Nallia Posted May 13, 2006 Share Posted May 13, 2006 I am curious as to see how many people out there are like me, meaning they have a sexual partner and participate in sexual activity only for their benefit (I voted sometimes/often). Link to post Share on other sites
ejb Posted May 13, 2006 Share Posted May 13, 2006 I deliberately abstain from any kind of sexual activity for everyone else's benefit....... Link to post Share on other sites
Charlieee Posted May 13, 2006 Share Posted May 13, 2006 I wouldn't. The farthest I would go for my partner would be to kiss them on the lips. Not making out or anything, just a small kiss. But, like, sex? No. Ew. Link to post Share on other sites
ejb Posted May 13, 2006 Share Posted May 13, 2006 just a small kiss. "A small kiss can go a long way" - Snow White....... . Link to post Share on other sites
owen. Posted May 13, 2006 Share Posted May 13, 2006 This question seems to assume that a) we have a partner B) that partner is a sexual :P Link to post Share on other sites
Charlieee Posted May 14, 2006 Share Posted May 14, 2006 This question seems to assume that a) we have a partner B) that partner is a sexual :P That's why I'm saying "would" instead of "do" just a small kiss. "A small kiss can go a long way" - Snow White....... Oh, gosh, it's been such a long time since I've seen Snow White... quote Hunchback of NOtre Dame or Little Mermaid at me. Ooo or the Lion King... or Aladdin... or Oliver and Company... or *continues* Link to post Share on other sites
Nallia Posted May 14, 2006 Author Share Posted May 14, 2006 This question seems to assume that a) we have a partner B) that partner is a sexual :P ...well, yeah... didn't you see my first post? Mainly, that's who the question is directed at... so I can get a general idea of people who are in my similar situation. But of course, I'd love to hear everybody's opinions. :D Link to post Share on other sites
starrysky Posted May 15, 2006 Share Posted May 15, 2006 I do, and I dread it. Every day I think of how long it's been since the last time, is that too much time gone by, do I need to do it again, etc. Not the way I would recommend other asexuals to live. Link to post Share on other sites
mackat5 Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 I've never even had a partner. I have male friends, who understand where I am in my life, and wouldn't ever think of even making a pass. It took me many years to realize that I WAS asexual. Link to post Share on other sites
Aeriel Posted May 16, 2006 Share Posted May 16, 2006 WARNING - Message may be too explicit for some. I used to, but as infrequently as possible. I don't any more, at all; sexual activity has gone from being unpleasant to impossible. I bleed. And no, lubricants don't help. I am pretty unselfish in most areas of the relationship, but I am totally selfish now in this one. Enough is enough, and I'm done. Link to post Share on other sites
squiggle Posted April 13, 2009 Share Posted April 13, 2009 No never / other. I've stopped doing that. Link to post Share on other sites
Hayley Posted April 13, 2009 Share Posted April 13, 2009 Reviving old polls again, hm? I do occasionally, but I can also enjoy sex depending on my mood and the other person. With some partners I've done it for them and with others it's for both of us. I don't find sex distasteful, traumatic or uncomfortable in any way, and like making my partner happy, so see no reason why I wouldn't have sex for my partner's sake. Link to post Share on other sites
squiggle Posted April 14, 2009 Share Posted April 14, 2009 Reviving old polls again, hm? -I went a bit crazy doing all the polls I'd not done over the bank holiday. I'm a bit of a questionnaire/quiz addict. -Now everybody knows! Oh well, I've done them all now! Gotta think of some more polls of my own... Link to post Share on other sites
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