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There are people who are not, for some reason or other, able to physically change their biological gender to fit the psychological gender. They are still - if they identify as such - transgender. There are also those who are agender or bigender or genderqueer and so on, and some of them might not feel a need to physically adjust their body, so long as they can dress and present more androgynous. As I understand, it is very individual. Someone may, I think, identify as transgender without necessarily wishing to do something about it, or, indeed, without being able to do something about it.

I used to feel that way, that I could live with this body, even if it wasn't right. For a long time, it worked. It was fine when the only thing I had to do was be presentable at school. Now I have to tick boxes on whether I am male or female, and I hate it, because it feels like I am lying every time I say female. Besides that, just seeing myself in the mirror is more demoralising than anything else.

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nerdperson777

I feel that way. I don't really take risks and I like to be safe so I'm not thinking about transitioning myself with HRT or doing surgery. I often just get used to things whether I like it or not, since my parents showed me the pessimistic side of reality really young. They didn't fluff anything up by giving me a bunch of toys and giving me extravagant praise for the good things I did. That's all before I identified myself anywhere on the transgender spectrum. I don't like the female body but I'm dealing with it. There are some things I do like about being female but I mostly would enjoy male ones. I like to change things that are within my control, like my physical appearance. Stuff like HRT and surgery are not and I don't like the uncertainty of it so I rather stay how I am. I say I'm a boy inside, not a man so a higher voice and a lack of much testosterone is fine with me.

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citizenofAcity

And I'm one of those other cases where I do have the desire to undergo HRT because of my social dysphoria. I have no problem with my body, but it's because of my body that I get misgendered every second of the day. It's downright unbearable for me.

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Makalasterlove

Gender is social and cultural differences. If you transgender you go against what you society and culture deems "normal". I'm agender, I do not wish to change my body with hormones or surgery. I can tuck and just shave off my body hair; I would feel comfortable with myself if I just did that. Technically, that us going against the gender structure of the society in the United States. If I present androgynously.

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