carl_44 Posted May 19, 2018 Share Posted May 19, 2018 Does asexual people see beauty in other people? that is my question, I like young and pretty women (19-24) but I don know if an asexual person should like. I like them like a Mercedez o BMW car; I like their beauty. If I like their beauty am I still asexual? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Yep, me Posted May 19, 2018 Share Posted May 19, 2018 Yep, asexualality is centered on sexual desire, while what you described is athsetic apreaceation. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ôÿē èîęēú ïė ēôēįîûôø Posted May 19, 2018 Share Posted May 19, 2018 I see spiritual beauty in others. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Curi Posted May 19, 2018 Share Posted May 19, 2018 They can absolutely see beauty in other people Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Éadweard Posted May 19, 2018 Share Posted May 19, 2018 Yes we do Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Alejandrogynous Posted May 19, 2018 Share Posted May 19, 2018 It's kind of weird that you felt the need to put an age range for the women you find beautiful. But yes, asexual people can see beauty in people, same as everybody else. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
TheAP Posted May 19, 2018 Share Posted May 19, 2018 Yes, that's aesthetic attraction, not sexual. Asexuals can appreciate people's looks in a non-sexual way. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Yep, me Posted May 20, 2018 Share Posted May 20, 2018 19 hours ago, The Angel of Eternity said: I see spiritual beauty in others. I looked up the definition for “spiritual”, I have confirmed, once again, that I cannot wrap my head around the concept. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Ceebs Posted May 20, 2018 Share Posted May 20, 2018 Of course. I'm sexual and yet the vast majority of the time I find myself thinking someone is good-looking, it has zilch to do with feeling romantic or sexual interest in them. It's because I find their appearance aesthetically pleasing or interesting or whatever. I've no idea why an asexual person wouldn't be capable of that as well. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ôÿē èîęēú ïė ēôēįîûôø Posted May 20, 2018 Share Posted May 20, 2018 2 hours ago, Zenzencat104 said: I looked up the definition for “spiritual”, I have confirmed, once again, that I cannot wrap my head around the concept. Personality, ability to forgive, etc. I hope I cleared up some confusion. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Nibiru Posted May 21, 2018 Share Posted May 21, 2018 I also appreciate the beauty of other people, it sometimes even results in an erection. But I never think of sex with that person. Is your feeling similar? 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
carl_44 Posted May 23, 2018 Author Share Posted May 23, 2018 On 5/19/2018 at 9:11 AM, Alejandrogynous said: It's kind of weird that you felt the need to put an age range for the women you find beautiful. But yes, asexual people can see beauty in people, same as everybody else. yes its kind of weird; is like a fixation and I don't not what to do with it but it is. I am an adult now and I think is very annoying for a young girl than an adult person looks at them. Some times I just try to avoid look at them or ignore them. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
carl_44 Posted May 23, 2018 Author Share Posted May 23, 2018 On 5/21/2018 at 11:01 AM, Nibiru said: I also appreciate the beauty of other people, it sometimes even results in an erection. But I never think of sex with that person. Is your feeling similar? yes, kind of. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Alejandrogynous Posted May 23, 2018 Share Posted May 23, 2018 1 hour ago, carl_44 said: yes its kind of weird; is like a fixation and I don't not what to do with it but it is. I am an adult now and I think is very annoying for a young girl than an adult person looks at them. Some times I just try to avoid look at them or ignore them. I mean, it's not weird that you find young women attractive. That's pretty normal. Very normal, actually. What was weird was that, in asking your original question, you had to specify an exact age range to us that you find attractive (and that they were pretty), like it makes a difference one way or another. Or would you not be questioning this if you found women of your own age more beautiful than young ones? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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