LavenderBliss Posted March 4, 2019 Share Posted March 4, 2019 Thank you for the warm welcome! 😊 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
mjo Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 Hello. I found this forum a while ago but I'm just now looking around. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Spideyweb Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 Hello all Just joined today, finally - I will be 54 in May - and am very much a noobie in regards to Ace community - So many sections in this forum, where do i fit in.. haha. So this area is my first post - and will post my intro in the main section.. and update my profile ♥ ciao for now ✌️ 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
daveb Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 1 hour ago, Spideyweb said: Hello all Welcome and ! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
will123 Posted March 24, 2019 Share Posted March 24, 2019 13 hours ago, Spideyweb said: Hello all Just joined today, finally - I will be 54 in May - and am very much a noobie in regards to Ace community - So many sections in this forum, where do i fit in.. haha. So this area is my first post - and will post my intro in the main section.. and update my profile ♥ ciao for now ✌️ Welcome to AVEN I was 44 when I identified as asexual (I'm 57 now). 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Spideyweb Posted March 30, 2019 Share Posted March 30, 2019 On 3/25/2019 at 2:02 AM, will123 said: Welcome to AVEN I was 44 when I identified as asexual (I'm 57 now). Hello! Glad to hear im not the only person that taken so long to work out who i am, really.. 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
will123 Posted March 30, 2019 Share Posted March 30, 2019 3 hours ago, Spideyweb said: Hello! Glad to hear im not the only person that taken so long to work out who i am, really.. I know! I wish I had heard about it sooner, mind you I don't think there was much knowledge of asexuality in the 90s. It was such a relief to find out that there was a reason why I wasn't interested in sex. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Custard Cream Posted March 30, 2019 Share Posted March 30, 2019 On 3/24/2019 at 4:10 AM, Spideyweb said: Hello all Just joined today, finally - I will be 54 in May - and am very much a noobie in regards to Ace community - So many sections in this forum, where do i fit in.. haha. So this area is my first post - and will post my intro in the main section.. and update my profile ♥ ciao for now ✌️ Welcome! I was 50 when I realised.... 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
will123 Posted March 30, 2019 Share Posted March 30, 2019 @Spideyweb If you have any questions feel free to ask either on the forum or DM. I wasn't questioning my identity at the time. I just came across a newspaper article that resonated immensely with me. It mentioned AVEN. I had no hesitation in identifying as asexual going forward. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lost female soul Posted April 22, 2019 Share Posted April 22, 2019 Much thanks I'm new. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
robnrdbrd Posted May 15, 2019 Share Posted May 15, 2019 Might as well say 'hey' to the fellow aces who have some miles on them. ... I assume a piece of cake is coming, but I'm not really a fan. Y'all do brownies as well? 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
will123 Posted May 15, 2019 Share Posted May 15, 2019 6 minutes ago, robnrdbrd said: Might as well say 'hey' to the fellow aces who have some miles on them. ... I assume a piece of cake is coming, but I'm not really a fan. Y'all do brownies as well? Brownies are good in my books. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
daveb Posted May 16, 2019 Share Posted May 16, 2019 Welcome, @robnrdbrd! I don't have an emoji for brownies, but I do bake them once in a while (not too often because I eat them all up too quickly). I don't put any herbs in them though. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Skycaptain Posted May 16, 2019 Share Posted May 16, 2019 @robnrdbrdwelcome to AVEN 🍪 🍪 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Ziret Posted May 22, 2019 Share Posted May 22, 2019 Thanks for the welcome! 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lost-the-key Posted May 23, 2019 Share Posted May 23, 2019 Hi! I just read the Invisible Identity. I am a 37 year old cis female greysexual from CO. I am looking for information and community. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Skycaptain Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 @lost-the-key, welcome to AVEN 🎂 🎂 30's, 50's, chatterbox, JFF and arcade are the best community forums. The others are best for information 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
