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Just joined yesterday because I wanted to talk about a close friend of mine using the fact that I'm lithromantic asexual to dump all of the things her boyfriend didn't want to do onto me. Ended up forum lurking and learning what lithromantic is so I no longer have to say quasi-demi-a-romantic, so it's definitely been a plus.

 

Happy to meet you all and looking forward to many more years of forum lurking

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Welcome to AVEN! :cake:

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Welcome! Why not tell her to stop using your orientation as an excuse to dump of of the thing her boyfriend didn’t want to do onto you?

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I tried. She wants to marry him and won't dump him for anything. She also thinks it's the best solution because I turned her down a year ago explaining my... as I called it at the time quasi-demi-a-romantic asexuality and her boyfriend doesn't like her venting to him and doing certain things. She thinks everyone gets whats best, she gets romance and sex from her boyfriend and I get what I said I wanted out of a relationship. I didnt notice till she started pushing everything that her boyfriend hated about her onto me. I wish I noticed sooner and put a stop to it before that thought began

 

I invited her over to hand me wrenches while I worked on my wrangler and cook a lunch together. I started explaining about how this was turning into and she kept saying it was fine because  "you're ace". I should have said what I felt there but instead I took out more frustration on the wrench. I texted her later that I did enjoy being around her but I didn't want to be enabling her toxic relationship> she flipped out about how they were destined lovers and will be married and I was ruining something that worked perfectly. After that I've been ignoring her messages

 

On a more positive note... thanks for the cake. I'm sugar intolerant so I'm going to pretend that they're made with coconut sugar  

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Hello there, and welcome to AVEN! :cake:

As part of my welcome to you, I'd like to point out some important threads that might be helpful in your first few days here. :) The Terms of Service is here. We recommend you read it over, and if you have any questions please don't hesitate to send either myself or any other administrator or moderator (the "admod" team, as we're called) a message.  Also, there's a handy forum called Site Info, which has some useful information including a thread outlining who moderates which forum. If you ever need something done in or have questions about a specific forum, please message the mod of that forum. And if you have problems with the site in general, or any single member, please message any admod. 

The following are also nifty links to take a look at:  Welcome Lounge Mini Manual | Welcoming 101 | Quick Guide to the Forums | Asexuality FAQ's

 Again, welcome to AVEN and I hope your stay is everything you hoped!

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Here is a naturally sweet sugar free cake slice :cake:

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