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Hello everyone! Basically, I've questioned being asexual for a while now, but I figured I couldn't be because I definitely had a libido and felt sexual attraction to people that I had very strong romantic feelings for. The thing is, I don't really find people sexually attractive initially, and I also don't want to have sex unless it's a romantic experience if that makes sense? Like the thought of having sex unless it's a very romantic thing with a partner is very strange to me. I don't understand casual hookups. It makes me feel kind of isolated from a lot of my friends who always talk about people they think are attractive/check people out, because I don't meet/look at someone and feel sexual attraction ever. I often felt pressure to be more sexual. I recently learned more about demisexuality and thought that it described me pretty accurately, but I don't know if I can label myself yet.  So yeah, that's why I'm here!

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Hiya and welcome! :cake: Feel free to look around the site and ask questions.

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Hello there, and welcome to AVEN! :cake:

As part of my welcome to you, I'd like to point out some important threads that might be helpful in your first few days here. :) The Terms of Service is here. We recommend you read it over, and if you have any questions please don't hesitate to send either myself or any other administrator or moderator (the "admod" team, as we're called) a message.  Also, there's a handy forum called Site Info, which has some useful information including a thread outlining who moderates which forum. If you ever need something done in or have questions about a specific forum, please message the mod of that forum. And if you have problems with the site in general, or any single member, please message any admod. 

The following are also nifty links to take a look at:  Welcome Lounge Mini Manual | Welcoming 101 | Quick Guide to the Forums | Asexuality FAQ's

 Again, welcome to AVEN and I hope your stay is everything you hoped!

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