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Has anyone actually found another asexual in real life?


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11 minutes ago, Retrobot said:

But what is real life

I'm sorry, I had to

I've got Jaden Smith on the line. We're gonna get to the bottom of this.

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J. van Deijck
15 minutes ago, Retrobot said:

But what is real life

I'm sorry, I had to

this is a question :D

 

probably it doesn't count well, but my bf says that demi-homosexual would describe his orientation the best.

but! my sister is still questioning, yet she says she's most likely a grey-biromantic ace. and if so, then yes I know another ace in real life. :D

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My close friend is demisexual just like me. First she came out to me as asexual but recently she started dating someone. I asked her if she talked to him about her being an ace. She told me in that moment that she's demisexual for sure. I'm so happy that I have someone who understands me and is on my side no matter what. 

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Groovy Teacakes

Since going to university I’ve met at least 4 people in my college who are ace. There seems to be a remarkably high concentration here!

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One of my best friends is ace, we’ve been friends scince either of us told eachother.

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One of my friends of nine years also turned out to be ace. I also met my best friend, roommate, and QPR partner at my college orientation. We did not learn we were both aro/ace till a month or two after getting to know each other. I also know of a married aro/ace couple on my campus, but I have only briefly talked to them. Other than that I have heard people say things like they know there roommate is ace, but I've never met those people. 

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One of my high school friends I still talk to is on the ace spectrum. But sadly we go to different colleges so I don't know any aces at my school. The closest thing though was where I heard two people talking to each other and one of them mentioned that her friend was asexual soooo 

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I have an acquaintance that's Demisexual, and my very close friend is questioning if he's on the asexuality spectrum. 

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AcornCarvings

Quite a few, I know a few from high school (i didn't learn they were ace-spectrum until after I graduated though lol) and I have met a few more in college. I'm super close and I guess kinda romantic-ey with one of my college ace friends, and I know two others too.

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I know two other aces. But I only saw them once a week in a drama class that I did. But now we are in different classes so I don’t see them anymore. I knew one of them was ace since I met them, the other one I found out about literally on the last day cause we were just talking and it came up

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Not anyone in real life, but I haven't searched too much yet.  😇

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Strange But Not a Stranger

No. But I haven't actively searched or anything.

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Trying to randomly run into an ace IRL is like trying to find a shiny Pokémon 😅. I’ve actually overheard someone talking about asexuality when I was on a walk randomly but I was with my family and stuff and didn’t want to make things awkward. 

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I have! When me and my best friend were explaining what my ace ring was to another of my best friends, we were doing it in front of a few of my other friends. One of them was obviously half listening in and asked me what the ring meant. When I told her it was a symbol of asexuality, she told me she was asexual as well. It was a magical moment! 😍

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i've never met anyone who's ace irl and honestly i would love to do so! maybe when i start uni and meet new people ... also maybe when i myself tell anyone i'm asexual lmao, it's possible i've met someone who's ace that just haven't told anyone just like me i guess

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I actually have! A friend I had known for quite awhile described himself as asexual when we were talking one day. It was a suprise to learn an asexual was right underneath my nose!

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I’ve never met another ace as a result of my pride stuff (I have an ace pin on my denim jacket and I never leave the house without my ace ring) but at my family’s New Year’s party this year I found out that my godmother’s daughter, who’s a little over a year younger than me, is aro/ace.

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the_alternative

Nope, although I've moved a countless amount of times, I never got to see or talk to a fellow asexual, which is mainly the reason I use this site.

I've met somebody who's my core-opposite tho, a guy who is aromantic bisexual. It was interesting to talk to him, but I had a feeling I'd never be able to understand him.

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CaptainMarvel

I have one, possibly two (she was wearing a black ring on her middle finger but I didn’t have the courage to ask about it) friends that are ace and I know  for a fact there are at least two others at my school

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Yes! One of my college friends was aroace and i didnt even realize until the third year weve known each other ahhaha

We were roommates for three years and she told me she was ao relieved that i was similar to her hahhaha

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We all probably have, but didn't know it, because we don't wear labels.

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Ehh first time I met someone else who was asexual was before I even knew I was asexual.(didn't know I was because I was "I have crushes so definitely I must be gay") Back in 2012 a friend of mine in highschool straight up told me she was asexual and I just let it fly completely over my head. I ended up just nodding and said okay and then I went back to reading The Name of the Wind. Looking back I hate how oblivious I was to LGBT stuff since all I did was just read books all the damn time. 

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