lovebug Posted April 11, 2006 Share Posted April 11, 2006 I concider friendship the most important RELATIONSHIP this world has to offer, but only if you VALUE friendship enough to understand its full potential so my answer would be YES. unlike sexual relationships that can be shallow in a million and one ways, I find a best friends love and companionship more true and desireable Link to post Share on other sites
ghosts Posted April 11, 2006 Share Posted April 11, 2006 but only if you VALUE friendship enough to understand its full potential Amen to that. Link to post Share on other sites
OC47 Posted April 16, 2006 Share Posted April 16, 2006 Not sure. There are times that I really like to have a relationship, but other times I just want to stay alone. Actually, I don't mind if I stay alone. The only thing I'm sure of is that I don't want to have a relationship right now. Maybe in the future, but definitely not now. Link to post Share on other sites
LostPenguin Posted April 16, 2006 Share Posted April 16, 2006 I voted yes, but I should have voted other or not sure. Basically, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship for the sake of it. I would never be interested in that sort of thing unless the right person came along... I'm not desperate enough to go after anybody, I guess. Link to post Share on other sites
Snowe Posted April 16, 2006 Share Posted April 16, 2006 I definitely want a relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
UglymanCometh Posted April 17, 2006 Share Posted April 17, 2006 Is there a choice for "HELL NO!" on there? (rhetorical question) Link to post Share on other sites
AotoSora Posted April 23, 2006 Share Posted April 23, 2006 I don't think I do. I get lonely sometimes, so I want someone I can be close to. Close but not romantic? Link to post Share on other sites
genuineillusion Posted April 23, 2006 Share Posted April 23, 2006 If I can find someone that will respect my wishes, then yes. I'd love to find someone that I can love and that will love me, without worrying about the pressures of sex. Or, someone who is willing to make a great deal of compromise regarding it. Link to post Share on other sites
kat Posted May 14, 2006 Share Posted May 14, 2006 I want a relationship. I've never had one, and I kind of wish I could be happy alone, and I can in a way, but I seem unable to love no person at all in a romantic fashion. Besides, I'd love to be able to cuddle with someone (female) and not worry about sex. I guess I just want someone to love me in a romantic way so it can be mutual instead of this yucky pining business. No, no, I exagerate, of course, but that's how it feels sometimes. :cry: I'm done. Kat Link to post Share on other sites
Nallia Posted May 14, 2006 Share Posted May 14, 2006 I am in a relationship, but if I weren't, I wouldn't want to be. I would not change my current situation; I'm with a great guy, and I'm happy. But if I were not with him, I wouldn't want to be tied down to being with one person all of the time. I would enjoy the single life to the fullest. Link to post Share on other sites
Shadow girl Posted May 14, 2006 Share Posted May 14, 2006 Not me I'm kind of the loner type anyway. As long as I have my family and a few good friends I'm happy. Link to post Share on other sites
spinneret Posted May 15, 2006 Share Posted May 15, 2006 I want symbiosis. Whether it's romantic or platonic, with a flatmate or a partner or a polyamorous situation or whathaveyou, I just want some domestic partnership and someone to curl up with. If a cat could wash dishes when I cook and put sunscreen on my back, I'd get one and call it love. Link to post Share on other sites
rainyrose77 Posted May 15, 2006 Share Posted May 15, 2006 i, too, like the cuddling. plus i want someone special i suppose. i want to be in love without the love? hah thats not ____ at all :? crappppp i could not think of that WORD i needed there... :( Link to post Share on other sites
Muddles Posted November 28, 2006 Share Posted November 28, 2006 I would love to be in a relationship. Sometimes I really crave someone to cuddle and curl up to, and share my innermost secrets with. Like a best friend, but on a much deeper level. I've never had a best friend or a partner, so the loneliness is kinda killing me these days. The cats can only provide so much companionship. :roll: Link to post Share on other sites
Adventuress Heart Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 I voted "not sure" .. While I'm not interested in a relationship and am Aromantic I do feel that maybe I'll change as time goes on, I doubt even then I would want a relationship but I would like someone to talk to at least (intelligent convo, and sharing common interests/activities) Link to post Share on other sites
Charlieee Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 I put Other. I guess having an SO would be nice, but it's not really high on my to-do list. Link to post Share on other sites
Placebo Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 I want symbiosis. Whether it's romantic or platonic, with a flatmate or a partner or a polyamorous situation or whathaveyou, I just want some domestic partnership and someone to curl up with. If a cat could wash dishes when I cook and put sunscreen on my back, I'd get one and call it love. I like that! Mmm, that would be nice. I agree, if the situation presents itself. Otherwise, I'm happy being alone. Link to post Share on other sites
