blunose2772 Posted March 13, 2018 Share Posted March 13, 2018 Hello all. First time posting on this forum. I am attracted to people but have no desire whatsoever in sex. I look more for companionship. Had one relationship in my life but she dumped me after she couldn't get me to have sex with her. I was attracted to her, but not interested (and a little scared) of sex. I look for someone who would be fun to be around and have good conversations with. I've been looking into asexuality and it seems like I fit into it. Found this site through a youtube video I was watching on the asexual spectrum. I'm mainly just confused about the way I feel (or don't feel). Link to post Share on other sites
Platonic Underdog Posted March 13, 2018 Share Posted March 13, 2018 Hi and welcome to Aven, have some cake 🍰🍰🍰 it's understandable that you're confused. But feel free to ask any questions you have or just have a chat about what is that's confusing you. I hope you enjoy your time here 😊 Link to post Share on other sites
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Claire1983 Posted March 13, 2018 Share Posted March 13, 2018 27 minutes ago, blunose2772 said: I'm mainly just confused about the way I feel (or don't feel). Me too! But this is a good place to become less confused. I had the opposite experience. I've broken up with a few guys because I didn't want to sleep with them. I totally understand being a little scared of sex. I thought that in order to have a boyfriend I would have to have sex so I forced myself to try it but it just didn't work for me and I never managed to do it sober. Sounds like you're very likely in the right place, I hope this forum helps. Link to post Share on other sites
Dean. Posted March 13, 2018 Share Posted March 13, 2018 Welcome to AVEN! definitely sounds like you are asexual, hopefully you find more out about it and about yourself while you are on here! if you have questions odds are you can find the answer on the forums, if not, ask the other people on here and we will do our best to answer. Link to post Share on other sites
Lichley Posted March 13, 2018 Share Posted March 13, 2018 Welcome! Feel free to ask us anything, we’re more than happy to answer any questions you might have Link to post Share on other sites
Lia Posted March 14, 2018 Share Posted March 14, 2018 Hello there, and welcome to AVEN! As part of my welcome to you, I'd like to point out some important threads that might be helpful in your first few days here. The Terms of Service is here. We recommend you read it over, and if you have any questions please don't hesitate to send either myself or any other administrator or moderator (the "admod" team, as we're called) a message. Also, there's a handy forum called Site Info, which has some useful information including a thread outlining who moderates which forum. If you ever need something done in or have questions about a specific forum, please message the mod of that forum. And if you have problems with the site in general, or any single member, please message any admod. The following are also nifty links to take a look at: Welcome Lounge Mini Manual | Welcoming 101 | Quick Guide to the Forums | Asexuality FAQ's Again, welcome to AVEN and I hope your stay is everything you hoped! Link to post Share on other sites
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