Anxious Aromantic Posted February 26, 2018 Share Posted February 26, 2018 I am currently pretty sure I'm aromantic, for the record. Okay, let's give a scenario. You see someone walking down the street with a nice butt and you find them hot. your body reacts how it does (trying to keep this gender neutral) but the idea of putting a part of your body inside their body just disgusts you to no end. One part seems allosexual the other seems asexual. Please help, idk about you but being confused about my sexuality is just the worst. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Philip027 Posted February 26, 2018 Share Posted February 26, 2018 Yes. This would make you a sex-repulsed sexual (which is an actual thing; many others like this have been on these boards) Not all sexuals necessarily want to act on it though, same as any other sort of thing where you might have an urge to do it but have your own reasons for not doing so which can override that urge. Some might have religious reasons, some might have more practical reasons (they are not willing to risk pregnancy, disease, or attachment), others might just think it's gross. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dentedcanoe Posted February 26, 2018 Share Posted February 26, 2018 it's just your body reacting to stimuli (visual input) 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
everywhere and nowhere Posted February 26, 2018 Share Posted February 26, 2018 @FictoVore. would say that it isn't sexual attraction and I'd agree with her. Her kind of opinion brought me some peace of mind. I'm able too to feel this kind of "attraction" - but completely unable to actually desire sex with anyone. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Gldlynch Posted February 26, 2018 Share Posted February 26, 2018 Hey Anxious Asexual I think you absolutely can - I reckon that is what it’s like to have a low sex drive. You find people sexually attractive but not have a desire acting upon those feelings which simply results in not having sex 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ben8884 Posted February 26, 2018 Share Posted February 26, 2018 In my opinion? Sure. I can think someone is attractiveand be aroused. I call myself asexual because while I can feel this way I hsve no desire for partnered sex. This is a good thread in my opinion. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
soda59 Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 I always call it aesthetic attraction, but I don't really find butts that attractive . For me it's like I'm stuck where I was when I was a kid. I would swoon over boy band members for being cute but never actually wanted to have sex with them. There are quite a few people I find to be dreamy. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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