Blackthorn Posted January 15, 2017 Share Posted January 15, 2017 I am forty and have been single for the vast majority of my life. About fifteen years ago I tried being in a relationship, in an attempt to be normal (I had never heard of asexuality then). A guy I knew vaguely asked me out and I thought - wow, an opportunity to be a real person! It only lasted a few months and I was so relieved when it ended - I felt so suffocated! I can't honestly say I loved the person, and I am sure he didn't love me. After that I decided to be myself and not be forced to conform. I have a few friends which I value very much, but I can't deal with very intense relationships. I hate it when people think they have a right of access to my physical and mental personal space. I love and have been loved by my family which is a great gift. And of course, cats are the best! Link to post Share on other sites
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