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Are you agender, asexual, and aromantic?  

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  1. 1. Are you agender, asexual, and aromantic?

    • Yes.
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    • No.
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1 hour ago, loomborn said:

asexual: check

aromantic: check

agender: im questioning and it seems like i dont have an inner sense of gender but neither dysphoria so its pretty confusing to me

That's agender if you don't have it I guess. Dysphoria doesn't matter.

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To Each Their Own

Yes, yes, yes.

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AVEN #1 fan
Just now, paperflames said:

Yes, yes, yes.

I saw this quote once in a porn movie. Lol

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To Each Their Own
Just now, AVEN #1 fan said:

I saw this quote once in a porn movie.

:mellow:

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Shiroi Hato

Asexual: yes

Aromantic: yes

Agender: ... well, technically I am, but in my country people still strugling with recognition of trans an bi people, what to talk about the rest of LGBT+ people.  So I usually introduce using my asigned gender. Also, I don't like the sound of he/they pronouns and like to stick with ,,she". So yeah, I'm agender who prefers the sound of pronoun instead of it's meaning :redface: 

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9 hours ago, Shiroi Hato said:

Asexual: yes

Aromantic: yes

Agender: ... well, technically I am, but in my country people still strugling with recognition of trans an bi people, what to talk about the rest of LGBT+ people.  So I usually introduce using my asigned gender. Also, I don't like the sound of he/they pronouns and like to stick with ,,she". So yeah, I'm agender who prefers the sound of pronoun instead of it's meaning :redface: 

Gender and pronouns are separate, I've also been surprised by how many people are open to it.

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Sage Raven Domino
On 7/31/2017 at 4:34 AM, warrigan said:

i've always thought it would be anaesthetic, which amuses me.  :P 

It's so unfortunate that I'm not anaesthetic :( I'd be Quad A's then, but as it is, I'm just a triple A (kind of).  

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Hmmm. I was going to make a joke about being a full deck with 4 As, but I have five so I'm already cheating...

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Sage Raven Domino

I haven't thought much about (a)sensuality, I might have 4 A's then; well, at least, I'm very touch-repulsed :P

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I'm all 3. :) Realized I was agender about 2 months ago, after questioning for a while. 

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  • 1 year later...

I've always thought it was weird to be all three, every time I explained no one ever understood. I guess they were all baffled at the thought I never experienced any of the normal human things...

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confused_being

Yes, yes, questioning 

On 1/14/2019 at 1:05 PM, Chaos Cloud said:

I've always thought it was weird to be all three, every time I explained no one ever understood. I guess they were all baffled at the thought I never experienced any of the normal human things...

I relate to this^^

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Wednesday Addams

Asexual: Yes

Aromantic: Yes

Agender: No (I'm not very feminine though, and I've been mistaken for a boy quite a few times)

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CoffeeTablesRMe

I’m new here hiii XD I’m not aromantic  or agender (I’m pretty gender fluid and focus on trying to be androgynous but appear pretty feminine to some people :/ ) but I am asexual (the rare sex repulsed kind   ¯\_(ツ)_/¯  ).

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Asexual, yes. Aromantic, yes. Agender, unsure

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dragon_cake

I'm more certain that I'm asexual compared to being aromantic and agender.

 

I think I'm on the aromantic spectrum but there are times when I question whether I actually am an aromantic who just have a positive (or maybe neutral/indifferent) outlook on romance despite not desiring to seek out that relationship. I can handle some romantic content or context in certain doses but I also can get sick of it on other days. If I do get a crush (perhaps once on every blue moon), I never know why and who it will land on but it's a distracting feeling that I don't appreciate. 

 

Being agender makes sense to me since I'm not sure what it really means to be male or female so being referred as either of these sexes very strongly tends to give a discomforting feeling. However, pronouns don't bother me as much for some reason.

 

 

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Asexual: Yes

Aromantic: Yes, because I have no proof for the opposite. I've never sought a romantic relationship and whole concept of love to a partner makes no sense to me. There was a time that I doubted the existence of that kind of love entirely because I never experienced it.

Agender: Sometimes. It varies between agender and balanced androgyne for me. It is weird, sometimes there is no feeling of gender at all and sometimes it feels like synthesis between male and female.

 

So I have 2.5/3 I guess.

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ElasticPlanet

Agender: yes

Asexual: yes

Aromantic: no

Atheist: yes 😛

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I became aware of being Asexual and Aromantic two years ago, just recently realized I am Agender. I am also 56 years old so you're never too old to realize who and what you are! ;) A lifetime of thinking I'm broken, only to realize there are others out there like me! Feels liberating! :D 

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I used to joke that I was Triple-A, but I'm moving away from identifying as aromantic

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The Incarnation Of Boredom

No, but close. I'm agender, asexual and hetromantic or andrognoromantic (I like people who are more to the androgynous side than masculine or feminine) so I kind of count?

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The Incarnation Of Boredom
On 4/17/2019 at 11:28 PM, dragon_cake said:

I'm more certain that I'm asexual compared to being aromantic and agender.

 

I think I'm on the aromantic spectrum but there are times when I question whether I actually am an aromantic who just have a positive (or maybe neutral/indifferent) outlook on romance despite not desiring to seek out that relationship. I can handle some romantic content or context in certain doses but I also can get sick of it on other days. If I do get a crush (perhaps once on every blue moon), I never know why and who it will land on but it's a distracting feeling that I don't appreciate. 

 

Being agender makes sense to me since I'm not sure what it really means to be male or female so being referred as either of these sexes very strongly tends to give a discomforting feeling. However, pronouns don't bother me as much for some reason.

 

 

I'm exactly the same about being agender. I'm fine with female pronouns, but I hate being called a girl, woman, or lady. I think the reason why I'm okay with pronouns is that people will use pronouns for anything: a lamp, a car, a fish, a plant, anything, so its not necessarily associated with feminity or masculinity.

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