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PurveyorOfBadPuns

I am asexual. Butts are great. That is all. (And here we see an example of the conjugation of the English verb for to be…)

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WhenSummersGone

Anal sex is quite common as well both in hetero and homosexual couples.

I don't think it's common for hetero couples but it certainly does happen.

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I'd rather be in band.

I relate to this. Most of my peers have tried time and time again to "help" me acquire a love for butts, but they have been unsuccessful; I find them disgusting and odd. Most people have told me that it can accentuate one's shape, and I suppose that that is true, but I don't find them appealing either way...

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I will never understand the great love of butts. My friends will swoon, yes swoon I kid you not, over a particularly fine butt- in movies or irl. I just don't get it. Honestly, it's a butt.

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Did you all know people can get ass surgery to make it bigger??? Why!!!!!?

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Did you all know people can get ass surgery to make it bigger??? Why!!!!!?

Money, dear boy. 8)

Exploiting the body issues of people who feel "aesthetically inferior" is a multimillion (probably multibillion, even) dollar industry. And the more people you "improve" that way, the more the beauty standard can shift to ever higher expectations that almost nobody in the world at all reaches naturally, thus the more people will feel inferior, thus the more people seek surgery. Ka-ching!

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Do I need any sort of paper to preform those surgeries? I want money!

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The other day one of my friends was teasing about how saggy my ex-boyfriend's butt was.
I responded, "How should you know? I'm the one who's actually touched it."
To which he responded, "You're asexual. You probably touched it and just went, 'Yep, that's a butt.'"
And that was probably one of the most accurate things I've heard in my life.

I honestly don't even know what constitutes a saggy butt. I just don't. Pay. Attention.

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Quintus Crinis

My guess is that butts (big round ones lol) are deemed feminine when coupled with a slim waist. Butts can also be an integral part of sexual intercourse. And I know girls can also like men's butts, so I guess roundness is an important factor.

What I find interesting in regards to "boobs are sexy" is that big breasts are found in all human populations but not every culture sexualizes them. So I find a hard time believing it's "scientific" that men love boobs.

I really enjoyed this article about the attractiveness of breasts and it addresses your above thoughts about it:

http://broadblogs.com/2010/11/04/men-aren’t-hard-wired-to-find-breasts-attractive/

I think I've seen this same sort of argument made by nudists as well - that the naked body is only seen as sexualised by most people because it is usually covered and so it is generally only seen for the purposes of intercourse, so nowadays holds this connotation in the mind?

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binary suns

I feel so sad, because I am a skinny little thing, with a tiny littel butt :( sometimes if I stand the right way an look in the mirror, my butt looks kinda nice... I am jeally of people with nice butts =C

but a thing I really don't get, is why likeing butts has to be sexual? they are just cushy and comfortable to lean on/cuddle with

I love spooning, because the butt is so comfy! :redface:

sex with butts is gross! ewww... squick...

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I can agree.
Butts are comfy for cuddling.

I think butts in sex is based upon individuals. Some people are down for rimming, and then a lot of other people won't touch 'em at all. It's just individual preference, I think.

Also, this thread is my home, the place I belong, because my last name is 'Butts'.

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I look at butts and I see butts and I'm like... yep, that's a butt.

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The one thing you have to give sexuals credit for regarding liking butts, is that they cannot lie about it. I don't think you'd be able to find one brother who would deny that. Heck, sometimes when a girl walks in with an itty bitty waist and a round thing in my face, even I'll get sprung on occasion.

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Martin de V

Surely that's not the first Sir Mix-A-Lot reference in this thread.... (I haven't actually read the whole thing.)

I'm not sure I can adequately address the original poster, so I'm not even going to get into it right now.

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It actually is - I totally thought I was going to get to do it, until the second last post in the thread :( ;)

I'm a bit surprised about all the "Ewww!" "Ick!" comments, though. I'm just going to assume they saw Miley Cyrus twerk, and it killed butts for them ;)

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Butts are just awesome for so many reasons :wub: ...However, to go into all the reasons (or even just some of them) would be far too much TMI for my fellow AVENites :p :cake:

:ph34r:>>> ((

hehehe

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skymessenger

Butts are for protecting the area around our body's "exits". But also they are for sitting comfortably. Cause if we didn't have butts, think how horrible it would be to sit on an uncushioned chair.
So why the sexualization? Why the obsession over whether one's butt is small or big. Big butts mean the person is more comfortable sitting right? Why the appearance? Are people sexually turned on seeing the perfect sitting device? Cause I don't understand that at ALL.

And why boobs? They're bags of skin. You can go to a retirement home and find people with loads of baggy skin. And for me, they're uncomfortable.

The only time they really make a difference is when they are used for nursing infants. And that's ALL they should be used for. It's creepy to think of grown men perving on women with breasts. Are they subconsiously referring to the days of their nursing? Do they subconsiously want to have sex with their mother? Cause that is just sick....

