verymelancholic Posted April 25, 2018 Share Posted April 25, 2018 I see it quite often in many places like here and others, but I can't really find a proper definition of it. Maybe it describes me, maybe it doesn't. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Cobie Posted April 25, 2018 Share Posted April 25, 2018 (edited) . Edited May 2, 2020 by Gast 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
everywhere and nowhere Posted April 25, 2018 Share Posted April 25, 2018 In yet simpler terms: a tendency to have erotic fantasies in third person, to imagine some other people having sex, not oneself having sex with some other person. But generally I feel like this. Sex is OK as long as it's not related to myself. I'm not even sex-indifferent, I'm wholly sex-averse and the idea of personally having sex is intensely uncomfortable and even scary to me. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Phoebs Posted August 12, 2018 Share Posted August 12, 2018 would the term still apply if you fantacize of yourself as a different person? for instance, if I watch porn or read erotic material and visualize myself as one of the people involved but dont feel any arousal imagining my actual self performing sexual acts. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Qatari Posted April 2, 2019 Share Posted April 2, 2019 On 8/12/2018 at 4:26 PM, Phoebs said: would the term still apply if you fantacize of yourself as a different person? for instance, if I watch porn or read erotic material and visualize myself as one of the people involved but dont feel any arousal imagining my actual self performing sexual acts. That's a great question. I personally would think so but I'd be interested to see what others have to say. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
NickyTannock Posted April 2, 2019 Share Posted April 2, 2019 @Qatari Welcome to AVEN! I agree because then you're not yourself in the fantasy. Incidentally, it is a tradition here to welcome new members by offering cake, and here are some Qatari Cupcakes, 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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