DMG Posted December 20, 2007 Share Posted December 20, 2007 Yeah, I've found a lot of women very attractive and do. Asexuals can be physically attracted to people, just rarely if ever sexually attracted. Link to post Share on other sites
iff Posted December 20, 2007 Share Posted December 20, 2007 Yeah, I've found a lot of women very attractive and do. Asexuals can be physically attracted to people, just rarely if ever sexually attracted. i agree wholeheartedly Link to post Share on other sites
Eponeena91 Posted January 5, 2008 Share Posted January 5, 2008 I have been intellectually attracted to many a fictional character. But as for a real person... never. Link to post Share on other sites
thewrll Posted February 12, 2008 Share Posted February 12, 2008 No I think they are attractive but they dont make me feel a crush. Link to post Share on other sites
thewrll Posted February 12, 2008 Share Posted February 12, 2008 Ive never had a crush. Link to post Share on other sites
ThePieMaker Posted February 12, 2008 Share Posted February 12, 2008 I have found myself quite enamored with a few people in the past. It's always their personality though. I suppose I am attracted to certain physical features, I have noticed a pattern, but I never really think they are hot. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest the_random_squirrel Posted June 7, 2008 Share Posted June 7, 2008 i think so. its confusing when you take away the sex element Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted June 10, 2008 Share Posted June 10, 2008 no, i've never been sexually attracted to any guy Link to post Share on other sites
audreymuse Posted June 10, 2008 Share Posted June 10, 2008 I find people attractive without necessarily feeling attracted to them sexually. Sexual people experience this too. For example a strait woman can find other women attractive without wanting sex. They can even have girl crushes. I definitely have crushes too. I think this makes it even more confusing. Link to post Share on other sites
ily Posted June 10, 2008 Share Posted June 10, 2008 More accurate for me would be "I did", although I voted "I do". I haven't felt that way in about 4 years. Link to post Share on other sites
ZombieSlayer54 Posted June 14, 2008 Share Posted June 14, 2008 Well, if you mean an intense want, and possibly need to be around and with a certain person, then yes. That is called extreme emotional/platonic attraction. I.E. Love. But I still dun get hard in my pants no matter what, except when I am sleeping and my body does its natural thing. Link to post Share on other sites
articvibe Posted September 13, 2009 Share Posted September 13, 2009 Yes... ish??? astheitic attraction not a "crush" im just obbsessed with shiny objects and i put pretty people in that catagory Link to post Share on other sites
Filmfan Posted September 14, 2009 Share Posted September 14, 2009 I voted "yes" because there are so many different ways to be attracted to someone. Personally, most of my attractions have been focused on movie stars. I tend to fall for them in certain romantic roles (for example, Ewan McGregor in "Moulin Rouge" or James McAvoy in, well, just about anything :redface:). There's a strong romantic attraction, like wanting to be sung to on the rooftops of Paris like Nicole Kidman was. And sometimes there's a physical attraction, like that guy is really nice to look at. He has great features, like eyes or hair or shoulders, that attract my attention. However, there's a complete lack of sexual desire related to that attraction, at least on my part. Nothing about them makes me want to drop my pants and have him do anything with my lady parts, you know? I think it's the fact that romantic interest and sexual interest can be two very different things. They can certainly happen at the same time for other people, but I've never experienced the latter. Link to post Share on other sites
sakura_alice Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 There has been a few times in my life when I've come across someone, and I get this feeling almost of embarrassment and can't even look up at them. Like, not embarrassed of them, but I get thoughts like, "omg, he's so cute! is he looking at me?" But then I feel like I have to leave the room or hide or something, lol! I don't know why I react like that. And I've only come across maybe two or three people that have ever made me feel that way. Link to post Share on other sites
LaMaestra Posted April 22, 2010 Share Posted April 22, 2010 The closest I've ever been to having such feelings is the way I feel about the man on my avatar who is a Swedish rock musician. He's beautiful and there's just something about him. I also admire his mind as like me he is very intelligent. Link to post Share on other sites