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Butts are for protecting the area around our body's "exits". But also they are for sitting comfortably. Cause if we didn't have butts, think how horrible it would be to sit on an uncushioned chair.

So why the sexualization? Why the obsession over whether one's butt is small or big. Big butts mean the person is more comfortable sitting right? Why the appearance? Are people sexually turned on seeing the perfect sitting device? Cause I don't understand that at ALL.

And why boobs? They're bags of skin. You can go to a retirement home and find people with loads of baggy skin. And for me, they're uncomfortable.

The only time they really make a difference is when they are used for nursing infants. And that's ALL they should be used for. It's creepy to think of grown men perving on women with breasts. Are they subconsiously referring to the days of their nursing? Do they subconsiously want to have sex with their mother? Cause that is just sick....

I think natural big breasts look lovely, and natural tiny breasts, and natural in-between-sized breasts. Breasts are something that are just so innately feminine.. and they feel lovely to squeeze ^_^

I certainly do not want to have sex with my mother, and I am not sick. I don't look at breasts and think ''mmmm I wish I could drink milk from those breasts''.. I think ''what a lovely shape her breasts are, they really define her gorgeous waist''

Butts are also lovely, just, because they are. Too many reasons (and many of them too dodgy) to go into here :ph34r:

I also think eyes can be just GORGEOUS, and I know many people who will (figuratively) drool over a gorgeous pair of eyes. But, eyes are only good for seeing with, right?

At the end of the day, these are all just body parts.. hands, eyes, butts, breasts, legs.. Just body parts ^_^

While I understand that other people disagree that breasts and butts are lovely, I think it's unfair to say that people who DO like breasts and butts are sick.

That would be like me saying ''anyone who doesn't like the way breasts look and feel has something wrong with them''

Obviously I wouldn't say that, because it's not true! But, I really do think that some people can be far too cruel and judgmental when it comes to what others think/believe/enjoy or desire :(

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Feral_Sophisticate
I think natural big breasts look lovely, and natural tiny breasts, and natural in-between-sized breasts. Breasts are something that are just so innately feminine.. and they feel lovely to squeeze ^_^

I agree 100%. I could spend hours just gawking at a pair of nice breasts (of course, everyone's taste where tatas are concerned will vary, and is very personal), and I can do that in a nonsexual way, too. ^_^

It helps that my girl likes to walk around topless as often as she does, but it does prove distracting... :blink:

I hate that... :wacko:

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Frigid Pink

Butts are for protecting the area around our body's "exits". But also they are for sitting comfortably. Cause if we didn't have butts, think how horrible it would be to sit on an uncushioned chair.

So why the sexualization? Why the obsession over whether one's butt is small or big. Big butts mean the person is more comfortable sitting right? Why the appearance? Are people sexually turned on seeing the perfect sitting device? Cause I don't understand that at ALL.

And why boobs? They're bags of skin. You can go to a retirement home and find people with loads of baggy skin. And for me, they're uncomfortable.

The only time they really make a difference is when they are used for nursing infants. And that's ALL they should be used for. It's creepy to think of grown men perving on women with breasts. Are they subconsiously referring to the days of their nursing? Do they subconsiously want to have sex with their mother? Cause that is just sick....

I think natural big breasts look lovely, and natural tiny breasts, and natural in-between-sized breasts. Breasts are something that are just so innately feminine.. and they feel lovely to squeeze ^_^

I certainly do not want to have sex with my mother, and I am not sick. I don't look at breasts and think ''mmmm I wish I could drink milk from those breasts''.. I think ''what a lovely shape her breasts are, they really define her gorgeous waist''

Butts are also lovely, just, because they are. Too many reasons (and many of them too dodgy) to go into here :ph34r:

I also think eyes can be just GORGEOUS, and I know many people who will (figuratively) drool over a gorgeous pair of eyes. But, eyes are only good for seeing with, right?

At the end of the day, these are all just body parts.. hands, eyes, butts, breasts, legs.. Just body parts ^_^

While I understand that other people disagree that breasts and butts are lovely, I think it's unfair to say that people who DO like breasts and butts are sick.

That would be like me saying ''anyone who doesn't like the way breasts look and feel has something wrong with them''

Obviously I wouldn't say that, because it's not true! But, I really do think that some people can be far too cruel and judgmental when it comes to what others think/believe/enjoy or desire :(

I think it's okay if others enjoy their bodies in more sensual and sexual ways, whether that's breast stimulation or a butt massage. I embrace any attitude that helps people love and accept themselves for who they are with whatever preferences they have and whatever lifestyle brings them happiness (as long as it's "Safe, Sane, and Consensual," of course).

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I feel like butts are pushing out boobs in popularity, or maybe that's because a lot of my friends that I hang out with now are butt people?
But the only thing I can think about when I see a butt is: ".... fart and poop comes out from there"! DD':

I prefer to look at boobs over a butt, or a chest for that matter.

