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Hello, firstly that is amazing for your relationship, I'm glad it's been such a lasting one! Secondly, this is honestly one of the most helpful set of questions, genuinely this is like an amazing resource for me! I feel like this really covers all the exact things I would be concerned about or want to ask about, seriously I can't thank you enough!

I just remembere man years ago there was this person who I had a platonic crush on, but I was worried he would get the wrong idea (and maybe he did, but it doesn't really matter now, I haven't seen him since I left university), and I remember being relieved when I found out he had a girlfriend because it meant he was unlikely to show any romantic interest in me. That should have been a sign I was Aro.

Was in a relationship for over a year and never had sex. Actually that's why my girlfriend left me. I refused to have sex.

Love me some Twix. Voted Snickers as least favorite because I have a nut allergy.

I don't have a particular goal but I have been trying to read more this year. Here's my 2024 list (finished ones only): How Not to Diet by Dr. Michael Greger: 4/5, I don't need to lose weight but wanted more after reading How Not to Die How Not to Age by Dr. Michael Greger: 4/5, mostly minor optimizations on How Not to Die Why We Sleep by Matthew Walker: 4/5, interesting but ironically I think it made my sleeping worse by making me worry about it Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport: 3/5, felt mostly like common sense to me Roommates by Pokemaniacal and TGWeaver on

Yes. It's cool xD

I have only had milky way and twix, and lliked them both. MW abit more.

Glad you're doing better. I spent all of last night worrying and my eye is twitching now. I need sleep. But it's too bright.

I had a two month relationship that had no sex does that count. It was great while it lasted. but my not being sexual was an issue I'm pretty sure. Although it likely was other things that caused the breakup. who knows. not me.

You're not required to have a gender identity. If the pronouns commonly associated with your physical sex are comfortable enough for you, use them. End of, really. I don't have a gender identity; the term means nothing to me personally. I don't even particularly consider my sex part of my identity and I've never really felt societal pressure to exist and conduct myself in any specific way due to being a woman. I'm 'she/her' because I have a physically female body, I know I'm not a trans man, and I don't connect with any of the other identity terms people use. That's it really. If that approach

Yeah, I feel confused about the "celebration" part too. Most of those I've only had a few times, others not at all. I remember liking Twixx.

Interesting times in Scotland. The SNP/Greens alliance has finished and a vote of no confidence in the First Minister has been tabled. The SNP is a minority government without the Greens

Is Celebrations a brand name or something? In the US I think these are all made under a company called Mars. p.s. my favorite candy bar of theirs is Three Musketeers. p.p.s. some places say that's the same as Milky Way, but the Milky Way bars we have here are apparently different.

Looks like Amnesty International has some harsh words for the UK in their report.

Milky way, hands down favourite. Never liked Bounty, it tastes so weird to me. Now, if there were Raffaello instead of Bounty, then we're talking.

Afriendly reminder for those who don't know, you can vote for more than one candy

Welcome to AVEN. What kind of experience are you looking for? I personally had several asexual relationships that were very happy and close, even when they didnt last long. I found that talking is important. I learned to put feelings aside and just talk about all the things that stand in between the people involved. It can be scary and tiring but is definitely worth it in the long run

I can't say for sure I am asexual but probably am in the gray asexual department. I'm generally indifferent or sex-neutral. My partner knows I have a low libido and I've told them I might be ace since I could live happily without sex. I was still questioning myself at the start of the relationship, so I only told them when the topic was brought up. They believe it might be a hormonal issue though and that l'm probably not ace. So, it's up to you whether you disclose that information or not and whether they believe you or not. I think as long as it isn't an issue to your relationship, you don't

Hey, I have been on this forum for a couple of years, but I am pretty sure I have yet to post on here. A little bit about me is I am 22 turning 23 this year. I am still at university studying management, which I don't know what I am going to do with it. I enjoy reading and volunteering. To be honest, if I could be full-time student forever I would. Love learning and love education. Would love to further my education past a bachelor's but I have to be many ideas of what I would want to. Overall, I just want a future where I am happy. Being in my 20s has brought m

For me, almost the only coconut thing I like is coconut milk. (Plus, also - coconut pieces as a tea ingredient.) I hate the texture of coconut flakes (how is it called?) and never eat any desserts containing them. I like Maltesers, Twix, Galaxy Caramel (if I remember right which one it is... but generally, I love caramel as long as the whole bar is alcohol-free*) and Milky Way, and even more, specifically - Milky Way Crispy Rolls, the ones with milky cream inside. *There is a Polish brand of chocolate bars known as Pawełek (Paulie). Some flavours could be interesting, such as

I am 53 years old divorced wom woman.I stopped having sex when I was 40.Since then haad n relationship.But I would like to have one. Any one has experience and share with me...

Labels are convenient, but not everyone happens to fit an existing label. I think what matters is to think to yourself what it is you want and don't want from a relationship, and then go seek that out. Its all completely fine as long as you are honest with partners about your feelings. Also keep in mind that asexuality is not pledge or religion: If your feelings change in the future you can change how you describe yourself.

I think another general rule is that instead of telling a partner "I need you", tell them "I want to be with you". The first contains the idea that ending the relationship would harm them, while the second (at least to me) suggest that while you would be OK without the relationship, you are much happier with it. The first has a hint of emotional blackmail "I will be miserable if you leave" which to me is different from "I am happy when you are here". For myself, I want to feel that every day my partner has the option to leave, but every day they decide that that being with me m

mars, milky way, bounty - like. snickers, twix - dislike. other - haven't tried these.