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GeekyGamerZack

@ColeHW Hi! ☺

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Like a Hurricane

I went to the cottage again but... no sign of anything similar to the movie. 😄

 

Anyhow, this time of year with the nightless night is so beautiful...

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GeekyGamerZack
2 hours ago, Like a Hurricane said:

Anyhow, this time of year with the nightless night is so beautiful...

Sounds a bit like the plane of Lorwyn in Magic: The Gathering. ☺

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GeekyGamerZack

Not sure if any of you are familiar with MandJTV on YouTube, but the latest episode of Pokémon Talk features a same-sex marriage between two implied-to-be male characters! 😲

 

(The spoiler tag is because... well... there are huge spoilers for anyone who hasn't watched the series.)

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ukrguy

how are you doing, kitties?

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GeekyGamerZack

@ukrguy Not bad. How are you? 🐰

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Member114264
12 hours ago, ukrguy said:

how are you doing, kitties?

Pretty good.

Got back from a mini vacation with my friend to get him out and about.

We found a radioactive plate and watches and went swimming.

So I'm going to sleep well tonight.

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Like a Hurricane

Is everyone else on holidays...?

 

I am working and when not at work just playing some music.

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Member114264
3 hours ago, Like a Hurricane said:

Is everyone else on holidays...?

 

I am working and when not at work just playing some music.

Kinda?

Been to lots of parties yesterday and today.

This thread can get quiet as people are out and about.

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ukrguy
On 7/15/2019 at 1:56 AM, GeekyGamerZack said:

@ukrguy Not bad. How are you? 🐰

yeah, me too. gonna travel to Poland and Austria in a week

On 7/15/2019 at 5:39 AM, ColeHW said:

Pretty good.

Got back from a mini vacation with my friend to get him out and about.

We found a radioactive plate and watches and went swimming.

So I'm going to sleep well tonight.

awesome time spending! did you have some hugs? ;) 

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Ringmaster04

Has anyone here experienced being called "too straight" or "not gay enough" by friends, family, or other lgbtq+ people? I don't fit much of the mainstream gay stereotype (at least in the US) and have had my parents say I "don't act gay" and "don't really look or dress gay" and as a result I'll "probably make some new friends, but will be alone forever" (jeez, thanks mom). I heard a friend once say that I was "clearly confused and not really out" and now at a club this weekend while dancing with a group of guys, I heard one of them say "no, no, he's straight" (almost certain that was about me, though I did have a couple drinks so could be mistaken.

 

But anyway, I've struggled for a little while trying to identify more with many of the lgbtq+ people I know in my community, but I've never felt like I fit in very well. Wondering if anyone else has a similar situation and what you've done about it.

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Member114264
On 8/3/2019 at 3:18 AM, ukrguy said:

awesome time spending! did you have some hugs? ;) 

Nope unfortunately he’s straight and slightly homophobic. 

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Like a Hurricane

One of my friends is gay and slightly transphobic. 😄

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ScottK

Homoromantic here in Vermont. Anyone else near?

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Member114264

Nope.

Also it's been a while since any activity popped up around here.

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T-jacko'lantern
On 8/6/2019 at 8:23 PM, Ringmaster04 said:

Wondering if anyone else has a similar situation and what you've done about it.

I was once told that I was "the most non-gay gay man".

I was also mistaken for a "leatherman/S&M" guy. *Strange, because I've never worn leather:P"

I understand what you mean about not fitting in.

As for what to do about? Absolutely nothing. Be who you are!

I wish I had met another "straight/gay man", back when it mattered to me.

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Jelle van der Lee

goedenavond! :Dhoe is 't? :3

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798...
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Hey, so I know this isn’t so a super popular thread but I thought I’d put this hear anyways.

As a teen who’s never met another gay guy, I feel like all other gay guys just want sex in a relationship, or at least need it. Is this true? Can you have a relationship with man without sex, or should I just stick to trying to find a homoromantic ace? Does anyone’s else feel like this?

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Member114264

Any ace will do if I like their personality and if I deem them competent.

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Member142243
16 hours ago, 798... said:

Hey, so I know this isn’t so a super popular thread but I thought I’d put this hear anyways.

As a teen who’s never met another gay guy, I feel like all other gay guys just want sex in a relationship, or at least need it. Is this true? Can you have a relationship with man without sex, or should I just stick to trying to find a homoromantic ace? Does anyone’s else feel like this?

Hi! I did think this, but my last boyfriend was actually completely understanding... and he was someone with a very high sex drive. Without going too deeply in to it, we did manage to meet in the middle in a way. A lot of communication, and you both do have to compromise, but indeed it can work. It depends on how the both of you approach things, but equally I was ready and comfortable to accept it may not work for both of us, though it did (we split for very different reasons).

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GeekyGamerZack

Yes...yes...it's working...it's working...

 

My spark is restored, and my body is stronger than ever...

 

I live...I LIIIIIIIIVE! HEEHEEHEHEHEHHAHAHAHAHA!

 

(Quickly realises that the majority of members in this thread have never watched Beast Wars, and thus wouldn't recognise this quote from Predacon mad scientist Tarantulas)

 

Uh...let's try that again, heheh... 😅

 

***

Hey, I'm back! I've had trouble accessing AVEN for weeks due to NBN-related complications (which admittedly are still being smoothed out, so I may post irregularly until then). ☺️

 

So here's something that kind of alienated me a little. While I was leaving a tram station in my city, I noticed a random stall which (at first) I assumed was supporting the LGBTQ+ community, but as I got closer on my way past, it seemed to mainly be centred on homosexual awareness, with very little support for other minorities.

 

It looked like they tried to at least represent the ace community to a degree, at least based on the number of purple balloons tied to the outer frame, but there was too little to suggest that they were supporting bisexuality, transgender, etc., and there was virtually no representation of homoromanticism.

 

(...)

 

Okay, one more go, and hopefully this time it's more cheerful and less random-90s-pop-culture-reference-y...

 

***

I'm back! How are you all? 😆

 

(I guess simple is best in this scenario...)

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Member114264

Bored.

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Sir_The_Last

I had forgotten about this thread LOL. HI world!!!

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Member114264

Sup!

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Sir_The_Last

It is almost Friday... 

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Member114264

Yep.

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Sir_The_Last

YAY for the weekend!!!! 

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T-jacko'lantern

I've got a job scheduled for 5pm to 9pm, tonight. Then, my weekend will start.:)

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