire how in shape he is. Half-nude just somewhere in public, I definitely want him to put a shirt on and leave lol. Full nude? Never been interested, I'm pretty indifferent to the sight of a nude guy. Would be terrified if it was in person for no reason 

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Telecaster68
1 hour ago, NewAce7 said:

i have always wondered how sexuals think when they get into certain situation.

Just sayin'. 

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Alejandrogynous
55 minutes ago, okir fokir said:

My mind would stray to the sanitation of surfaces they sit on rather than the actual nudity.

Slightly off topic, but in all the nudist spaces I've ever been to, it's customary to carry a towel for sitting/laying on. 

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disGraceful
49 minutes ago, Alejandrogynous said:

Slightly off topic, but in all the nudist spaces I've ever been to, it's customary to carry a towel for sitting/laying on. 

I see! I’ve never met a nudist or gone anywhere that encourages nudity so I had no idea

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StormySky

Oh, look, did an art museum statue come to life? Or is this a nude place?

 

Also maybe: haha butts and balls

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Guest Deus Ex Infinity
17 hours ago, NewAce7 said:

So i have always wondered how sexuals think when they get into certain situation.

My question to to the Ladies.

What happens in your mind when you see a nude guy?

Seriously? Either shut my eyes and turn away or run off screaming like hell 😅

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RK800

I'm a guy, but I like men so I'll answer.

It varies. Is he attractive to me? Why is he naked? Where are we? Who is he? Is he a threat?

Edit: apparently seeing a nude man causes me to have an existential crisis.

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Goonie

honestly it depends on the situation. If it's a place where it shouldn't be happening, such as public place and not nudist colony often my mind will first go wait seriously is he naked? Also is he okay? Why is he naked? Does he own clothes? Is there mental issues going on? etc. If it's someone I just started seeing, then unless the hormones are racing normally there's hesitation and telling myself not to think of something funny so laughter doesn't come across wrong etc.

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CBC

Nothin', 'cause I'm gay as shit. :P

 

Truthfully I don't really respond to seeing people's bodies much anyway. The idea of being intimate with someone I love is appealing, and so their naked body is sort of... like, it leads my mind to thinking of doing stuff with them specifically... but I'm quite indifferent to bodies in general. Nudity just in itself has little effect on me.

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uhtred

I'm a straight sexual male, so maybe not the input you want, but anyway:  If I see a nearly nude woman (I don't see nude women other than my wife) my reaction is sometimes to think that she is very attractive, and there is a temptation to look - though of course I don't in most social situations.   But - I don't feel a desire for sex with that person - I'm much more likely to be sexually attracted to someone based on their behavior / personality than because they are physically stunning.  (but I do appreciate very beautiful women). 

 

 

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anisotrophic

I feel like it's weird that this hasn't been said so I'll say it (while not identifying as a "girl").

 

Out of context, for a female-bodied individual, a naked male may be a signal of sexual aggression. A threat. Not an opportunity for pleasure. Male bodies are stronger than female bodies, and can force a female body to unwanted sexual activity. Other power also contributes (social, professional, etc). Consciously or unconsciously, I expect issues of power, control, and trust are likely to steer how an androphilic female-bodied individual is reacting to seeing a naked male body.

 

This may be part of why, generally speaking, het women tend to be "less visual".

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Chimeric

I'm sexual, and my honest answer is - usually nothing. 😃

 

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AcornCarvings
On 7/20/2018 at 1:45 PM, NewAce7 said:

My question to to the Ladies.

What happens in your mind when you see a nude guy?

gay people exist and people aren't attracted to everyone of a certain gender really :P

 

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Pan Ficto. (on hiatus?)

Female bodied, not totally straight but sexualish at least here :P ..Honestly, it depends on the man. But if I don't know him and respect him then I can be pretty turned off for a start. Especially if a guy is all waxed and muscular, ew. If I'm attracted to the guy then it's fun seeing him naked, but I appreciate him more in an aesthetic sense than anything else, if that makes sense? I love seeing naked women, they're God's gift to humankind if you ask me. But men are more..well, they have less fun stuff going on. Other than penis. Penis is fun :P

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uhtred

I think context is important. Even an attractive person walking naked down the street is likely to elicit thoughts of "is something wrong with him / her"  as opposed to anything sexual.   

