Glyn Posted March 13, 2017 Share Posted March 13, 2017 On 05/09/2015 at 9:58 PM, Glyn said: At 39, I'm NEARLY old enough to be on that list! I'm now 40 and still a virgin. Can I have my entry on the list please sir? 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
OldNews Posted March 13, 2017 Share Posted March 13, 2017 6 hours ago, Glyn said: I'm now 40 and still a virgin. Can I have my entry on the list please sir? Definitely! I hereby grant you entry to the list of those who in 40 years took no time to do what seems to be rather important to some people.... 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SorryNotSorry Posted May 27, 2017 Share Posted May 27, 2017 On December 4, 2015 at 8:57 PM, newgirl said: I would like to see a documentary on adult virgins over 40,who do not want sex ,happy and in or not in relationship. Let's film it! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Glyn Posted May 30, 2017 Share Posted May 30, 2017 There was a documentary shown over here in the UK that showed two adult virgins who were both close to 40. The difference between many of us here and the two in the documentary was that those in the documentary actually wanted to lose thier virginity (I for one am quite happy with being a virgin at my age). What was interesting though was that the guy in the documentary (the other was a woman) said that many people thought he was gay when they found out he was still a virgin at his age. ...which sounds spookily familiar to many here on AVEN I imagine. I've lost count the amount of times someone has assumed I'm gay because I am still a virgin at 40 and have no particular interest in losing my virginity. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
will123 Posted June 1, 2017 Share Posted June 1, 2017 Born in 1961 and still haven't 'done the deed'. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Johnny76 Posted June 2, 2017 Share Posted June 2, 2017 Born 1976 and still a virgin 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Johnny76 Posted June 6, 2017 Share Posted June 6, 2017 I was born in 76 and I agree we had the best cartoons! Trying to remember all their names. There was Voltron, transformers, Astro boy, inspector gadget, Roger ramjet, he man, danger mouse, mask just name a few. Good memories. 😃 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
newgirl Posted July 13, 2017 Author Share Posted July 13, 2017 New members roll Anybody born before 1970? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
BobRossRules Posted July 14, 2017 Share Posted July 14, 2017 10 hours ago, newgirl said: New members roll Anybody born after 1970? I'm just a year shy. Well technically I'm only 2.5 months shy of 1970. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
OldNews Posted July 20, 2017 Share Posted July 20, 2017 On 7/13/2017 at 9:46 AM, newgirl said: New members roll Anybody born after 1970? Yes! I was born in 1975. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
daisylove Posted July 26, 2017 Share Posted July 26, 2017 What about a compilation video? You don't even have to go on camera just a 30 second video stating your age and that you're an asexual virgin? It would raise a lot of awareness for the community. (you can see I am literally and figuratively a big fan of cake!!) 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
newgirl Posted July 26, 2017 Author Share Posted July 26, 2017 Because I love my privacy, I hate being in front of the camera and don't do online video. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Bagshaw Posted August 3, 2017 Share Posted August 3, 2017 On 5/30/2017 at 5:10 PM, Glyn said: There was a documentary shown over here in the UK that showed two adult virgins who were both close to 40. The difference between many of us here and the two in the documentary was that those in the documentary actually wanted to lose thier virginity (I for one am quite happy with being a virgin at my age). What was interesting though was that the guy in the documentary (the other was a woman) said that many people thought he was gay when they found out he was still a virgin at his age. ...which sounds spookily familiar to many here on AVEN I imagine. I've lost count the amount of times someone has assumed I'm gay because I am still a virgin at 40 and have no particular interest in losing my virginity. I'm 40+ and still a virgin, and fully expect to remain so. But I know exactly what you mean about people assuming you're gay. I get that a lot - and very few ever actually ask. I don't feel like I can go round telling people I'n not gay when they haven't asked - it would just sound like I was protesting too much. And I don't have any boyfriends to talk about so it's kind of difficult to correct the impression. Its not that I'm secretive about my partners - I just really don't have any! And that seems to be something that either doesn't occur to people or that they find really difficult to believe. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Glyn Posted August 4, 2017 Share Posted August 4, 2017 17 hours ago, Bagshaw said: I'm 40+ and still a virgin, and fully expect to remain so. But I know exactly what you mean about people assuming you're gay. I get that a lot - and very few ever actually ask. I don't feel like I can go round telling people I'n not gay when they haven't asked - it would just sound like I was protesting too much. And I don't have any boyfriends to talk about so it's kind of difficult to correct the impression. Its not that I'm secretive about my partners - I just really don't have any! And that seems to be something that either doesn't occur to people or that they find really difficult to believe. I still remember when I started my last job. I had one guy automatically assume that I was gay even before I walked in the door for the interview (literally). He had spread it around that I was gay, and it wasn't until about a month or two after I had started the job that I found out that he'd been talking about me (I had two other co-workers ask me if I was gay independantly of each other, both saying that this particular chef was the one who had spread it around). How did this chef come to the conclusion I was gay? Apparently, he had seen me and an old friend of mine "holding hands" when we saw each other. Kind of wierd, considering that the only time me and my friend "held hands" was when I saw him outside before I arrived for the interview - I hadn't seen him for years and, of course the first thing you do is shake hands and caught up with old times. By that definition, most straight men are secretly gay, especially considering the fact that many straight men have also shaken hands - including the chef who started the rumour! 