villapark53 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 . Link to post Share on other sites
Nea Rose Symphony Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 Don't do what you're uncomfortable with. Do what feels natural. What is your suspicion based on? Link to post Share on other sites
Baam Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 If you don't want to have a relationship, don't say yes. Don't lead him on, tell him that you wish to remain as friends. You could try explaining to him that you're lithromantic if you're comfortable with that. You could even explain squishes to him if you want. Link to post Share on other sites
Keumi Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 I don't think you should say yes. If you already know ahead of time that you don't want a relationship, it'll just cause problems and make things more complicated later on if you decide you can't handle being in the relationship anymore. I would just tell him you only want to remain friends, maybe try to explain what it means to be lithromantic if you want. If you say yes though, it'll just be like you're leading him on which would probably hurt him more in the end. Link to post Share on other sites
CNGB Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 I have to agree with those who have said that you should say no if he ends up asking you out. :) I don't know if I would explain lithromanticism to him if I was in your position or not, but that is up to you! It might make it easier for him to understand, if you have shown any interest in him beforehand, but otherwise I'm not sure how much it would help him. Either way, best of luck! :D Link to post Share on other sites
Chihiro Posted December 17, 2015 Share Posted December 17, 2015 If your crush is a friend and if you feel comfortable you can explain your lithromantic orientation. I wonder if he can pretend to be aromantic so that you can be comfortable in the relationship! Anyway you will have to explain your asexuality too, and it may look very complicated. If you dont think it will work out, you can just say you want to be friends. (I am someone who would loose interest in friendship too if I realise someone has crush on me). Link to post Share on other sites
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