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If people didn't look at butts, businesses wouldn't advertise on clothing covering them. Motorcycle riders are a case in point 

 

Spoilered as the enclosed means something slightly offensive to some people outside Britain

Yet fag butts is a totally innocent expression in Britain, it just refers to the dogend or discarded filter tip of a cigarette

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On 05/02/2018 at 11:56 PM, Telecaster68 said:

The woman can actively control contracting them ...

Bit of an urban myth? They are an involuntary response, for me anyway.

 

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... but you can't always feel contractions anyhow ...

Some women sometimes do not have them? I wouldn’t call that an orgasm then. Or do you mean that you’re not always sensitive to them?

 

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... (or maybe I've been fooled by fake orgasms...).

All I know is that I’ve never faked one. 

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Tyger Songbird
On 2/5/2018 at 8:45 AM, IronHamster said:

Different people are into different things.  There is a scat fetish, where people get turned on my feces.  Not my kink.   There are people that eat ass,  but it has to be done right, because it is not the shit you are going for.  Anal sex, toys up the ass, and prostate massages all have to be done right, also, and whenever you take it out, don't look at it, just go wash it. 

Sorry, that all seems gross and icky. Ugh. I'm sorry, but it just seems gross. It makes no sense at all. I'll never understand, I guess. Maybe because I've never seen a butt before, and have never really wanted to. I mean, why would you want to feel a butt really? However, people just adore them. For what reason, I don't know. So, inform me why!

 

Do butts feel good or something?

 

 I just don't understand why people would just fawn and gush over them. I've literally seen people just stop, look back, and stare at some girl's butt before. Just salivating, it seems. I don't get it. I just don't understand. It seems weird to me. It's as weird as the sounds of sex. Now, that is really weird.

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Janus the Fox

Butts, the attraction to butts often goes back to evolutionary biology, that may have been the only attraction.  But until mankind evolved, become bipedal and more social, preferences diverged somewhat.  That's my take on it based on a bit about sexual evolution biology, it goes deeper probably.

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PixleyDust✨

This has to be the BEST THREAD ON THIS ENTIRE SITE. 

 

I could be having a horrible day, and then I see someone asking “Why do people like butts?” and suddenly, my future just seems brighter...somehow.

 

There are some truly beautiful minds on this site. God bless each and every one of you magnificent nerds. 🤣

 

 

P.S.

Everyone’s responses are GOLD. 😆

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On 2/8/2018 at 4:18 PM, tygersongbird said:

Sorry, that all seems gross and icky. Ugh. I'm sorry, but it just seems gross. It makes no sense at all. I'll never understand, I guess. Maybe because I've never seen a butt before, and have never really wanted to. I mean, why would you want to feel a butt really? However, people just adore them. For what reason, I don't know. So, inform me why!

 

Do butts feel good or something?

 

 I just don't understand why people would just fawn and gush over them. I've literally seen people just stop, look back, and stare at some girl's butt before. Just salivating, it seems. I don't get it. I just don't understand. It seems weird to me. It's as weird as the sounds of sex. Now, that is really weird.

Odd. Now all I can think about is baboons, for some reason. 😆

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On 2/3/2018 at 10:32 AM, Laplace said:

I thank my butt for being a nice cushion, but I have fairly wide hips for guy so it’s kinda annoying when a pair of pants fits my waist but doesn’t fit my butt. My mom says it’s better to have a butt than have no butt like some of my relatives, but since I’m not really gonna be attracting anyone anytime soon with my likely aro aceness, my butt is kinda annoying sometimes 😄.

Okay, I’m SUPER jealous because I’m what you would call, “gluteully-challenged”, and I would love that extra cushioning just so I could sit in a chair for more than five minutes without my legs falling asleep. So, screw being attractive, I just want to go on a car trip without losing feeling in the lower half of my body. 🤣

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Adventurefreak

When I came to know that girls loved looking at guys' butts I first thought they were kidding then I was like wtf???

And when I once told a friend that I don't look at guys' butt, I was told that I haven't reached that stage yet.. <_<

SERIOUSLY I don't understand why I should find them attractive and why it makes me be a "late bloomer":angry:

 

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Omg I'll NEVER understand the obsession with butts. My friends wanna touch other's butts, look at them, talk about them and I'm just there like...... why? everyone has one??? what's the big deal????

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Picture yourself as a tomcat. Consider what is just below the butthole on a female cat. Then you can see what the attraction is 

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There is, though, a certain degree of aesthetic appeal in a gently curvy rear aspect covered by fabric 

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Its soft and squishy there ... Though as far as pinching somewhere I'd rather pinch my boyfriend's love handles <3

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I think butts a great but I struggle to explain why. Maybe it’s because they are circular and look so wholesome, maybe it’s because they look squishy and bouncy to pet.

 

Do you know who has ass-tonishing butts? Figure skaters. Seriously, their butts are so round it defies human physics. 

