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What is it with sexuals and butts?


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AmethystKitty

Could someone please tell me what it is with sexual people and looking at and/or touching butts, or having their butts touched? I mean, its just a butt, and I don't get it. I personally thing butts are gross, so what is it that everyone else gets out of butts?

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You're definitely not on your own on this. -_- I mean really. They're butts.

And following this, I have even less understanding for the general public's fascination with boobs even more than butts, though that's probably because, while butts do have a ridiculous amount of attention, it seems like boobs get a whole lot more.

I really don't know. My friends keep talking about the "roundness" of butts. I guess that's supposed to be attractive.

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Jester Weise

HA HA! I love butts, I would not touch them though and I do not like seeing sexualized nudity unless it is in art but butts can be pleasant. Their relevance in sex I do not understand. I always thought that butts would get in the way of coitus but I guess sexuals have their reasoning for their obsession with butts.

What I do not understand is breasts though. Milk comes out of those things and they are for children, they should not be sexualized and it is creepy that men gawk over this sort of stuff. Maybe it is a subconscious desire to copulate with one's own mother or something weird but I find it a bit disturbing.

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IceHurricane

I actually find butts aesthetically pleasing, but I'd never want to touch one. I'm just as confused as you are there. I don't understand the need to touch someone's butt, and I actually find it quite irritating when I see people do it. I've had experiences where people would randomly touch my butt, and I'm at a loss to why people like touching butts so much. I know my father is always playing with my moms butt, lightly spanking it or rubbing it and stuff, and it just disgusts me when I see people do that kind of thing.

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How about all those gym pictures of female. They show off their muscles and their round butts. All about sticking their butts up, I don't get it either.

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Cherellice

I have been trying to figure this out for ages and I still have no clue. I suppose butts are just really.....sexy? shrug.gif

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What I do not understand is breasts though. Milk comes out of those things and they are for children, they should not be sexualized and it is creepy that men gawk over this sort of stuff. Maybe it is a subconscious desire to copulate with one's own mother or something weird but I find it a bit disturbing.

Perhaps this offers a better explanation than a weird fetish or whatever.

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My guess is that butts (big round ones lol) are deemed feminine when coupled with a slim waist. Butts can also be an integral part of sexual intercourse. And I know girls can also like men's butts, so I guess roundness is an important factor.

What I find interesting in regards to "boobs are sexy" is that big breasts are found in all human populations but not every culture sexualizes them. So I find a hard time believing it's "scientific" that men love boobs.

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MoraDollie

Some scientists suspect it's because we're in the primate family. Some primapes are super attracted to butts (there's one species of monkey where the butt swells with blood to show that they're ready to mate). Personally, I'm a butt person :P Don't know why I like butts, just do.

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I'm asexual and I notice butts sometimes(though not often). To be honest, I think it's actually the jeans the person is in that I find eye catching. SOme forms of clouthing can look really good on someone.

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Mostly Peaceful Ryan

It comes down to the main function of sex which is reproduction. Our brains are wired to look for the best partner to give our offsprings the best chance at survival. A bigger butt means wider hips and wide hips are a sign of fertility because it is more likely the mother would be physically able to survive the pregnancy. When it comes to bigger breast it was a sign that your child would have plenty of milk while going through infancy.

Now when it comes to girls liking guys butts it is because it a sign of physical fitness and he would be able to protect her or her child from a predator.

So yeah this is evolutional attraction programmed in our brain at birth.

Now the science is out of the way my answer for this is: Booties are cute *-*

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I don't get it either. But, as is shown by the posts, it isn't just a sexual thing. And not all sexuals like butts. What I really don't get is why someone likes touching someones anus... ew. But, yeah. Different people like different things. :)

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Butts are part of the physical attraction of some humans. Butts are cute, they're fun to grab and they're part of what make women physically fanciable. Boobs still over ride butts though. Mmm.... boobs.

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Frigid Pink

My guess is that butts (big round ones lol) are deemed feminine when coupled with a slim waist. Butts can also be an integral part of sexual intercourse. And I know girls can also like men's butts, so I guess roundness is an important factor.

What I find interesting in regards to "boobs are sexy" is that big breasts are found in all human populations but not every culture sexualizes them. So I find a hard time believing it's "scientific" that men love boobs.

I really enjoyed this article about the attractiveness of breasts and it addresses your above thoughts about it:

http://broadblogs.com/2010/11/04/men-aren’t-hard-wired-to-find-breasts-attractive/

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I like the word "butt". It's a great word. So I'm regularly disappointed by the reality of human buttocks.

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Fullmetal Activist

Haha, I like butts. I don't get aroused by any other part of the body, but I do like butts. I suppose it is a "butt fetish." The porn I enjoy is usually quite butt-centric.

Anal sex, however... >_> no thanks

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Nameless123

I'm confused about the butt issue as well. While I’m generally not sexually attracted to the physical attributes of a person, I can at least find faces and to some extent parts of the upper body aesthetically attractive. Even legs. Butts specifically, though? The only explanation I have is that they are just part of the whole package of things that can arouse sexual interest if one is capable of experiencing sexual interest in that way.

My (sexual) bf is pretty focused on butts, but he can't explain why that is either. It just is.

