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  2. Prismatic Dream is secretly plotting to take over this forum.
  3. Crazycrazycultist

    Autosuggest nonsense thread

    Right to the floor while you are to be a problem for yourself.
  4. RoseGoesToYale

    Stanley Cup 2019 playoffs

    I want Laine to score tonight so I have an excuse to play this Title means "One Wave at a Time", here's the chorus translated: One wave at a time A storm awaits you here One wave at a time Many stories have been left behind One wave at a time A lot has been got, a lot has been lost One wave at a time
  5. There’s aren’t many characters i guess as to me it all just seems so offhand but I guess I’d be a weird mixture of Katniss Everdeen and Rustin Cohle.
  6. iam135

    Question for people who have met someone you met online

    I usually try to tell people I'm meeting up with what I'll be wearing that day and deliberately dress in something that's bright and colorful. It's pretty unlikely that lots of people will be wearing bright red floral dresses, after all πŸ˜†. Also, be specific in where you want to meet (ex. "in front of the library door" as opposed to just "at the library").
  7. β˜†οΎŸΒ°Λ–* α••( ᐛ )α•—

    Worried about relationship with allo girlfriend

    Polyamory isn't for everyone. You have to be really comfortable with yourself and confident in your relationships. I would have never in a million years guessed that I was polyamorous. I didn't discover that until I was in my mid to late '20s. It's okay to not want to be in a poly relationship. It's okay to not want to have sex in your relationship. It's okay for your partner to want to have sex. But if she can't have it with you, and she can't have it outside of you, then she is not getting what she needs. Only you are. And that is bound to lead to resentment. Have you done things sexual in nature with her? Not sex per se, but do you fulfill needs in other ways with her? I've heard some people give examples in the past of their partner being near them and taking care of themselves physically while the asexual in the relationship is supportive just by being close to them or maybe touching their leg or some other form of sensual touch that's not invasive to the ace. Now you don't have to do any of that if it is uncomfortable to you. I'm just throwing out suggestions that maybe you hadn't thought of or hadn't tried or whatever. At any rate, good luck with it all. Hopefully others will have even more advice to give. 😊
  8. Celyn

    Autosuggest nonsense thread

    Week after next, just give me more about you than a dragon name of Education in a blanket while it was pretty badly run. I managed to get to the mushroom dish and feeding it to someone in a deserted beach with this thing that was in my pink and purple patch.
  9. Nima

    A Sentence Forming Game

    liberated elves mingle on nightly socials
  10. MichaelTannock


    @HistoryNerd Welcome to AVEN! In my case, I've never had or desired either sex or a romantic relationship. Incidentally, it is a tradition here to welcome new members by offering cake, and here's a Gravity Defying History of Civilisation Cake,
  11. K.I.N.G

    What You Wanted To Do As A Kid

    Was never something I full though about until later years though I did at one point want to be a kennel owner.... I guess I could also say farmer though that was more my parents dream put onto me.
  12. Podsnap

    Question for people who have met someone you met online

    Someone walked up to me in McDonald's one time and blurted out "Are you Sonya?" (I'm not Sonya.) It was no big deal.
  13. Keizers

    Incredibly Ace Moments

    I understand exactly what you are describing, its so refreshing to see someone else explain this
  14. Bloc

    Trans Moments?

    I believe the main difference is the packaging and the perfume, fruit notes vs. musk. I didn't find a difference in how the hair feels.
  15. Just Dani

    Hi I'm back

    Hi! (^o^)/
  16. Yep. 😐 Fulfillment? What is that? 🀨 Hey, defeating a boss in a video game is freaking awesome! πŸ˜† Yeah, I'm a huge dork...
  17. Celyn

    A Sentence Forming Game

    Yes, often Danny eats lemons.
  18. Skeletonducky

    Quickly, Before They See!

  19. Niohmaye

    Hi I'm back

    Welcome back! Have some cake? 🍰🍰🍰🍰🍰🍰
  20. Yes, often but I have to agree with the @Nevyn too often milestones, or the ones society considers important often disappoint. I do try to pick my own also because the ones the people around me consider important I haven't even met yet, like getting married, starting a family, becoming a mother. Those are important but I feel like frequently people hold others to certain timelines as far as milestones go and that's not realistic. Also, I think because there not much danger or high stakes involved, I feel a lack of accomplishment.
  21. LauraGarnham

    No fulfillment for milestones in life

    I have been thinking about something similar recently, that so much of what I do is done with an end goal in mind, when I get to the goal I don't spend much time appreciating it before I move on to the next thing. I really need to make more of an effort to do things because I enjoy doing them and not because I feel I need to achieve something. I'm not saying I plan never to have goals anymore, but I definitely want to tone that done, and also work on feeling proud of my achievements when I make them.
  22. Lady Constellation

    How not to answer a newbie

    Leave the forums in disgrace. Cover your head with a length of cloth and take only one bag of clothing. You are an imposter and if you stay, you will be stoned in the town square. Shame. How should I react if I see someone wearing an ace ring in public?
  23. What's your definition of libido then, @Philip027?
  24. Perspektiv

    Question for people who have met someone you met online

    I'm told I look just like my pictures, so people have always recognized me quickly. Most women I have met, looked exactly like their pictures. I have had a couple that I didn't recognize, as they used angling techniques to look totally different. So it was them locking eyes with me, and recognizing me and asking me if I was (insert my name) which told me it was the right person. I have approached a wrong person once, but you just brush it off, haha.
  25. Yes, quite often. A lot of work isn't very fulfilling but that doesn't stop it from needing done. It's important to keep some tasks around that make you feel fulfilled even if they don't serve any other purpose. Milestones in life are not all they're cracked up to be either. I try to pick my own because the expected ones keep disappointing everyone.
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