Callum Posted August 17, 2019 Share Posted August 17, 2019 Kissing (forehead and cheek) yes kissing (mouth) maybe hand holding yes cuddling yes hugging yes other affectionate touching yes hugging in public no cuddling in public no kissing (forehead and cheek) in public no kissing (mouth) in public no hand holding in public no other affectionate in public maybe eye gazing maybe crying on yes being cried on yes Massage (giving) maybe massage (receiving) maybe hair brushing (giving) no hair brushing (receiving) no Nail painting (giving) no nail painting (receiving) no shaving (giving) no shaving (receiving) no bathing together (with suits) maybe bathing together (naked) maybe seeing your partner naked maybe my partner seeing me naked maybe feeding my partner no my partner feeding me no tickling (being tickled) yes tickling (doing the tickling) yes terms of endearment yes being called “best friend” yes being called “partner” yes being called romantically-coded words (boyfriend, girlfriend ect) maybe having other platonic partners no my partner having other platonic partners no me having other romantic partners no my partner having other romantic partners no my partner doing romantic-coded things with someone else no me doing romantic-coded things with someone else no my partner doing sexual things with someone else no me doing sexual things with someone else no touching my partner sexually no being touched by my partner sexually no having sex of any kind with my partner no sexual kink with my partner no non-sexual kink with my partner no romantically coded gifts (flowers, chocolates ect) yes dancing no bed sharing (non-affectionate) yes bed sharing (cuddling) yes tucking my partner maybe being tucked maybe living together yes platonic marriage maybe raising children together yes Having pets together yes other stipulations/concerns Link to post Share on other sites
dragon_cake Posted August 18, 2019 Share Posted August 18, 2019 Spoiler Kissing (forehead, cheek, etc): noKissing (mouth): idk (I would say no but at the same time I haven't actually kissed mouth-to-mouth)Hand holding: noCuddling: maybeHugging: maybeOther affectionate touching: idkHugging in public: noCuddling in public: noKissing (forehead, cheek, etc) in public: yes (not all the time though)Kissing (mouth) in public: idkHand holding in public: maybe (if we can get lost in a crowd)Other affectionate touch in public: noEye gazing: idkCrying on: noBeing cried on: maybe Massage (giving): yesMassage (receiving): yesHair brushing (giving): noHair brushing (receiving): noNail painting (giving): maybeNail painting (receiving): maybeShaving (giving): no Shaving (receiving): no Bathing together (with bathing suits): yes Bathing together (naked): maybe Seeing my partner naked: maybe My partner seeing me naked: maybeFeeding my partner: maybeBeing fed by my partner: maybe Tickling (being tickled): no Tickling (doing the tickling): maybe Terms of endearment: maybeBeing called “best friend”: yesBeing called “partner”: yesBeing called romantically-coded words (boyfriend, girlfriend, etc): maybeMe having other platonic partners: yesMy partner having other platonic partners: yesMe having other romantic partners: noMy partner having other romantic partners: noMy partner doing romantic-coded things with someone else: noMe doing romantic-coded things with someone else: noMy partner doing sexual things with someone else: maybeMe doing sexual things with someone else: noTouching my partner sexually: maybeBeing touched by my partner sexually: maybeHaving sex of any kind with my partner [specify if yes]: maybe (probably more sensual stuff and barely having skin contact) Sexual kink with my partner [specify if yes]: maybe (it depends what that might be)Non-sexual kink with my partner [specify if yes]: maybe? “Romantically coded” gifts (flowers, chocolates, etc): no Dancing: maybeBed sharing (non-affectionate): yesBed sharing (cuddling): maybeTucking my partner in: maybeBeing tucked in: maybeLiving together: yes[Platonic] marriage: yesRaising children together: no Having pets together: yes Other stipulations/concerns: Must be willing to compromise depending on sexual and romantic orientation. Link to post Share on other sites