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many parts of the body bring sexual pleasure to sexuals, so i suppose it's just a result of what happens to be most popuar in western society, i noticed an earlier post concerning breasts, which reminded me of a tribe insouth america (i think) that don't consider breasts to be a sexual part of the body.

so, substituting breasts for buts, it might be possible that so many sexuals lie butts as a result of thier glorification as a sexual object in mainstream western society

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Baha. I hate it whenever people show me pics, or point out butts, I have to pretend to me interested(don't get me wrong, there is the occasional butt that I don't think just looks like a lump of fat)It really sucks, but nothing I can do about it. Some with boobs though, I hate mine. I don't understand who people think they look good, It's just two lumps on your chest. Let alone touching them and shit. Sexuals confuse me. Although, I have actually tried touching my butt and boobs, to try and see what all the fuss is about, still don't understand.

You should also know that for a lot of sexuals, even the very sexual ones, touching ones parts, unless it is actually the genitals being touched, doesn't really do much for them, and for some doesn't do anything. The pleasure usually comes in when someone else does it. I don't know exactly why, but for me it feel a LITTLE good when I touch my nipples for instance, but when someone else does it, it really does it for me (read feels really really good). That's my experience. And some (or a lot, I don't know...I've never looked up numbers) it doesnt do anything for them when they do it to themselves. Just a bit of food for thought for you.

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320px-Venus_von_Willendorf_01.jpg

This chick is estimated to have been carved around 24,000-22,000 BCE.

Women with large breasts and butts have been worshiped for millenia, if one goes by the amount of carvings and figurines just like this one that have been found in archaeological excavations etc. Breasts and butts are a symbol of fertility. What goes hand in hand with fertility? Sex.

Its not just mainstream media that has ''popularized the idea that breasts and butts are sexual objects'' as so many people here keep pointing out.. Breasts and butts have ALWAYS been seen as signs of sexual fertility by many, many cultures.

Same with males: a shapely pair of buttocks, large penis etc have always been seen as symbols of fertility. It's just life.

Sure there are plenty of people (as evidenced by the amount of negative comments in this thread) who do NOT find breasts and butts hot, but that doesn't make people who DO like breasts and butts weird or sick or ''trying to conform to modern ideas of attractiveness'' or anything of the sort.

Everyone has their own tastes in food and clothing, same goes for what turns one on when being intimate with another person: it's all comes down to personal taste. ^_^

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Feral_Sophisticate

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Hey... She looks like my ex-wife... :P

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320px-Venus_von_Willendorf_01.jpg

This chick is estimated to have been carved around 24,000-22,000 BCE.

Women with large breasts and butts have been worshiped for millenia, if one goes by the amount of carvings and figurines just like this one that have been found in archaeological excavations etc. Breasts and butts are a symbol of fertility. What goes hand in hand with fertility? Sex.

Its not just mainstream media that has ''popularized the idea that breasts and butts are sexual objects'' as so many people here keep pointing out.. Breasts and butts have ALWAYS been seen as signs of sexual fertility by many, many cultures.

Same with males: a shapely pair of buttocks, large penis etc have always been seen as symbols of fertility. It's just life.

Sure there are plenty of people (as evidenced by the amount of negative comments in this thread) who do NOT find breasts and butts hot, but that doesn't make people who DO like breasts and butts weird or sick or ''trying to conform to modern ideas of attractiveness'' or anything of the sort.

Everyone has their own tastes in food and clothing, same goes for what turns one on when being intimate with another person: it's all comes down to personal taste. ^_^

well here's another thing though, large penises haven't always been seen as desirable. They used to be seen as grotesque, thus the statue of David with the small penis, there is other research to support this too.

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well here's another thing though, large penises haven't always been seen as desirable. They used to be seen as grotesque, thus the statue of David with the small penis, there is other research to support this too.

On the contrary, large penises have been seen as symbols of fertility for millenia (again fertility and sex go hand in hand).

One of the oldest giant phallus's was found in a cave network in Germany and dates back to around 28,000 BCE.

Cultures all around the world have worshiped the phallus (large erect penis) as symbols of fertility and male sexuality since ancient times.

Regarding the statue of David.. well, think of it this way: Do you see public sculptures around your town or city of males with huge erect penises? No. Though large penises are, well, practically worshiped in our society as you will notice if you ever happen to watch pornography or hear rappers talking about their ''huge d*cks'' etc.

Just because Michelangelo's David has a small penis, doesn't mean that as sexual objects large penises were seen as grotesque. All it means is that, for a public area, a small penis was probably a lot more tasteful (no pun intended) :ph34r:

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Feral_Sophisticate

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Hey... She looks like my ex-wife... :P

Lucky you, she must have been a beautiful lady ^_^

Actually, she is/was.

Having gone through 3 pregnancies, they had a significant impact on her body (and a greater one on her self esteem). In truth, that wasn't really an issue for me, as I value character over anything else, and I did genuinely care about her. What wrote "paid" on us was variety of other issues. She and I are better off apart than we were together, and (generally) get along better now than we did then.

And - as the ultimate benefit - we can ignore each other whenever we want. :D

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