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So, I've tried watching porn in the past, but I've always found it to be stupid. It's just not what I like. I suddenly realized I was asexual, and that brought up the concern for me, "What do people find attractive about porn?" So I go to multiple porn discord servers and I ask the people. I got a variety of responses, but none of them were helpful. Here's a shortened list of them:
"Autistic faggot can't get laid and just claims asexuality for attention"
"lol how gay ur mom"
"porn is life"
"It's just... really sexy"

NONE OF THIS HELPS ME LEARN WHAT PEOPLE LIKE!!! I JUST WANT TO FIT IN AND UNDERSTANDING IS SOMETHING THAT HELPS A LOT.

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I don't get porn either to be honest. For some, it's a way to blow off steam, for others, it's voyeurism, for still others, the simple answer is that their brains live in the gutter. Everyone has their reasons.

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Why do you need to understand it?  It's just a thing that some people like and you don't.  No worries. 

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@squaggly, welcome to AVEN 🎂 🎂

 

You're in the right place to ask here, where people understand asexulity, rather than be a target for trolls and ignorance elsewhere :)

 

There is no rule that says everyone has to like anything, especially porn. Even among Aces some like it, some are indifferent and some repulsed, so your response is typical :)

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10 hours ago, dentedcanoe said:

Why do you need to understand it?  It's just a thing that some people like and you don't.  No worries. 

I just wanted to understand it so that I would know what people do with their lives. I want to know what people think about things, so I can see the world more clearly

 

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Tasha the demi squirrel

I've never understood either so you're not alone 

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