Janus the Fox Posted August 18, 2019 Share Posted August 18, 2019 Kissing (forehead, cheek, etc): yesKissing (mouth): lips dryHand holding: yes Cuddling: yesHugging: yes not too longOther affectionate touching: noHugging in public: noCuddling in public: noKissing (forehead, cheek, etc) in public: yes (important for LGBT visibility here)Kissing (mouth) in public: lips dryHand holding in public: yes (important for LGBT visibility here, useful in large crowds)Other affectionate touch in public: noEye gazing: noCrying on: yesBeing cried on: yesMassage (giving): yesMassage (receiving): noHair brushing (giving): noHair brushing (receiving): noNail painting (giving): maybe to a friendNail painting (receiving): yes professionallyShaving (giving): no Shaving (receiving): no Bathing together (with bathing suits): noBathing together (naked): noSeeing my partner naked: yesMy partner seeing me naked: yesFeeding my partner: noBeing fed by my partner: noTickling (being tickled): no Tickling (doing the tickling): noTerms of endearment: no, feels fake doing so Being called “best friend”: yesBeing called “partner”: yesBeing called romantically-coded words (boyfriend, girlfriend, etc): noMe having other platonic partners: no, one at a timeMy partner having other platonic partners: noMe having other romantic partners: noMy partner having other romantic partners: noMy partner doing romantic-coded things with someone else: noMe doing romantic-coded things with someone else: noMy partner doing sexual things with someone else: noMe doing sexual things with someone else: noTouching my partner sexually: noBeing touched by my partner sexually: yes, within sensory limitsHaving sex of any kind with my partner [specify if yes]: yes, within sensory limits, if well enoughSexual kink with my partner [specify if yes]: yes, furry fetish, femboyism fetishNon-sexual kink with my partner [specify if yes]: yes, submissive worship, plush worship“Romantically coded” gifts (flowers, chocolates, etc): noDancing: no, physically impossibleBed sharing (non-affectionate): yesBed sharing (cuddling): yesTucking my partner in: noBeing tucked in: noLiving together: no[Platonic] marriage: noRaising children together: no Having pets together: no Other stipulations/concerns: Must be willing to compromise, must be able to go without sex or any contact for long stretches of time, dependent on my libido, pain, mood and readiness. Link to post Share on other sites
Noko42 Posted August 18, 2019 Share Posted August 18, 2019 Kissing (forehead, cheek, etc): yesKissing (mouth): maybeHand holding: yes Cuddling: yesHugging: yesOther affectionate touching: noHugging in public: yesCuddling in public: probably notKissing (forehead, cheek, etc) in public: yeahKissing (mouth) in public: don't knowHand holding in public: yesOther affectionate touch in public: noEye gazing: noCrying on: yesBeing cried on: yesMassage (giving): yesMassage (receiving): noHair brushing (giving): noHair brushing (receiving): noNail painting (giving): yes, as long as they don't want it to artistic Nail painting (receiving): yes why notShaving (giving): no Shaving (receiving): no Bathing together (with bathing suits): noBathing together (naked): noSeeing my partner naked: maybeMy partner seeing me naked: maybeFeeding my partner: noBeing fed by my partner: noTickling (being tickled): yesTickling (doing the tickling): yesTerms of endearment: don't knowBeing called “best friend”: yesBeing called “partner”: yesBeing called romantically-coded words (boyfriend, girlfriend, etc): yesMe having other platonic partners: no just oneMy partner having other platonic partners: noMe having other romantic partners: noMy partner having other romantic partners: noMy partner doing romantic-coded things with someone else: noMe doing romantic-coded things with someone else: noMy partner doing sexual things with someone else: noMe doing sexual things with someone else: noTouching my partner sexually: noBeing touched by my partner sexually: noHaving sex of any kind with my partner [specify if yes]: noSexual kink with my partner [specify if yes]: noNon-sexual kink with my partner [specify if yes]:yes, furry and cosplay“Romantically coded” gifts (flowers, chocolates, etc): yesDancing: yes, if they wear steel capped boots lol Bed sharing (non-affectionate): yesBed sharing (cuddling): yesTucking my partner in: noBeing tucked in: noLiving together: yes[Platonic] marriage: noRaising children together: no Having pets together: yes Other stipulations/concerns: both being able to compromise without trying to break set boundaries. And keeping communication open, ideas and views change as we grow. Link to post Share on other sites