LadyGundam Posted April 22, 2010 Share Posted April 22, 2010 I have the strong urge to be around the person, get the nervous butterflies, can't get them out of my head and what-have-you, but as far as anything physical I'm never really interested. Link to post Share on other sites
Pandoren Posted April 22, 2010 Share Posted April 22, 2010 Wow, this thread likes a bit of necromancy, doesn't it? Link to post Share on other sites
Senwyn1 Posted April 22, 2010 Share Posted April 22, 2010 I'm not sure. I occasionally get a strong desire to talk to people. For example, if I hear them nearby, I'll find a reason/excuse to go past and speak to them. When I do speak to them, I get erratic in my speech patterns and babble to them or wait for them to speak to me. I think I do occasionally get the feeling of being out of breath when talking to them, but I don't think I've ever had any heart related feelings, like a rapid heart beat. Is it a crush? I'm not sure. I'd say its platonic attraction if anything. On an unrelated note, I find that over time people tend to look more aesthetically appealing to me. I don't know why. I'm still not attracted to them, they just seem.. prettier? Link to post Share on other sites
Preskom Posted April 22, 2010 Share Posted April 22, 2010 well...you seems to have somehat described what I call sensual attraction, so yes, I do have that. Link to post Share on other sites
Bear Posted April 23, 2010 Share Posted April 23, 2010 I've had crushes on kids in my class since kindergarten. I'm not sure how to define each one, since each crush was different. There was one boy, however, that I did kinda fall head-over-heals for. From what I knew, he felt the same, but neither of us said anything about it. Link to post Share on other sites
Averan Posted May 14, 2010 Share Posted May 14, 2010 Not really. Really only with celebrities and fictional characters. That is exactly how I feel. Link to post Share on other sites
rebekka1954 Posted May 18, 2010 Share Posted May 18, 2010 Yes I get attracted to women, wow she's so pretty, or so hot, but it's without any sexual pull, I just think I would be so lucky to be in her company. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest FrozenCherry Posted July 14, 2010 Share Posted July 14, 2010 Yes, the best favour I can do for myself is stop crush to men :lol: I have had 3 crushes in internet so far and that is killing me too slowly I cannot understand why I feel so powerful just because of posting :( I miss them all Link to post Share on other sites
LoNeR bY dEfAuLt Posted October 11, 2010 Share Posted October 11, 2010 there is and only ever has been one person in my life that i am truly in love with; the kind of love i would do anything for - sadly she doesn't even like me very much - and i'm not sure if this is a valid answer but, what i would say is, i feel so strongly for her that she is the one and only person in the world that i would be willing to have sex with if we were together if it would make her happy, even though i wouldn't enjoy it Link to post Share on other sites
hamham Posted October 12, 2010 Share Posted October 12, 2010 My biggest crush so far has been on a fictional character *is embarrassed* However, there is a guy at work at the mo who I do have quite a major crush on- everytime he comes in the room, I find myself getting really flustered and I can't talk to him. He thinks I'm stark raving mad though, oops :lol: Link to post Share on other sites
FrozenCherry Posted February 27, 2011 Share Posted February 27, 2011 I never want or do sex but I crush all the time and I love too... Link to post Share on other sites
Okami Posted February 27, 2011 Share Posted February 27, 2011 I used to have a major crush on the guy I went to school with. He's probably been the only one I've ever had those feelings for and it didn't last really long either. I mean, I wasn't even sad when he left my school... I believe other people would have been depressed about this for some time but I didn't feel any worse than usual XD Other than that, I only had "crushes" on fictional characters... Not sure if those are real crushes or if I'm just really obsessed with them. Link to post Share on other sites
gray_imagination Posted February 27, 2011 Share Posted February 27, 2011 possibly. I wouldn't call it a crush, but while it wasn't physical...it wasn't exactly platonic. It was...beyond my ability to describe. But there was definitely some kind of attraction going on, and, some kind of (though I hate to put it this way) connection. It wasn't "love". It was....something else. yeah, I give up. LOL. Link to post Share on other sites
Alex..y Posted April 29, 2011 Share Posted April 29, 2011 Aesthetic attraction? yes :lol: Platonic Attraction? sure :) Sensual Attraction? why not? Sexual Attraction? not even a little Link to post Share on other sites
Guest member25959 Posted April 29, 2011 Share Posted April 29, 2011 Nope. Link to post Share on other sites
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