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On 2/6/2018 at 6:40 AM, Thea2 said:

Bit of an urban myth? They are an involuntary response, for me anyway.

 

Some women sometimes do not have them? I wouldn’t call that an orgasm then. Or do you mean that you’re not always sensitive to them?

 

All I know is that I’ve never faked one. 

I don’t think you can stop yourself from having them if it’s happening, but you can force yourself to if you are not. Thus faking an orgasm. 

 

And I happen to like a good ass. And anus. I have a bit of an anal obsession when it comes to porn. No idea why really. 

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10 hours ago, lemon_lime said:

... you can force yourself to if you are not. Thus faking an orgasm.

@lemon_lime "you"?  :angry:  Speak for yourself. 

 

"Force"?   :evil:  WTF.  I definitely will not force myself, that would be violence against myself.  

If you are willing to force yourself, then you and I have very different ideas of what constitutes mental health.

 

"Thus"?   :twisted:  I fail to see the logical connection.  I can pleasure myself, if that's what you mean. But if I choose to give myself an orgasm, then I have an orgasm and nothing fake about that.

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1 hour ago, Thea2 said:

@lemon_lime "you"?  :angry:  Speak for yourself. 

 

"Force"?   :evil:  WTF.  I definitely will not force myself, that would be violence against myself.  

If you are willing to force yourself, then you and I have very different ideas of what constitutes mental health.

 

"Thus"?   :twisted:  I fail to see the logical connection.  I can pleasure myself, if that's what you mean. But if I choose to give myself an orgasm, then I have an orgasm and nothing fake about that.

I was only referring to forcing your muscles to flex, or even spasm. Its called kegels, which I know how to do because I’ve had children. I’ve never personally faked an orgasm. And I wasn’t necessarily condemning or condoning. 

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I get the appeal of butts for sure... But not to the point of some of my friends! I like to look at a guys butt for sure, a nicely shaped butt is just something my eyes are drawn too. However, in the bedroom if I'm in the mood I'm more focused on the face, shoulder, arms, etc...I find guy's upper bodies more attractive then lower, so I guess I don't fully understand the obsession. 

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On 2/25/2018 at 7:17 PM, Gldlynch said:

I think butts a great but I struggle to explain why. Maybe it’s because they are circular and look so wholesome, maybe it’s because they look squishy and bouncy to pet.

 

Do you know who has ass-tonishing butts? Figure skaters. Seriously, their butts are so round it defies human physics. 

Figure skaters and ballet dancers are both beautiful, butts and all.

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On ‎2‎/‎22‎/‎2018 at 8:48 PM, Stargirl97 said:

Butts are for pooping. I don’t wanna touch that. ‘nuff said.

Exactly this, I'll never understand why people think the place where crap comes from is attractive, just thinking about it makes me want to throw up .

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AlanTheAnonymousAce

If it's firm, then that's good because that's a sign they exercise and I like me a fit woman. Otherwise, I don't get it either. Legs are better in my opinion, but I'm a more aesthetically inclined guy.

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On 2/3/2018 at 5:53 PM, umbasa said:

Well, one philosopher put forward the argument it is because asses are the original boobs. It was the biggest feature we used to see at eye level when we walked on all fours as primitive beings. And so boobs are nothing more than fake asses.

I came across this theory a few years ago when I was trying to find out why women have "enlarged" breasts compared to other mammals. I remember reading something like, "So the males have something to look at..."

 

I'm certainly very twisted and broken because I am breast-repulsed and not a fan of child-bearing characteristics at all. I wouldn't have done well as a caveman. However, I do think buttocks can look nice in certain clothes and if they don't have too much excess fat.

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Divide By Zero

I remember one day in high school I bent over to pick up something and a few girls started giggling. I was confused by it but didn't think anything of it. Later that day I heard through the grapevine that the girls in class thought I had a really nice butt and I was even more confused. All these years later I still don't understand why butts are attractive.

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On 2/3/2018 at 9:25 AM, GLRDT said:

 I wish I had bigger thighs. I can have muscley thighs but I'm lean so they only get so big.

trade you! I am pear shaped, miss thunder thighs. I wish I could loose weight off my thighs as fast as I loose it off my arms or chest. (or faster)

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On 2/3/2018 at 6:56 AM, rach123 said:

Does a butt look at you in the eyes and give you a warm feeling? does a butt smile at you and lighten up your day? does a butt move its eyebrows in adorable way that makes you smile?

Faces are nice 😊

 

 

Legit just LOL'd at this! :lol:

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On 2/4/2018 at 4:17 AM, Telecaster68 said:

I have to say, to a sexual, this thread is like watching people trying to explain what's so great about Bach solely in terms of how a pipe organ works.

Telecaster: Please don’t take this to be confrontational, but I am very perplexed as to why you are on here. Not just this thread, why you are a member of AVEN.  Not that I don’t think you’re allowed to be, why do you want to be? You are clearly not asexual. I appreciate the other perspective but I get it everywhere all the time. 

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