DarkStormyKnight Posted August 21, 2019 Share Posted August 21, 2019 Interesting! I'll give it a shot. Kissing (forehead, cheek, etc): yes Kissing (mouth): yes Hand holding: yesCuddling: yesHugging: yesOther affectionate touching: yesHugging in public: yesCuddling in public: yes after some timeKissing (forehead, cheek, etc) in public: yesKissing (mouth) in public: yes after some timeHand holding in public: yesOther affectionate touch in public: yes after some timeEye gazing: yesCrying on: yes Being cried on: yesMassage (giving): yesMassage (receiving): heck yeckHair brushing (giving): yesHair brushing (receiving): yesNail painting (giving): yesNail painting (receiving): no thanksShaving (giving): depends on where? Shaving (receiving): nopeBathing together (with bathing suits): yesBathing together (naked): maybe after a lot of time...Seeing my partner naked: maybe My partner seeing me naked: maybeFeeding my partner: yesBeing fed by my partner: yesTickling (being tickled): very ticklish so it's going to happen eventuallyTickling (doing the tickling): yesTerms of endearment: yesBeing called “best friend”: yesBeing called “partner”: yesBeing called romantically-coded words (boyfriend, girlfriend, etc): nooooMe having other platonic partners: noMy partner having other platonic partners: noMe having other romantic partners: noMy partner having other romantic partners: noMy partner doing romantic-coded things with someone else: noMe doing romantic-coded things with someone else: noMy partner doing sexual things with someone else: noMe doing sexual things with someone else: noTouching my partner sexually: def wouldn't initiateBeing touched by my partner sexually: maybe, would have to feel very comfortableHaving sex of any kind with my partner [specify if yes]: maybe if was in a long term relationshipSexual kink with my partner [specify if yes]: noNon-sexual kink with my partner [specify if yes]: no“Romantically coded” gifts (flowers, chocolates, etc): yesDancing: yessssssBed sharing (non-affectionate): yesBed sharing (cuddling): yesTucking my partner in: strange but okBeing tucked in: strange but okLiving together: yes[Platonic] marriage: yesRaising children together: I'm not interested but if partner wants then maybeHaving pets together: yesOther stipulations/concerns Link to post Share on other sites
✨uwu✨ Posted September 24, 2020 Share Posted September 24, 2020 totally late, but i wanted to try this! Kissing (forehead, cheek, etc): yes Kissing (mouth): yes Hand holding: yes Cuddling: yes Hugging: yes Other affectionate touching: yes Hugging in public: yes Cuddling in public: yes Kissing (forehead, cheek, etc) in public: yes Kissing (mouth) in public: yes Hand holding in public: yes Other affectionate touch in public: yes Eye gazing: not rly, but I'm fine w it ig Crying on: yes Being cried on: yes Massage (giving): yes Massage (receiving): yes Hair brushing (giving): yes Hair brushing (receiving): yes Nail painting (giving): yes Nail painting (receiving): yes Shaving (giving): no Shaving (receiving): no Bathing together (with bathing suits): maybe Bathing together (naked): maybe Seeing my partner naked: yes My partner seeing me naked: yes Feeding my partner: yes Being fed by my partner: yes Tickling (being tickled): yes Tickling (doing the tickling): yes Terms of endearment: yes Being called “best friend”: yes Being called “partner”: yes Being called romantically-coded words (boyfriend, girlfriend, etc): no Me having other platonic partners: yes My partner having other platonic partners: yes Me having other romantic partners: I don't want any My partner having other romantic partners: yes My partner doing romantic-coded things with someone else: yes Me doing romantic-coded things with someone else: yes My partner doing sexual things with someone else: no Me doing sexual things with someone else: no Touching my partner sexually: both are asexual Being touched by my partner sexually: nope Having sex of any kind with my partner [specify if yes]: no Sexual kink with my partner [specify if yes]: yes, sadomasochism Non-sexual kink with my partner [specify if yes]: not sure “Romantically coded” gifts (flowers, chocolates, etc): yes!!! Dancing: omg yes Bed sharing (non-affectionate): yes Bed sharing (cuddling): yes Tucking my partner in: yes Being tucked in: yes Living together: yes [Platonic] marriage: yes Raising children together: yes! Having pets together: yes Link to post Share on other sites
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