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NewAce7

So take this senerio as an example.

You are a lady.
You have a male friend.

You guys are very good friends and quite close.

He comes out of the shower.

You are in the room.
You guys are having a conversation.

He takes off the towel wrapped around him.

Walks around to get his cloths and start getting dressed.

You are there all through this time.

He doesn't seem to care.

He keeps talking.

Now he is dressed.

.....................

 

What goes on In your mind?

How would you think of him from that moment?

Would you still respect him?

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Serran

I would wonder why he just did that, avert my eyes and go quiet. 

 

It wouldn't be lack of respect for him, but a friend would know I'm not OK with nudity like that so should respect me enough to not do it. 

 

I certainly wouldn't be enjoying the view, or thinking anything sexual. 

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SG100084

Even the most sexual women I have been with have never been into me as nude guy until past the touching stage. Lady I am seeing now is VERY sexually motivated and would be horrified if I was undressed before we were at the "moving on to the next stage of passion" stage. But a lot of women have enjoyed seeing my bum in various states of attire. (Have had 2 #Metoo moments where strangers grabbed it out of the blue).


 

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SG100084

Another perspective is when I was co-habiting with my ex, we had one of her girlfriends round to stay and I walked in on her when she was naked, by accident. This was an absolutely stunningly beautiful woman, but I was horrified and ran out of the room in embarrassment. Maybe that's just English prudeishness. The nude lady was completely unphased by it.

So nudeness is all about context, also for guys and CIS people.

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Lara Black

 

17 hours ago, NewAce7 said:

So take this senerio as an example.

You are a lady.
You have a male friend.

You guys are very good friends and quite close.

He comes out of the shower.

You are in the room.
You guys are having a conversation.

He takes off the towel wrapped around him.

Walks around to get his cloths and start getting dressed.

You are there all through this time.

He doesn't seem to care.

He keeps talking.

Now he is dressed.

.....................

 

What goes on In your mind?

How would you think of him from that moment?

Would you still respect him?

As for me, nothing would go through my head – I’m like that myself, and I can freely change around people with no regard to their gender. But that’s if we’re talking about a friend or any guy I’m comfortable around. If it’s *my* guy – the man I love – then it’s totally different, and I just can’t resist the temptation: I simply must come up, cuddle, kiss and caress him. His naked body reminds me of all the pleasure he gives me, of all the pleasure I can give him etc.

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chandrakirti

Absolutely nothing. As a nurse of some decades, even if I was sexual I'd have gotten bored with all the nudity by now!😆

 

I only ever worked with one nurse who made sexual comments about the men she was nursing....very unprofessional and behind it all was a rather sad person caught up in a 'love triangle' of her own making, who eventually had a breakdown of her own making as well. It doesn't pay to be silly.

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Serran
9 hours ago, SG100084 said:

Even the most sexual women I have been with have never been into me as nude guy until past the touching stage. Lady I am seeing now is VERY sexually motivated and would be horrified if I was undressed before we were at the "moving on to the next stage of passion" stage. But a lot of women have enjoyed seeing my bum in various states of attire. (Have had 2 #Metoo moments where strangers grabbed it out of the blue).


 

Thats interesting. 

 

Personally, I love the intimacy of more casual nudity with a partner. But, no one else. Its like they are so comfortable with you, it makes sharing the most vulnerable state OK. And its sexy watching my partner get changed, even though it leads to nothing. 

 

And random grabs are so annoying. :(

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Alejandrogynous
On 8/4/2018 at 2:42 PM, NewAce7 said:

You are a lady.
You have a male friend.

You guys are very good friends and quite close.

He comes out of the shower.

You are in the room.
You guys are having a conversation.

He takes off the towel wrapped around him.

Walks around to get his cloths and start getting dressed.

You are there all through this time.

He doesn't seem to care.

He keeps talking.

Now he is dressed.

Ah, so like pretty much every roommate I've ever had. :lol: No, this wouldn't faze me in the least, especially since (if we're close) he'd know that nudity doesn't bother me and that I'd do the same thing. 

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gaogao

idk but contrary to popular belief, women are not a hivemind and no two women are necessarily gonna have exactly the same answer to this as each other....... whether they are sexual or not.. 

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