Guest Posted September 13, 2019 Share Posted September 13, 2019 Alright people, time to keep civil to each other. Phoenix the II Administrator Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Xstatic Posted September 13, 2019 Share Posted September 13, 2019 Dirty delete admin? Good thing I took a screenshot. It's cool. I'll go above you if I need to. Better that than be silenced, which is exactly what the problem is on this thread in the first place. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Xstatic Posted September 13, 2019 Share Posted September 13, 2019 Oh! You deleted another one of my posts! Well aren't you just a peach!! Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted September 13, 2019 Share Posted September 13, 2019 Locking thread until the moderator of the forum can have a look. Phoenix the II Administrator Quote Link to post Share on other sites
iff Posted September 13, 2019 Share Posted September 13, 2019 The thread will remain in cool down for time being. It will be reopened but just no yet. iff, moderator, sexual partners, friends & allies Quote Link to post Share on other sites
iff Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 Reopening thread iff, moderator, sexual partners, friends & allies Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Snao Cone Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 Question for sexual people: how often do you wash your sheets? 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tase Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 5 minutes ago, Snao van der Cone said: Question for sexual people: how often do you wash your sheets? Great lol while waiting for eye doc to tell me I’m getting old Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tase Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 Ok I just needed to add as soon as I looked up an obstetrician was pulling like 10 tissues out of a box. My mind was a baaaaad boooy ha Quote Link to post Share on other sites
ryn2 Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 Is using towels if something is likely to make a mess an ace thing? 😂 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Snao Cone Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 11 minutes ago, ryn2 said: Is using towels if something is likely to make a mess an ace thing? 😂 I think it's a responsible adult thing. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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Guest Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 I put down towels afterward... wet spots get chilly... but to be perfectly honest, I've never understood how people know where they're going to end up on the bed. Don't you migrate? I think once I get into it, the likelihood of thinking of a towel is slim to none. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Snao Cone Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 7 minutes ago, skullery said: I put down towels afterward... wet spots get chilly... but to be perfectly honest, I've never understood how people know where they're going to end up on the bed. Don't you migrate? I think once I get into it, the likelihood of thinking of a towel is slim to none. The towel worked for me the one time I used one (or rather the other person used one, as he knew what he was doing) but that's because I wasn't very animated that whole time. 😂 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
alibali Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 Migrate? As an asexual all the mess, just yuck. Also as an ace yes I would have to shower before and after and brush teeth even if I tried to leave it as long as I could for the sake of feelings, i felt dirty afterwards. I used to shower before so I was squeaky clean for my partner, although now I'm not so sure it would have mattered if i hadn't showered since the morning. Thats a question for sexuals. I mean I am never going to have sex again. I am just curious. Do you shower before sex? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 3 minutes ago, Snao van der Cone said: I wasn't very animated that whole time. 😂 Seems like a towel requirement, so you did well. 😂 2 minutes ago, alibali said: Do you shower before sex? I don't shower before or after sex. My ex was big into showering beforehand and I feel like it gave me a bit of a complex about feeling dirty. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 Maybe it's a straight thing, the staying still? I've always seen that in movies, just one person on top of the other, right in sleeping position on the bed... I don't really get it. Just assumed that was cinematic flair. 😂 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 Huh. Interesting. Now I wanna know. Mixed gender couples... thoughts? Do you end up in weird positions and spots on the bed? Does the mattress stay in place? What's... how does the towel thing work? Do you have to try to stay on the towel? I HAVE QUESTIONS. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Snao Cone Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 12 minutes ago, skullery said: Maybe it's a straight thing, the staying still? I've always seen that in movies, just one person on top of the other, right in sleeping position on the bed... I don't really get it. Just assumed that was cinematic flair. 😂 I wouldn't be surprised. I don't think it's inherent to hetero sex, but the fact that it's presumed default in societies that have historically refused to ever talk about sex means that straight people start out with an oversimplified understanding of sexual intimacy and don't face as many challenges to it that force them to get creative. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Snao Cone Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 Oh, another thing about the towel for me is that I was a bloody mess, so it was more important than other circumstances, I guess. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Snao Cone Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 Oh, no, I was just menstruating. (love to use a word that will gross out more people 👌🏻) It wasn't really heavy anyway. I don't think any got on the towel. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 14 minutes ago, Snao van der Cone said: I wouldn't be surprised. I don't think it's inherent to hetero sex, but the fact that it's presumed default in societies that have historically refused to ever talk about sex means that straight people start out with an oversimplified understanding of sexual intimacy and don't face as many challenges to it that force them to get creative. In all seriousness, that sounds like a heavy burden, to have a humanity's worth of historical context to live up to and replicate. You're probs right... Knowing from the very beginning that you've gotta forge your own trail is probably liberating. Provides for more enjoyable options. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Snao Cone Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 Just now, skullery said: In all seriousness, that sounds like a heavy burden, to have a humanity's worth of historical context to live up to and replicate. You're probs right... Knowing from the very beginning that you've gotta forge your own trail is probably liberating. Provides for more enjoyable options. I wouldn't be surprised if I'm totally off on this, though, because I was overthinking the mechanics of sex and analyzing the cultural context of it far more than a heterosexual person should. This is another example of hindsight that I should've known I was asexual. 😂 I thought more about the political and moral symbolism of positions than the pleasure. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 Oh yeahhhhh. Positions!! Another straight person thing. 😂 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Snao Cone Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 6 minutes ago, CBC said: I've thought about that sort of thing a lot tbh, although... not really in the middle of sex. I have definitely thought about it in the middle of sex. Won't get into storytelling mode here, though. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 Do it. It's Q&A, consider this a Q. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Snao Cone Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 Well, when I wasn't really feeling into the sex itself, I wondered if it was a position thing, then my mind wandered to think of how diverse the female sexual experience is, and how many women really enjoy that position, or if I was somehow doing something wrong, or if this guy just wasn't very good. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 What position? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Snao Cone Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 I was on top Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Snao Cone Posted September 19, 2019 Share Posted September 19, 2019 3 minutes ago, CBC said: All my experiences on the bottom were boring af. Same, but top was no better. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Sex is extremely boring. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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