Sibemarie Posted November 27, 2017 Share Posted November 27, 2017 Hi everyone. I use to define myself as asexual, which i know for sure, but in the romantic context i use to make my own definition, of being "hetero-aesthete/minimal-romantic". The situation is, obviously i can tell acoording to some standarts, if a man or a woman is good looking to my perception. However, i feel a quite diferent way towards guys. I can't call atraction because i don't want to be with them, but i like to look at some of them, at their good looks or handsome face, etc. But after the guy is gone i just don't think of him anymore. I had some moderate crushes, (thus the minimal romantic kind of thing) but it is like something bettween aesthetic interest and crush. However i haven't had it for long now. Still i like to look at some handsome guys, but that's how far it goes. However, with my best friend who is a guy (and we have had this close relationship for long) we have this completelly close knit , completelly asexual relationship, and we don't even find each other atractive. But we do like each other very much and we have strong deep bonds. I was wondering if there is any other definition for me, considering the above. Not that i am in a worry to find it, but i am curious. Link to post Share on other sites
Yatagarasu Posted November 27, 2017 Share Posted November 27, 2017 grey-aromantic maybe? There's also that term... Quoiromantic, that is ~ Link to post Share on other sites
Lichley Posted November 27, 2017 Share Posted November 27, 2017 Maybe look into Squishes? Link to post Share on other sites
Éadweard Posted November 28, 2017 Share Posted November 28, 2017 Why do you feel it’s nevessary? Link to post Share on other sites
Sibemarie Posted November 30, 2017 Author Share Posted November 30, 2017 On 28/11/2017 at 12:29 AM, Just like Jughead said: Why do you feel it’s nevessary? Not extremelly necessary, but i was just wondering if there are similar cases, just out of curiosity. Link to post Share on other sites
Sibemarie Posted November 30, 2017 Author Share Posted November 30, 2017 On 27/11/2017 at 10:24 PM, Lichley said: Maybe look into Squishes? More likely a squish with my best friend, but without aesthetic atraction. Only a very, very deep bonded friendship/squish. But sometimes i feel this aesthetic atraction on guys i see here and there. Link to post Share on other sites
Sibemarie Posted November 30, 2017 Author Share Posted November 30, 2017 On 27/11/2017 at 9:30 PM, Yatagarasu said: grey-aromantic maybe? There's also that term... Quoiromantic, that is ~ wtfromantic seems to fit to a certain extent, or maybe, or grey aromantic. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Jetsun Milarepa Posted December 1, 2017 Share Posted December 1, 2017 Really informative cartooning. Link to post Share on other sites
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