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  2. HelloSnakeEyes

    Feeling Lonely

    I've never smoked crack but I know I don't want to ever.
  3. Moderne Jazzhanden

    The Banning Game!

    Banned for not being colour blind! 😮
  4. xstatic ☆゚°˖* ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ

    Ace and allo, opening our marriage

    In my last marriage I opened the relationship because I was the person who wasn't fulfilling my husband's needs which were extremely high in comparison to mine. Much like how your wife probably feels now, I felt useless and broken and boring, and I couldn't seem to change that. When I opened up the marriage I did it because I wanted him to be happy. Unfortunately he only ever used it in one of few scenarios I asked him not to. And that was to get back at me when he was angry with me. The marriage ended up spiraling out of control, and ended in a burning dumpster fire. Now that I'm in a relationship with an asexual, I'm the one with the higher sex drive obviously. Which I got to admit, is really interesting to me. Our relationship is technically open. He told me right from the beginning that he didn't care if I was seeing other people. Though we haven't talked about it in a really long time, so I would feel really uncomfortable acting on that without the subject being readressed. As far as where to look for casual sex, if you live near a big city, you're probably in close range to a swingers club which is exactly what that's for.
  5. I am asexual but I consider myself straight because I am romantically attracted to the opposite sex. Having said that, I think that if something is bothering you perhaps you should talk with your friends.
  6. Christmace_liv

    Quickly, Before They See!

    24 (^○^)
  7. I’m not a fan of big public postings like that online, there is a lot of pressure when being called to reciprocally express feelings like that publicly in front of people. It’s perfectly acceptable to ask that thinks like that be kept for private correspondence between the two of you. I understand this feeling pretty well. Sometimes I get extremely burned out by online social interactions to the point where I feel the need to, as I call it “hermit” and avoid all social interactions for a while to recharge. I’ve been in one of those places for a while recently.
  8. Anthracite_Impreza

    Overthinking sexuality?

    Prefer to have sex in your life? Sexual Prefer not to have sex in your life? Asexual Too complicated to fit either? Grey-sexual Simples.
  9. CBC

    Overthinking sexuality?

    Right on. I feel like drinking for so many various reasons right now, most of them negative... a celebratory one doesn't hurt. Bingo. I know nowhere else it's discussed ad nauseam like it is here. I understand why, but Christ Almighty sometimes...
  10. gisiebob

    2020 U.S. Presidential Race

    ok, so there has been some reform to how the dnc uses superdelegates, but they are not abolished outright and how do you feel about the electoral college again?
  11. R_1

    Overthinking sexuality?

    Like for example, the sexual attraction debate. It only makes sense to overcomplicate that in the academic sense of view, but generic no.
  12. Bigeye Thresher

    Overthinking sexuality?

    Cheers, I'll drink to that.
  13. Duke Memphis

    Duke Memphis

    I'd like to fast forward about two months to reach the end of winter sooner.

  14. If I felt emotional attraction to the opposite sex, I wouldn't mind people referring to me as straight, but I'd be offended if people call me the straight friend. Same if I was emotionally attracted to the same sex, but the gay friend instead. To be fair, as a loner, I'd be offended if you call me a friend.
  15. CBC

    Overthinking sexuality?

    I think AVEN is dedicated to overthinking sexuality sometimes.
  16. Bigeye Thresher

    Overthinking sexuality?

    I've recently come to the conclusion that I think I'm on the spectrum, like big big recently, and I already feel like I'm not a true ace? I know there's no "true ace" and everyone is valid in their sexuality, but I already feel like an alien. I like the idea and fantasy of having sex. Thinking someone is attractive and wanting to have sex w them? Epic. Cool. Dope. Actually touching and doing that w someone? Absolutely not. I'm not about it. I don't like the idea of someone also having sexual feelings towards me and wanting to do those kind of things. It immediately steers me away, even if I feel the same way towards them. I can't seem to separate my feelings from my sexuality, if that makes sense? I don't know, I'm all very new to this and are 99% most likely overthinking a question that has a simple answer. I'm glad I feel comfortable enough to share, though.
  17. Serran

    I'm sexual but...

    I know! I spent $1500 for mine which was bad enough.
  18. Starbogen

    One random word in Alphabetical order

  19. Starbogen

    Alphabet Song Titles

    Unmade - Thom Yorke
  20. AceMissBehaving

    I'm sexual but...

    Wow!!!! I got married at a justice of the peace office with just a few members of each of our families as witnesses. I used to regret not getting the big fancy wedding dress etc, but later found ways to get paid to wear big dresses, and that gave me peace.
  21. Andrea KF

    Alphabet Song Titles

    Tighten Up - Archie Bell & The Drells
  22. I mean ex machina as I understand is a good movie about ai...but Detroit: become human...well I don't know what there is to say about ai and sexuality in a game that had straight nothing to say in terms of artificial intelligence, even though that is what it claimed to be about
  23. SireninSpace

    Name A Movie That Starts With The Last Letter Of The Last Movie Named

    Yours, Mine, and Ours
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