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  2. MichaelTannock

    Heya

    @HareSong Welcome to AVEN! Incidentally, it is a tradition here to welcome new members by offering cake, and here's a Mountain Hiking Cake,
  3. Laplace

    Incredibly Ace Moments

    It’s a two-pronged attack; first make men insecure about it and then swoop in with a supposed cure. Still dumb that some people buy into it 🙄.
  4. TheAP

    Guess the word!

    Mosquito 1,2,5 Popsicle 1,1,6 Integral 2,1,5 Generate 1,2,5 Intimate 1,2,5 Creative 0,2,6 Altering 2,1,5 Zanzibar 0,2,6 Acquaint 0,2,6 Backstop 1,3,4 Literate 2,0,6 Pokeball 3,1,4 Tentacle 0,3,5 Festival 0,2,6 Likewise 1,1,6 Football 2,2,4
  5. KrystalLost

    Nonbinary Hanji

    (Talking about Shingeki no Kyojin) When i figured out that in the manga, Hanji in fact is genderless, I was estastic. Even if it's just because Hanji's gender is up to interpretation, I really liked the idea of Hanji being nonbinary (gender neutral maybe??). I saw myself in Hanji when I thought I was nonbinary and see them as basically neutral. It was nice to see a character who has the potential for such things. Sadly they are female in the anime instead of gender neutral/genderless. Which is not a bad thing either. Still it's just a nice headcanon, anyone else share this one? I love Hanji to pieces and their mental health in the manga is going to shit with how overworked and stressed they are. I feel so bad for my baby. TwT
  6. Topi

    Guess the word!

    Football
  7. TheAP

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

    4
  8. Banned for enjoying roller hockey.
  9. Tasha the demi squirrel

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

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  10. I'm pretty confident that I'm aromantic, as I've never had a crush or the feelings that come with it. I came across Quoiromantic - " Is someone whose romantic orientation is on the aromantic spectrum that describes people who cannot differentiate between platonic and romantic attraction, cannot define romantic attraction and therefore are not sure if they experience it, experience attraction somewhere between romantic and platonic, or want to be in a queerplatonic relationship. It’s also known as WTFromantic or Whatromantic or Platoniromantic." Does this mean that all aromantics are quoiromantics, because you can't define something that you have never felt? Please help!
  11. Topi

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

    Blue 2
  12. TheAP

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

    Blue 1
  13. Topi

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

    Blue 5
  14. Tasha the demi squirrel

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

    4💎
  15. TheAP

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

    Blue three.
  16. Topi

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

    Blue two.
  17. KrystalLost

    KrystalLost

    *angry squawks*

  18. TheAP

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

    Blue 1
  19. Only he can identify as asexual, but part of why he may not want to talk about it could be because any conversation about his lack of sexuality feels like pressure to be sexual. He may be more open to discussion if you affirm you're asking simply because you want to understand him on a deeper level, not because you're trying to "fix" him. I'm sure that is not the way you mean it, but that is the way it sounds to an asexual when a sexual partner wants to discuss sexuality. If he does open up, reflect what you hear, especially about his feelings, but don't add how you feel or what you think about it. You can finish with "Thank you. I feel like I understand and am closer to you now." This may get him to be more willing to open up. This conversation with him is a fact-finding mission. Dealing with your own feelings is a separate issue, but just as important. It sounds cliche but talking to a therapist may help in the short term. Not because you're broken, or need to learn to deal with it, but simply because it's easier to really listen to him when you already feel listened to. Feeling lonely, undesired, and rejected is not okay, and you deserve to be heard. For the time being, he cannot really hear and be fully present for your legitimate feelings until he feels equally heard and unjudged. You may not be the one judging him - he's probably judging himself based off what he's heard or experienced from others. You can help him work through that - get to a place where you can both talk, be heard, and lessen each other's loneliness - but you'll need to temporarily get that need fulfilled elsewhere, and a therapist is a safe place to do that. No matter how much deep love is there, it will fall apart if either one of you has to permanently hide or ignore your feelings. I'm sorry you feel so frustrated, worried, and lonely. It's an incredibly tough thing to go through, and I admire your courage to open up and tell us about it.
  20. Ess-Kat

    Feeling Alone

    Hello there. Welcome to AVEN first off as a member. I would suggest to talk to him, he is your friend ( for awhile as i have read). I can't speak for him but maybe he thought he was protecting you or waiting for the right moment to say something. If he understood your asexuality and accepted you then I am sure a good talk will do good. When you do talk be in an area you feel safe and be calm and just talk. I hope everything works out. 🎂☺
  21. N8LV3y

    The Banning Game!

    Banned for thinking the cat only gets a new bed and not a throne room.
  22. Dani38382_00

    skam

    wondering if any other people watch the tv show skam if you are interested in looking it up here are some links to the different tv show some you will not be able to view depending on where you live for example the German version is only available to view in Germany however there are other ways to watch skam nl:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHsrkVM7ScWaYFb4J1myQtg skam Spain : https://www.youtube.com/user/plus/videos skam france: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCguxKRCUwOq97ouGaBMtrQQ/featured skam druck: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCr5zglOqHZAEfCcAx_nw1dQ/featured ( skam druck is geoblocked so you can only access it if in Germany so here are some channels who also upload the episodes with English subtitles channel -- : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpciu_fcWAPoh2kwWJEWMQQ skam italy: they don't have a channel but you some people have viewed them https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC66u6QLyXSp6hiOv1JYz13Q/videos these are all the ones I watch that I can think of any more feel free to coment if you want to
  23. Tasha the demi squirrel

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

    5💎
  24. TheAP

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