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Hey everyone, so basically I have been trying to figure out whether or not I'm asexual. I am a 16 year old girl and have had previous relationships with men and women, but have never wanted to kiss or do anything sexual with them. I thought something was wrong with me for awhile until I found out about asexuality. At first I tried taking a bunch of tests since I didn't really know how to go about it, and all of them came with the result of me being asexual. I wasn't sure whether to trust online quizzes though, so I tried talking to a friend. She told me "you never know until you try it" and a bunch of similar stuff. I have honestly never felt sexual attraction to anyone besides someone being aesthetically attractive, and find the thought of me being in a sexual situation uncomfortable. I guess I'm just really confused, and I'm looking for people to talk to about it. Thanks for reading and it is a pleasure to meet you all!

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Welcome!  Tests can be a good jumping off point to know what to read up on, but I found the most helpful thing is reading other peoples stories and comparing them to mine.  I hope this helps!

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Welcome! You don’t need to do something to know whether or not you want it. Don’t force yourself to do something your not comfortable with. Take your time and go through it step by step in your mind. It’s okay if it takes a while, it’s more important that you feel comfortable with the results.

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Hello there, and welcome to AVEN! :cake:

As part of my welcome to you, I'd like to point out some important threads that might be helpful in your first few days here. :) The Terms of Service is here. We recommend you read it over, and if you have any questions please don't hesitate to send either myself or any other administrator or moderator (the "admod" team, as we're called) a message.  Also, there's a handy forum called Site Info, which has some useful information including a thread outlining who moderates which forum. If you ever need something done in or have questions about a specific forum, please message the mod of that forum. And if you have problems with the site in general, or any single member, please message any admod. 

The following are also nifty links to take a look at:  Welcome Lounge Mini Manual | Welcoming 101 | Quick Guide to the Forums | Asexuality FAQ's

 Again, welcome to AVEN and I hope your stay is everything you hoped!

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