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someone online randomly called me ugly for literally no reason whatsoever ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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10 hours ago, float on said:

someone online randomly called me ugly for literally no reason whatsoever ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

rude

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12 hours ago, Phoenix the II said:

I'm ugly ._. 

 

12 hours ago, float on said:

me too

I have seen pics of you both and i would not say that about any of you.

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23 minutes ago, Dan99 said:

I'm too afraid of what other people think of whatever I do.

me too

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7 minutes ago, Kimmie. said:

 

I have seen pics of you both and i would not say that about any of you.

thanks <3  you too :D

 

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spoiler for negativity topic

last half-day I've been wrought with thoughts of how miserable this life is. It feels not-worth-it, the prospect of trying to pass as a woman. I would need facial surgery I'm sure of it. so much needs to happen for me to be a woman that it's literally easier to just give up on that and stop trying to be privileged. own up to the greater imperative of living independent... 

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right now, I actually oddly have returned to genderless in identity lol. but, in processing this, I came to realize - that it doesn't change my preferences, likes, the things I am drawn to, my personality, my behavior. many of those things are  contributing reasons for why I ID as feminine. so even tho I am currently genderless lol, I am still a woman :lol:

I'm also still a man for other silly reasons but w/e :rolleyes:

 

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just something that occurred to me; if i ever actually do something about this gender problem, should i identify myself as male or trans? like "male" vs "ftm". i mean in the context of putting your gender on a website or something by the way. maybe irl, i don't know.

 

I'm sorry, I look really fake for not considering myself a guy all ready.

 

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27 minutes ago, Dan99 said:

just something that occurred to me; if i ever actually do something about this gender problem, should i identify myself as male or trans? like "male" vs "ftm". i mean in the context of putting your gender on a website or something by the way. maybe irl, i don't know.

 

I'm sorry, I look really fake for not considering myself a guy all ready.

 

It's really up to you. In cases where I would be worried about putting my gender as "Trans" or if it's not an option, I go with "Male". On places where I don't want to open up as trans or don't want to deal with bullshit, I just say I'm male.

 

Don't worry about feeling "fake". In the end there is no RIGHT way to be a guy and your choices/thoughts don't make you any less valid.

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Just now, Nai, but spooky said:

It's really up to you. In cases where I would be worried about putting my gender as "Trans" or if it's not an option, I go with "Male". On places where I don't want to open up as trans or don't want to deal with bullshit, I just say I'm male.

 

Don't worry about feeling "fake". In the end there is no RIGHT way to be a guy and your choices/thoughts don't make you any less valid.

yeah. constant doubt just goes through my head every day. i don't "feel" male. like, nothing about me is male other than wanting a different body. i don't see guys and think,"that's what i am", i just think,"i want a body like that". unless that's literally all gender is, i don't know.

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13 hours ago, Kimmie. said:

 

I have seen pics of you both and i would not say that about any of you.

Ah!!! I'm jealous!!!!!!! I want to see!!!!!!! I mean, I'm not going to yell until I get to, but I sure would feel so luckyyy~ @Phoenix the II @float on

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since i said hat thing, now I'm worried about what people would think of it. I wouldn't want "trans guy" to be an identity but more as an adjective. I wouldn't want it to be taken the wrong way.

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Tfw you are running and for the first time in your life feel your boobs bouncing lmao wtf.

 

never thought this would be a part of my life :D

 

it sorta a little hurt lol but not much xD I'm still all tiny :unsure:

 

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tmi / body

 

 

I can't wait for surgery omg. not that I have anything scheduled tho ;_; I just want it so bad already. I wish it could be tomorrow. I wish I could just pull it off and throw it away...

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On 23.10.2017 at 2:01 AM, Dan99 said:

I honestly don't know what i consider myself internally. All I know is i want a male body.

Totally valid. :) 

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Ugh. I really hope I could get rid of my gender problems. I hope I can come out in the college and dress like a dude whenever I want. But really, for some reason it all started feeling lighter once I'm more able to put a hand on it. It seems like less and less of a problem or something unusual or odd to me. It seems more like a couple of hobbies, clothing preferences and... just speaking my mind on who I am, which becomes less shameful for me, gradually.

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One of my friends and I send each other selfies and compliment each other a lot. It’s nice. 

I’ve been binding lately, and she’s noticed. 

I haven’t been checking in with myself about gender. I guess I’ve felt masculine-ish? but not like, *male*. Anyways, this friend of mine has seen my selfies and says things like “what a handsome young man!” to me, and I can’t tell how it feels? Like, it feels like it feels good and bad. I feel very mixed about it. 

And I don’t know how to explain it to her. Maybe something like, “I feel masculine today but not like a man”? I don’t know.

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Isn't it wierd? I feel male, but not that masculine... Actually quite androgynous. I mean, whatever. I escape any conventional understanding of gender, I just don't feel like I reassemble females too much. I think and feel like men do and feel like the roles men traditionally fulfilled in society are for me.

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It would make me sad ...

 

why anyone would cut hair short from having long hair. 

why anyone would get a breast reduction. 

 

I know why now... it was me putting my feelings on someone else :| 

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On 2017-10-27 at 9:50 PM, float on said:

tmi / body

 

 

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I can't wait for surgery omg. not that I have anything scheduled tho ;_; I just want it so bad already. I wish it could be tomorrow. I wish I could just pull it off and throw it away...

I am with you there. The pull it off and through it away part.

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