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Yeast Posted February 23, 2018 Share Posted February 23, 2018 I belong here too. Born in 1957. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
dee615 Posted February 27, 2018 Share Posted February 27, 2018 On 12/4/2015 at 9:57 PM, newgirl said: I would like to see a documentary on adult virgins over 40,who do not want sex ,happy and in or not in relationship. Same here. I'm guessing that a lot of people would not want to "come out" and declare their status in an identifiable way, so a documentary like this would be difficult to produce. Virgin at 54, (the next part of the sentence may be TMI, but is included for clarification purposes) as in never been penetrated. I'm fine with it, live a contented life with work, interests, committee involvements and long standing, close friendships. None of my friends are aware of my "V" status, because in my circles we just don't get into that kind of detailed intimate convo. Gave up dating 17 yrs ago - easier than postponing the inevitable question of "third base", with the guy end up feeling duped. I have a good sense of style (today a young college woman complimented me on my bright navy boots), and pretty good social skills. As I recall, only two women I've met in my adult life have even circumspectly tried to figure out if I was straight. Maybe it's because I just happen to fall in line (stylistically and personality- wise) within the conventionally feminine range of self-expression. Of course, conventionally feminine self-expression isn't a necessary indicator of straightness, but both these women were "old school" and religious, so I'm pretty sure they thought along those lines. I guess I come across as just another busy professional woman - except that I haven't had this experience that is supposed to complete (?) a person and serve as one of the markers of transition towards adulthood. I don't think about this unusual aspect of my persona unless prompted by a question like this. I just go about my life thinking of other stuff. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
newgirl Posted February 27, 2018 Author Share Posted February 27, 2018 Dee615, Welcome to the club/group. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
will123 Posted April 16, 2018 Share Posted April 16, 2018 On 2017-07-20 at 6:16 PM, OldNews said: Yes! I was born in 1975. That makes me feel really old as that was the fall I started high school. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
daveb Posted April 16, 2018 Share Posted April 16, 2018 21 minutes ago, will123 said: That makes me feel really old as that was the fall I started high school. That was a year after I graduated high school. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
OldNews Posted April 17, 2018 Share Posted April 17, 2018 23 hours ago, will123 said: That makes me feel really old as that was the fall I started high school. Sorry -- I was not intending to make anyone feel old.... 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
RekrabMot Posted August 28, 2018 Share Posted August 28, 2018 now 51 and still a virgin. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
JHC (pet in waiting) Posted September 1, 2018 Share Posted September 1, 2018 Meeeeeeee!!!!!! Born in October 1974 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Kia Hiraeth Posted September 4, 2018 Share Posted September 4, 2018 I was born in 1971 and have never had consensual sex, does that count? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Tabula Rasa Posted September 6, 2018 Share Posted September 6, 2018 It’s so refreshing to read this thread!!! 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
newgirl Posted September 7, 2018 Author Share Posted September 7, 2018 9 hours ago, The Bookworm said: It’s so refreshing to read this thread!!! Are you an older V too? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Tabula Rasa Posted September 7, 2018 Share Posted September 7, 2018 2 hours ago, newgirl said: Are you an older V too? Nope. I'm 35. But for a long time I thought I was very much alone in my experience as a lifelong V. 3 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Nick2 Posted September 10, 2018 Share Posted September 10, 2018 67 and still a virgin. (do I win anything???) 4 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
will123 Posted September 10, 2018 Share Posted September 10, 2018 19 minutes ago, Nick2 said: 67 and still a virgin. (do I win anything???) LOL! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
newgirl Posted November 20, 2018 Author Share Posted November 20, 2018 I wish there was a way we all could meetup 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
AvenHope Posted December 3, 2018 Share Posted December 3, 2018 37 and I haven’t been with anyone sexually in 15 years. I feel like I’m a Virgin all over again. I will never have sexual experience again in my life. I just want a forever companion who is also asexual like me. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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