Atypicalmuse Posted February 24, 2018 Share Posted February 24, 2018 Hi, I’ve been lurking around these boards for a bit, just trying to figure things out about myself- still a little confused, but that’s okay, I still feel relieved that I’m not quite as alien as I’ve often thought. About me- I’m a 39 year old divorced female- and despite an 8 year marriage and 2 teenaged children, I still feel somewhat inexperienced of life. I’ve had very few relationships, and even in my marriage, sex seemed more like a chore than anything else. I’ve had better experiences with it since divorcing, but it’s still something I could take or leave at the best of times, and other times I go through phases of not wanting any physical interaction with anyone, least of all sex. I would so far say that I’m probably demi and possibly gray sexual, and somewhat low on the romantic spectrum as well, possibly totally aro since I kind of don’t really get other people’s compulsions to “have” to always be in a relationship. Right now, I’m really feeling that if I never have a romantic relationship or sex ever again, I’ll be just fine. Anyways, I’m kind of shy, so I may not post a lot, but I’m looking forward to figuring more things out as I interact in this community. Link to post Share on other sites
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Lia Posted February 25, 2018 Share Posted February 25, 2018 Hello there, and welcome to AVEN! As part of my welcome to you, I'd like to point out some important threads that might be helpful in your first few days here. The Terms of Service is here. We recommend you read it over, and if you have any questions please don't hesitate to send either myself or any other administrator or moderator (the "admod" team, as we're called) a message. Also, there's a handy forum called Site Info, which has some useful information including a thread outlining who moderates which forum. If you ever need something done in or have questions about a specific forum, please message the mod of that forum. And if you have problems with the site in general, or any single member, please message any admod. The following are also nifty links to take a look at: Welcome Lounge Mini Manual | Welcoming 101 | Quick Guide to the Forums | Asexuality FAQ's Again, welcome to AVEN and I hope your stay is everything you hoped! Link to post Share on other sites
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