Toiletman Posted January 8, 2006 Share Posted January 8, 2006 Never been. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Islander9 Posted January 23, 2006 Share Posted January 23, 2006 I voted 'Never' -but I lied! I've never been in any sexual or romantic relationship BUT *I am first daughter to my mother; *eldest sibling for my sisters and brothers; *aunt & great-aunt for their children; *good friend to my surviving friends and *best friend to 2 of them, and I am also peer and mentor to many in my fields of interest. I sure as hell aint lacking in relationships! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbctv Posted September 26, 2007 Share Posted September 26, 2007 never. plus, i think the only times i got interested in someone (except the first ) were just owing to psychiatric instability. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghostgurl Posted September 26, 2007 Share Posted September 26, 2007 Never have, and I don't see that changing anytime soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
waffo Posted September 26, 2007 Share Posted September 26, 2007 None yet. I do want to have one when I become a little more independent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tool1989 Posted September 27, 2007 Share Posted September 27, 2007 4. What I failed to realize is that even though I was overwhelmed by them asking me out (all did except one, which I asked out) they just were into partying and getting drunk. I thought that maybe if I tried to conform a bit to stay with them, maybe I'll be happier. It didn't work cuz they kept making more demands on me and eventually it all blew up cuz of all the anger I had with them not realizing how much I sacrificed to be with them. I was together with a girl who has an Eating Disorder to almost two years but she got into a crowd that loved to party and she pressured me to drink and smoke. I never forgave her for that cuz I just couldn't find it in my heart. She broke up with me cuz I was always mad with her about her pressuring me into doing things I don't want to do. I am happy right now for some reason though....even without her. It is just SO hard to find somebody who doesn't force you to do something and doesn't care what other people think of them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyan Posted October 3, 2007 Share Posted October 3, 2007 One: Lasted 3 days. At which point, the internal conflict about how WRONG it felt for him to hold my hand, but not being willing to say anything about it, hit a peak and I ended up crying all over my mom in the middle of a public building. I then refused to speak to him on IM for a month, but was foiled from avoiding him completely by the fact that he was in three of my classes. (I believe I am a romantic asexual now. I was just young and confused and immature then.) He was still in love with me and I was too afraid of hurting him, so phase 2 was a horribly uncomfortable 4ish year period of me trying to convince myself that we were honestly nothing more than friends. He has an actual girlfriend now, and now we really are "just" friends, but in a much less uncomfortable and heartbreaking way than before. And I like his girlfriend. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rosalie Posted October 4, 2007 Share Posted October 4, 2007 One only. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zerick Posted October 4, 2007 Share Posted October 4, 2007 Only two. One good One bad One gone One ongoing One strong . One weak One painful One enjoyable One fish ..two fish ... red fish ..... blue fish Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baldur Posted October 4, 2007 Share Posted October 4, 2007 No, never. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloom.Cookie Posted November 15, 2007 Share Posted November 15, 2007 . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 my longest relationship was just a couple weeks long, meaning just four dates long. that's when i end it in my mind because he brings in sexuality or some other dead end. it could take sometimes years to finally make a clean break though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hayley Posted November 18, 2007 Share Posted November 18, 2007 I smell ongoing thread revival... :lol: I've been in lots of romantic relationships; some long, some short, some good, most bad. I've had three that were serious, and am in one that I am very serious about and dedicated to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Astryda Posted May 25, 2009 Share Posted May 25, 2009 No, I haven't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shinnok Posted May 25, 2009 Share Posted May 25, 2009 I've been in countless internet relationships. Only a couple can I think of that were really "meaningful" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elliott Ford Posted May 25, 2009 Share Posted May 25, 2009 I'm in a very serious relationship now. Like "The One" if i allow myself to entertain such a concept. Sie is the best thing that ever happened to me. I'm also in a few other relationships, different variants along the theme of romantic friendship / friends-plus-benefits including a relationship based on a mutual promise NOT to fall in love with eachother, to have the actions that go with a romantic relationship and the feelings that go with close friendship. That possibly only makes sense to us :) And my partner is wonderful for being so understanding and accepting of the idea that i have really close relationships with other people. Heck, sie would too if sie was still at Uni and that'd just confuse everyone :) Previously, i was in something i defined as a relationship for about a year but it turned out that she didn't define it as a relationship at all, just a rather strange friendship and when she was repeating words like "i love you" back at me she didn't mean anything like what i meant :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aimeendfire Posted May 25, 2009 Share Posted May 25, 2009 just one...which I'm quite serious about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luvdisc Posted May 25, 2009 Share Posted May 25, 2009 I had an online relationship once. I know it's different... but it was something... It was years ago, I would not want to do it again. Too many stupid emotions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zoidberger Posted May 26, 2009 Share Posted May 26, 2009 I'm in my first and only relationship right now and I'd like to think it's serious :P (Which it is :D) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cheshire-Cat Posted May 26, 2009 Share Posted May 26, 2009 I've had one relationship which lasted 7 months. I was very much in love with him and he broke my heart however we're still friends. Although we did have sex (I'd say I'm demi-sexual) I was never really bothered about it but he was a hypersexual so wanted sex constantly. So annoying! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starscream Posted May 26, 2009 Share Posted May 26, 2009 Yes. 3 times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Atheno Posted May 26, 2009 Share Posted May 26, 2009 I can count the number on no hands. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forensic Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 Had two boyfriends, one of whom became a fiancee for a bit... Single now. Happy about it too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AVENCakes Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 My first was a "long idstance" relationship at 12 (we lived an hour away). We only kissed, and barely had any physical contact. It was pretty sweet. Then I had a 2 month long abusive relationship at 14 with a 16 year old. The first month it was sexually abusive, the second month he moved away and it became emotionally abusive. As you can imagine, I missed the first. The third was 4 years later, and entirely online after I came out to myself as asexual, transsexual, and multiple. She was multiple, poly, and understood transissues- it seemed like it'd work out, except she ended up cheating on me (yes, I know what poly is. It genuinely was cheating by the poly definition) and with a guy she knew I disliked (that's why she cheated instead of being open about it). I couldn't stand being with her while she was with him, much less after the trust destruction- and broke up with her. There was a thing one weekend. Thursday I watched Red Dwarf with him, he asked me out,a nd it was so late I ended up staying in his dorm room- and barely got any sleep. He found out I was trans, and backpedalled to an "open relationship". I couldn't get ahold of him the next 2 days, except for once when I tracked him down and he only talked about this girl he was in love with. Sunday, before Ihad a chance to, he broke up with me over AIM. I was furious. I don't count it as a relationship. My current partner nad I met online, talked for a month until he asked me out- and we've been together ever since. :) I spent a month in england to meet them, and then they came back with me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a-bit-scared Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 2 relationships both ended when sex became an issue as in he wanted it & I didn't LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a-bit-scared Posted May 30, 2009 Share Posted May 30, 2009 Double post oops Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Min Farshaw Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 4 relationships. The longest for 2 1/2 years, the shortest a month. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fi_Loubet Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 I voted 'none', but I consider what I would call my 'life-long friendships' to be very important. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
psyote Posted June 4, 2009 Share Posted June 4, 2009 3-4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Member #27415 Posted June 5, 2009 Share Posted June 5, 2009 one, and i wish it didnt happen either. well, it was a learning experience yes, but it did more harm than good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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