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Am i asexual ?? (Male,17) Pls help me pls!!!

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Hello , sorry for my bad english:)

i already dont know if im asexual or not So i want to ask you guys what do you think..

i always thought im sexual person due to some reasons :

i always realy was strongly attracted to girls..

first of all , i do feel sort of strong attraction to girls , for example if i seat in class with  girl who i find attractive near me , i feel extremly urge to touch her and be more close to her.. and even if our legs touch i can get erection and i feel very good feeling,also her voice and smell it give me very good feeling and make me  want her. sometimes i can get erecions just by looking a girl who i find attractive and fanatsize about her..and i feel like touching her is amazing feeling,, ( touch her boobs or vagina make me extremly horny)

almost every day i fantaize a lot about having sex with  girls who i find attractiive in real life and i feel like it would be the best feeling i can have and i extremly want it ( im still virgin).

i extremy love and attracted to naked girls  , boobs , ass ,etc..

(i feel none of those feeling to men)

So i do extremly want to touch/have sex / be naked with girl and i realy looking forward to it .. i realy want it

 

now what made me doubt about my sexuality is that in the 3 weeks , all those feeling are gone..i dont know if my libido is currently low or i became asexual..

i see a girls , or sit near girl and i dont get the feeling i described before anymore.. and its extremly scares me that i will never exprience it again,.. i also have OCD so now every girl i doing a lot of complusions for example  i panic and check her out to make sure im attracted to her and it drives me crazy..

one last thing is that i used porn since im 11 , every day 3 or 4 times.. and i read on interent that it can damage the attraction to real life girls so i currently stop using porn.(last 3 days)

i currently obsessing with this topic and cant get it out of my head for alot of days.. i extremly fear i became asexual and will never feel those feeling again..Pls help me guys

What do you think ? did i become asexual ?

is it because of porn / low libidow / Stress/?

will my attraction to girls come back? 

Pls help me i extremly nervous right now..

 

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Grimalkin

You're not asexual; asexuality is something you're born with, and most asexuals never feel sexual attraction at all.

 

Libido naturally comes and goes in life. There will be times, especially when you're older, that you just don't feel like having sex, and that's okay. Don't fall for the idea that men always want sex, it's not true and it can put unnecessary pressure on you.

 

If a lack of libido persists for some time, it may be worth seeing a doctor about it. It could be poor diet or low levels of something or stress-related. If you're worried that you're watching too much porn, cut back on it and see if you feel better.

 

You didn't become asexual. Take a deep breath. You're going to be fine.

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Reindeer Dani
2 hours ago, Grimalkin said:

You're not asexual; asexuality is something you're born with, and most asexuals never feel sexual attraction at all.

 

Libido naturally comes and goes in life. There will be times, especially when you're older, that you just don't feel like having sex, and that's okay. Don't fall for the idea that men always want sex, it's not true and it can put unnecessary pressure on you.

 

If a lack of libido persists for some time, it may be worth seeing a doctor about it. It could be poor diet or low levels of something or stress-related. If you're worried that you're watching too much porn, cut back on it and see if you feel better.

 

You didn't become asexual. Take a deep breath. You're going to be fine.

I agree. Being asexual usually means never feeling the sexual attraction that others usually feel.

 

I'd recommend seeing a doctor, if you have one. It sounds like this is causing you a lot of distress. It may be a good idea to see a doctor if this continues. Hopefully your doctor is someone you trust and can discuss such topics with.

 

I hope that everything works out for you. :) 

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nanogretchen4

No one is horny 24/7. You happened to notice a moment when you weren't particularly horny. Then by your own account you started panicking every time you're near a girl. No one is horny in the middle of a panic attack. Since you know that you have OCD I assume you know a doctor you can talk to about this. If you can get your anxiety under control I think your libido will go right back to normal.

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