Nightmare Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 No, but friends would be nice. More interesting and serious ones anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
agentkgb Posted December 2, 2006 Share Posted December 2, 2006 I voted no. Link to post Share on other sites
stainedandroid Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 I would love to have a lifelong companion. Link to post Share on other sites
spinneret Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 I want symbiosis. Whether it's romantic or platonic, with a flatmate or a partner or a polyamorous situation or whathaveyou, I just want some domestic partnership and someone to curl up with. If a cat could wash dishes when I cook and put sunscreen on my back, I'd get one and call it love. I like that! Mmm, that would be nice. I agree, if the situation presents itself. Otherwise, I'm happy being alone. *blink* wow, I wrote that a while ago. I don't think I'd have such a good answer ready if you asked me now, but yeah, that does sound good. Granted, I'm fine and dandy being on my own. I don't feel like I need anyone else to "complete" me or any such thing. But there are things I miss about living with someone, and things I would like to have in my life. Link to post Share on other sites
oneofthesun Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 so my answer would be YES. unlike sexual relationships that can be shallow in a million and one ways, I find a best friends love and companionship more true and desireable Me too. I would only consider living with another person if I had not only my own bedroom, but my own bathroom and den as well. Link to post Share on other sites
Shockwave Posted December 3, 2006 Share Posted December 3, 2006 I voted "Other". Link to post Share on other sites
Vrakin Posted December 5, 2006 Share Posted December 5, 2006 i voted not sure because while i do like romantic relationships i really dont know if i could ever seriously feel safe in one due to quite a few bad relationships in the past. I suppose if she was REALLY understanding and patient we would get along very well. Link to post Share on other sites
Vikram Posted December 5, 2006 Share Posted December 5, 2006 I voted yes... Most of the times I feel that well... It might be great to have a significant other and stuff... but sometimes when I see my sexual friends (in fact, all of them are sexual) going through a tough time with their relationships, I think that "hey... maybe I'm better off without one"... Maybe I'm slightly aromantic... or maybe I'm terribly confused... :roll: Link to post Share on other sites
violeteyedsoul Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 I've been changing a LOT lately so currently I DON'T want a significant other. Though, I WOULD like it if someone were to come along, who was basically a more able, optimistic, and rich, form of myself; A-Sexual too of course. But I've found that no such person exists. *sigh!* lol! Link to post Share on other sites
Pixies Posted December 23, 2006 Share Posted December 23, 2006 In my ideal little fantasy world, there would be an attractive, youngish guy with floppy hair living in the apartment next to me. He would be hopelessly infatuated with me to an absurd degree and have tons of money with which he would use to shower me with gifts and to take me out to dinner. but he would neverever expect any real sort of emotional or physical connection from me. At some point, he would propose to me and we'd get married in a gigantic lavish ceremony and have an exotic honeymoon with two seperate hotel suites. We would then return home to our next-door-to-each-other apartments, where I would show off my pretty new ring to people and ocassionally indulge my new husband's wishes and allow him to sample my cooking or watch a movie with me before shooing him back to his own apartment for the night. We would grow old living next door to each other and he would continue woshipping the ground I walked on until the end of his days. Well, either that or I could hire some mad scientist to make clone copies of me. That wouldn't be bad at all. I could totally do a relationshippy thing with myself. Other than that, though? A real emotions-included relationship with another human being? Not in this lifetime. Link to post Share on other sites
Razzie Posted December 25, 2006 Share Posted December 25, 2006 I don't want any kind of long-term relationship - partners, kids, dependents, or live-in relatives :) I've lived in shared housing for years but I've always explained to landlords and housemates that I'm self-sufficient. It's not that I hate humanity, or find relationships offensive, it's just not my thing and it would be unfair on my other half to suddenly explain that I never wanted to live with them to begin with! :) Link to post Share on other sites
mrsdelahunty Posted December 27, 2006 Share Posted December 27, 2006 I want one.Missing the feeling not to have someone by my side.To share thoughts and laughter and sorrows :( I think I could live in a longterm raltionship,but I think only with another A,otherwise it would be too complicated,would force someone to live how you want it and not how he wants it :? Link to post Share on other sites
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