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Mr.LiaMarie

Fallen Angel (forgive me if it's important to be one word), gave the very scientific reason for it. Another would be society. Not sure how many are American here (though I'm sure most British peoples would fit also), our society has sexualized many parts of the body. Look at the fashion/body building magazines. At some point none of this probably affected others, but when they started adding sex (or various forms) to covers displaying body parts and emphazising that part as much as possible, will have a major affect.

Keep in mind, the advertizers' mentality is "Sex sells". So, if they can find a way to "sexualize" something, they will.

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Well, its all about preference, really. What is it with people & beer? It smells like dumpster juice. Now I'm not saying sexuality is the same as food--one you can be deprived of indefinitely without dying, the other, sex, of course, we need! :P I think the real question is why are sexuals attracted to any body part. Its probably because we're visual creatures. There was an interesting study done with some primates...can't remember the species off the top of my head. But the males would masturbate when they saw esterous females with swollen genitals. They did not masturbate to the sterile females...until they brought out the giant, fake, genital replicas to put on the sterile females--think of breast enhancement surgery. Anyway, those males really went to town on the masturbation to these sterile girls with the big fake genitals.

So I would say sexuals are attracted to (insert body part) because it makes us horny. People, and other animals, do not exibit sexual behavior to procreate perse, it just happens to be a consequence. I don't think the dog humping your leg is trying to make babies, and I don't think he has a leg fetish--I think that hormones that trigger sexual behavior and the knowledge that your leg feels pretty good is reason enough to exhibit sexual behavior. And I don't think a human and a butt is all that different in that regard.

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Well, its all about preference, really. What is it with people & beer? It smells like dumpster juice.

If beer wasn't readily available (compared to generally more "refined" and expensive forms of alcohol) and couldn't get people drunk, I doubt most people would go for it.

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Sexuals like butts because "more cushion for the pushin'" or so my friend who is a butt man told me.

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sparkalipoo

I don't get it either and a lot of my boyfriends have been butt guys and actually made me a little uncomfortable. I feel like butts are kind of gross.

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So for sex when from behind...makes it better.

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HA HA! I love butts, I would not touch them though and I do not like seeing sexualized nudity unless it is in art but butts can be pleasant. Their relevance in sex I do not understand. I always thought that butts would get in the way of coitus but I guess sexuals have their reasoning for their obsession with butts.

Before I found out asexuality was a thing, I forced myself to think of other people like that so i didn't feel broken or different but really I just find it gross and creepy when other people say things like "I like (Person)'s butt(Or any other body part)" in a sexualized way so I'm with you on that one

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TMI Alert (I think)

Okay, so for as long as I can remember, butts have been a part of every fantasy I have. Rimming, specifically, is like my number one fetish. (gulp) I've always wanted to bury my face in soft butt cheeks, and ... well, you can end that sentence. XD Unfortunately (or fortunately, depending on how you wanna look at it,) rimming's one of those fetishes that seems amazing in my head, but ... ewww!

Anyway, not sure if that answers the question here. Hmm, I guess it's shape and burrow-potential for me. XD

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In the words of my

TMI Alert (I think)
Okay, so for as long as I can remember, butts have been a part of every fantasy I have. Rimming, specifically, is like my number one fetish. (gulp) I've always wanted to bury my face in soft butt cheeks, and ... well, you can end that sentence. XD Unfortunately (or fortunately, depending on how you wanna look at it,) rimming's one of those fetishes that seems amazing in my head, but ... ewww!
Anyway, not sure if that answers the question here. Hmm, I guess it's shape and burrow-potential for me. XD

In the words of my wife: ...Oh, wait, she's not saying anything, she's just barfing :P

In the words of otakuzaru, awwwwww yeah! Btw, I have had plenty of fantasies in this life time that were the cats pajamas in my head, but when I got confronted by something concrete it was like instant 'what was I thinking?!' revulsion. Lets face it, fantasy can easily dispense with any of the number of possible things that could gross you out or ruin your life~

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Baha. I hate it whenever people show me pics, or point out butts, I have to pretend to me interested(don't get me wrong, there is the occasional butt that I don't think just looks like a lump of fat)It really sucks, but nothing I can do about it. Some with boobs though, I hate mine. I don't understand who people think they look good, It's just two lumps on your chest. Let alone touching them and shit. Sexuals confuse me. Although, I have actually tried touching my butt and boobs, to try and see what all the fuss is about, still don't understand.

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Err... okay, here is an "evolutionary" explanation... when we were still primitive animals: our ancestors would like raise their butts in the air to show they were in heat, maybe? Like, ever see a picture of a baboon? They have these big red butts. Maybe it's the primitive part of people's brains remembering life millions of years ago when our sub-human ancestors smelled each other's butts instead of bringing flowers when they wanted a date?

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You could also ask why asexuals AREN'T attracted to butts? I'm not getting defensive, I just hink it's 'one of those things'.

I'm a big fan of ladies bums. The bigger the better, really. The look nice to me, particularly in certain types of underwear or naked, and they can also give a lot of pleasure- there are a lot more sensitive nerves down there than you'd think, and stimulating them the right way can be very pleasurable for all involved.

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