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Had a weird moment on the bus today (NOT CLICKBAIT)


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Hey all, I just wanted to share this and see what you think. So today in the middle of the bus route this kid moved over and sat down right next to me and asked if I wanted to see something on his phone. So I looked, and at first glance it was just a video of a girl dancing around. Then the girl started to take her top off to show her *bare chest,* and instinctually I looked away immediately, as I've always been repulsed by that kind of imagery. I told the guy that it was gross (and it was – after all it was in the middle of the bus and he was trying to show me what might possibly have been borderline pornography) and he was confused, and I replied that I wasn't interested in girls or sex. (I tried to word it as nicely as possible). This was after I had made it clear to him that I also wasn't gay. He was shocked, he moved right away from me like "move move move move" and he was like "what is wrong with you?"

 

I don't really know, he probably just wasn't really informed. I just wanted to share and see what you all think. Did I do the right thing?

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don’t worry. There might be no right way. Like, in public everyone’s a jerk & no matter who says what it’s just uuuuuhhjnngjdjfjd

 

Encounters like that have me wanna recluse forever.

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probably it’s right as long as you get out of there & never see them again.

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Sexual Ally

You totally did the right thing.  If that guy if gonna be showing strangers sh*t on his cellphone, he'd better be ready for all sorts of responses.  Some one else might have punched him.  (not advocating violence, but what you did is nothing compared to what someone else might have done/said.)

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Duke Memphis

You told it like it is, but in a neutral, matter-of-fact way. That seems pretty right to me. I think that the kid should recognize that some people aren't into that stuff and are perfectly sane.

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I feel you, dude. I used to hang out with a group of guys, and they would make sex jokes and talk about sex ALL the time. I would tell them to knock it off and they would look at me really weird, saying, “C’mon, it’s natural to talk this way!” Well obviously it’s not natural for some of us.

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That's so inappropriate... What a creep! Seriously I hope he doesn't do that often why the hell would you show something like that to a stranger?

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