Jump to content

Trans Musings & Rantings


Recommended Posts

1 minute ago, Ms. Carolynne said:

I had to look up how that converted, but I think we're the same size.

 

Also, are EU sizes unisex? That might actually come in handy, as shoes sometimes include the EU size on the box, but US sizes are measured differently for men's and women's.

EU sizes are unisex yes.  

  • Like 3
Link to post
Share on other sites
1 hour ago, Kimmie. said:

EU sizes are unisex yes.  

They are unisex, but men's shoes are usually a little bit wider as women's. But the length is the same. As always with fashion the sizes differ by brand.

  • Like 2
Link to post
Share on other sites
3 minutes ago, Bloc said:

They are unisex, but men's shoes are usually a little bit wider as women's. But the length is the same. As always with fashion the sizes differ by brand.

It has worked for me so far.

  • Like 1
Link to post
Share on other sites
ElasticPlanet
7 hours ago, Ms. Carolynne said:

I also really want to wear leggings with a skirt, but that isn't so low key 😂

A few months back I discovered a thing called skirted leggings. Basically leggings with a simple tiny short skirt built into them. The ones I've got are the same dark grey all over and the skirt bit doesn't come down all that far below my T shirt, so they score pretty well if 'low key' is what you're after. I felt safe enough wearing them about town here, as an enby who is read as male...

  • Like 3
Link to post
Share on other sites

I NEED TO FIND THOSE NOW!!

they sound awesome! 

 

These looks so awesome

Spoiler

product-image-577423143_1024x1024_020ee1

 

  • Like 3
Link to post
Share on other sites

Yeah but I don't trust the site it looked a bit scammy.

Link to post
Share on other sites

(Tag me instead please)

*Note: I live in a western country so we don't see Asians often. However, we've this digibox from China so we've been able to watch Asian TV channels recently.

 

So I've this argument with my father every time this music video teaser from an Asian pop boy group appears on TV. (Don't know them so I can't show a pic :/ )

He always comments how gay and girly they look so according to him, they don't look like men. They don't look like men or women at all.

I always defend them arguing everyone who appears on TV wears make-up, even male celebrities; it doesn't make them girly/gay at all and there's no need for mean comments.

In return, he laughs it off saying my arguments are rubbish since I don't have a say in it because I'm interested in this kind of thing, that they look androgynous like me  and that my generation is messed up. Also, in his opinion, (real) men don't wear make-up to that extend.

 

This pisses me so off, IT'S. JUST. MAKE-UP. 

It has nothing to do with my interest. It's about there's no need to offend them and me. There's also nothing wrong with looking androgynous 😠

 

  • Like 7
Link to post
Share on other sites

@Destan I'm sorry about your dad. 🙁

 

It's too bad that some people still think that way. I've always been interested in androgyny, and I see nothing wrong with people looking or dressing a certain way. I, too, have people in my life who say narrow-minded things about the way someone else looks. And it sucks when they make fun of you 'cause you might like those sorts of things too... 😒

Link to post
Share on other sites
Anthracite_Impreza

I have no idea where they get the energy to give a shit. 95% of my daily energy goes into getting out of bed.

  • Like 7
Link to post
Share on other sites
no-longer-in-use
40 minutes ago, Anthracite_Impreza said:

I have no idea where they get the energy to give a shit. 95% of my daily energy goes into getting out of bed.

Lol true.

Link to post
Share on other sites

I'm dissappointed because I'm not a very femme woman

 

maybe it's just the depression though.

Link to post
Share on other sites
8 hours ago, Ashes of the phoenix said:

I want to be a girl but I don’t want to be trans :unsure:

 

3 minutes ago, St. Nyaaconix the II said:

Get out of my head

Do the same both of you....

  • Like 2
Link to post
Share on other sites

Sometimes/often i feel like i don´t deserve help.. I don´t know why.

Link to post
Share on other sites
Ms. Carolynne
8 hours ago, Ashes of the phoenix said:

I want to be a girl but I don’t want to be trans :unsure:

Same, who really wants to be trans anyway?

  • Like 5
Link to post
Share on other sites
ElasticPlanet
2 hours ago, Ms. Carolynne said:

who really wants to be trans anyway?

I can't imagine wanting to be male or female. So I can't want to be cis, right? ... Right? 🙃

  • Like 3
Link to post
Share on other sites
3 hours ago, Kimmie. said:

Sometimes/often i feel like i don´t deserve help.. I don´t know why.

Of course you deserve help

  • Like 3
Link to post
Share on other sites
Ms. Carolynne
5 minutes ago, ElasticPlanet said:

I can't imagine wanting to be male or female. So I can't want to be cis, right? ... Right? 🙃

I didn't think of it that way.

 

I was moreso thinking one just be born into a body they are comfortable with, and thus not need to transition.

  • Like 6
Link to post
Share on other sites
ElasticPlanet
2 minutes ago, Ms. Carolynne said:

I was moreso thinking one just be born into a body they are comfortable with, and thus not need to transition.

Well yeah, if I could have been assigned droid at manufacture, that would have solved a lot of problems... 🤖

  • Like 7
Link to post
Share on other sites
Anthracite_Impreza
8 minutes ago, ElasticPlanet said:

Well yeah, if I could have been assigned droid at manufacture, that would have solved a lot of problems... 🤖

Car in my case.

  • Like 4
Link to post
Share on other sites
15 minutes ago, ElasticPlanet said:

Well yeah, if I could have been assigned droid at manufacture, that would have solved a lot of problems... 🤖

Adam?

Link to post
Share on other sites
ElasticPlanet
31 minutes ago, Bloc said:

Adam? 

Not quite sure who/what you mean there; I just think that life is not an adequate support mechanism for sentience. Unclean and unsafe.

Link to post
Share on other sites
49 minutes ago, ElasticPlanet said:

Not quite sure who/what you mean there; I just think that life is not an adequate support mechanism for sentience. Unclean and unsafe.

assigned droid at manufacture in reference to amab and afab

  • Like 6
Link to post
Share on other sites
ElasticPlanet
15 minutes ago, Bloc said:

assigned droid at manufacture in reference to amab and afab

Ah, got it. Sorry I was so slow there!

Link to post
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

×
×
  • Create New...