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Cosplayingtoad

I'm gona start with I'm not sure if this idea has been done before. I haven't seen a thread like this, but I'm sorry if it has.

O.K this is for sexuals in relationships with asexuals. just wondering what people do to satisfy their sexual urges? Obviously they is obvious stuff like self masterbation (dunno if thats spelt right) and porn and stuff. But I was wondering if they was any thing else I could try. As anything remotely sexual is out of the question with my partner as she is repulsed by it, and I'm not really a fan of porn, so I was looking for some advice please.

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Well a lot of people try out open relationships. That isn't for everyone though. And you could try out erotic books, that's a lot less in your face then porn and can be still pretty good.

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Down in Texas

You do not say if your are married or just in a relationship.

I know if I had known my partner was asexual before I married him I would not have taken that leap. It is a very hard life to live if you are not in a legally committed relationship I would think deeply before going forward. Things will not get better and your needs going unfulfilled often turn into resentment later on when other problems arise the lack of sex that has you in one mood often flows over into other areas. ( however this was before I discovered AVEN I have only known of Asexuality for two years out of our forty year marriage).

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Honestly? I am a highly sexual person, but Stephanie does not understand the values of 'sexiness,' because sexiness relates directly to sexual attraction. However, because asexuality does not relate any predefined sexual behavior, and because she lacks any form of modesty whatsoever, she models in various outfits and poses for me to masturbate to, in video, picture, and directly. When her libido spikes and she's interested, she usually comes forward in an outfit I've been favoring or in the nude, as one case described. Basically, she told me that while she does not understand 'sexiness,' my sexuality is foreign, and therefore interesting to her. As such, we share a rather intimate bond, which is fairly uncommon among asexual-sexual relationships. I believe it's attested to her intelligence mostly and she is pursuing a degree in Psychology, which makes sense that she would be curious.

In short, to answer your question, I mostly pleasure myself, and she enjoys watching. On the rare occasion that she wants it, I give it to her.

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