will123 Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 On 5/22/2019 at 4:12 PM, Ziret said: Thanks for the welcome! Welcome to AVEN! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Custard Cream Posted May 24, 2019 Share Posted May 24, 2019 19 hours ago, lost-the-key said: Hi! I just read the Invisible Identity. I am a 37 year old cis female greysexual from CO. I am looking for information and community. Welcome! 🍰🍰🍰 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lost-the-key Posted May 25, 2019 Share Posted May 25, 2019 9 hours ago, CustardCream said: Welcome! 🍰🍰🍰 Thank you for the welcome and the cake! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
lost-the-key Posted May 25, 2019 Share Posted May 25, 2019 18 hours ago, Skycaptain said: @lost-the-key, welcome to AVEN 🎂 🎂 30's, 50's, chatterbox, JFF and arcade are the best community forums. The others are best for information Thank you! That is very helpful I appreciate it. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Freudianslip Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 Hi! I'm a 51 year old very introverted and agendered person. Probably aromantic as well. I'm hoping to become less of a lurker and start interacting with other people. I'm not sure of how it will go, but I'm so happy to see a grouper of older folks. Sometimes, I feel like an invisible demographic. 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
daveb Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 4 hours ago, Freudianslip said: Hi Welcome and ! (nice avatar) 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Skycaptain Posted May 28, 2019 Share Posted May 28, 2019 @Freudianslip, welcome to AVEN 🎂 🎂 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
janel Posted August 18, 2019 Share Posted August 18, 2019 On 6/27/2006 at 5:59 PM, Cloudgazer57 said: I too am not quite 50 yet but my body says I'm old!!!!!!!!!! I also wish we had the option of a chat room. There is something very different about being able to get IMMEDIATE feedback. (Patience really is not one of my strong points) Anyway, I am 49 with 3 kids (yes, I have been married twice but neither worked. Now, I am happily a nonsexual, where was this website 20 years ago???????!!!!!!!!! I will look forward to new posts, I have waited a long time to find people who not only don't think I am crazy, (well at least for my sexual views)but who also share my views!!!!!!!!!!!! WAHOO!!! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Yuliyasa Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 I am in the gray and well I hope its ok for me to lurk on here. Pretty sure I am both Ace and demi or some version of the two combined. 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
CarolCMBR Posted October 25, 2019 Share Posted October 25, 2019 I am introducing myself here, but I did a longer introduction in other topic. I am Carolina, born in Brasil but I am living in the Netherlands since 2002, so I could say I am 50/50. As a teenager I thought I was a nerd, or very late in having sexual interests. I never had any sexual interest, I did have aesthetics preferences but nothing that would attract me. When I was almost 17 I met an online boy, we became friends and this friendship became a relation. Suddenly my romantic and sexual attraction were born! Well, this boy is Dutch and that's why I am in the Netherlands, we got married and we have 2 boys from 9/11 years old. My husband is asexual as well (NO, we didn't know when we met and only years later we found out about beeing ace). Couple of years ago I noticed my sexual attraction is almost gone, and the romantic attraction is different. I wouldn't say it is gone but it is not as it used to be. I am not sure if it is just us getting older, or the relation changing. I love him more than anyone and I trust him completely. I know he feels the same way. Truth is I also have romantic feelings with another friend, said that, the feeling is actually more than friendship but less than a feeling for a relation. There is no sexual desire, for sure. I don't like labels but I can see myself perfect fitting with demisexual. And I am glad I found a place where I am not the "different" one. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
will123 Posted October 25, 2019 Share Posted October 25, 2019 On 10/1/2019 at 6:38 AM, Yuliyasa said: I am in the gray and well I hope its ok for me to lurk on here. Pretty sure I am both Ace and demi or some version of the two combined. Welcome to AVEN! If you want to lurk thats not a problem. There are long term members that post very sporadically. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
AceMissBehaving Posted October 25, 2019 Share Posted October 25, 2019 Hi @CarolCMBR ! I too fell to in love with a boy in another country and moved to be with them, it’s a heck of a leap to make. I just wanted to welcome you to the forums and offer you some of the traditional cake 🍰 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ColeHW34 Posted October 25, 2019 Share Posted October 25, 2019 Whoops I also forgot to post here on my 20th birthday. Well anyways Hi! and hello to @CarolCMBR 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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