kiki_97 Posted May 20, 2018 Share Posted May 20, 2018 I am 21 years old. I have never been sexually attracted to anyone in my life. Sometimes I get aroused and think I want to to something physical, but the two times I tried kissing guys (not even making out just kissing) I was kind of repulsed. Am I asexual? I masturbate sometimes too. Is this normal. I'm freaking out here. Is it possible that I am not asexual and just haven't found a guy that I'm sexually attracted to? I am so confused Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ben8884 Posted May 20, 2018 Share Posted May 20, 2018 Only you can determine whether or by your asexual but for what it's worth, many Aces do experience arousal and masturbate. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Homer Posted May 20, 2018 Share Posted May 20, 2018 Moved from Welcome Lounge to Questions About Asexuality Homer Moderator Welcome Lounge Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Dark Heart Posted May 21, 2018 Share Posted May 21, 2018 I hope this helps... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
everywhere and nowhere Posted May 21, 2018 Share Posted May 21, 2018 14 hours ago, kiki_97 said: I am 21 years old. I have never been sexually attracted to anyone in my life. Sometimes I get aroused and think I want to to something physical, but the two times I tried kissing guys (not even making out just kissing) I was kind of repulsed. Am I asexual? I masturbate sometimes too. Is this normal. I'm freaking out here. Is it possible that I am not asexual and just haven't found a guy that I'm sexually attracted to? I am so confused Just btw, remember that different-sex attraction is not the only possibility. But still it sounds like you could very well be asexual. I have never even kissed anyone of any gender in a way other than familial (and I generally avoid kissing even within the family, I'm moderately touch-averse), but I KNOW without trying anything that the idea of personally having sex feels frightening, disgusting and psychologically impossible to me. I just couldn't do it. I pleasure myself, but I'm absolutely "NO!!!!!" about having partnered sex. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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