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  2. For millenia, humanoid creatures have had sex with each other, and after many hundreds of thousands of years, became desirous of having mates whom they loved, not just had sex with. It isn't "our" culture, and it isn't forced upon us, and what many/most of us experience are not awful games. I'm sorry you feel that way, but do not claim that your feelings are those of all humans Indeed. I've never really understood that mindset -- the need to demonise things that one doesn't experience or relate to themselves. I assume it's a product of bitterness. To which I'm not immune myself over certain things for sure, however it's never really occurred to me to characterise such things so negatively. My struggles are not everyone else's fault. They may not be my fault either, but that doesn't mean it's logical to behave with derision.
  3. Nowhere Girl

    Wanting sex as a asexual

    Thanks for the example. Last year I found a copy of Leo Rosten's "The Joys of Yiddish" on a book exchange shelf. It's fun to read, Jewish humour is quite intellectual so it's nice to know that I get it. Unfortunately, the copy is quite heavily damaged - the cover and the final approximately 20% are missing, the dictionary part ends somewhere at "s". And, in fact, while being intellectually fun to read, it's also physically unpleasant to read, because the pages are palpably dirty. Just an old copy who must have gone a long way to end up in Warsaw. Even disregarding all the issues we have with this definition, it seems incorrect to me. Doesn't "intercourse" mean only some kinds of sex? Coitus, so PIV, by extension also anal sex - but it seems not to include everything termed "foreplay". And sex is obviously more than intercourse. By the way, recently I've read a text about how it really would be better to avoid the word "foreplay" altogether because it creates the assumption that all non-PIV sex is "lesser", just a preparation for the "main event" - and, as is widely known, at least for most women these "lesser" sexual activities are more pleasant than the "main event". edit: I accidentally sent the post three times, I'll send a notification to an admin to delete the duplicates.
  4. Nowhere Girl

    Wanting sex as a asexual

    Thanks for the example. Last year I found a copy of Leo Rosten's "The Joys of Yiddish" on a book exchange shelf. It's fun to read, Jewish humour is quite intellectual so it's nice to know that I get it. Unfortunately, the copy is quite heavily damaged - the cover and the final approximately 20% are missing, the dictionary part ends somewhere at "s". And, in fact, while being intellectually fun to read, it's also physically unpleasant to read, because the pages are palpably dirty. Just an old copy who must have gone a long way to end up in Warsaw. Even disregarding all the issues we have with this definition, it seems incorrect to me. Doesn't "intercourse" mean only some kinds of sex? Coitus, so PIV, by extension also anal sex - but it seems not to include everything termed "foreplay". And sex is obviously more than intercourse. By the way, recently I've read a text about how it really would be better to avoid the word "foreplay" altogether because it creates the assumption that all non-PIV sex is "lesser", just a preparation for the "main event" - and, as is widely known, at least for most women these "lesser" sexual activities are more pleasant than the "main event".
  5. Nowhere Girl

    Wanting sex as a asexual

    Thanks for the example. Last year I found a copy of Leo Rosten's "The Joys of Yiddish" on a book exchange shelf. It's fun to read, Jewish humour is quite intellectual so it's nice to know that I get it. Unfortunately, the copy is quite heavily damaged - the cover and the final approximately 20% are missing, the dictionary part ends somewhere at "s". And, in fact, while being intellectually fun to read, it's also physically unpleasant to read, because the pages are palpably dirty. Just an old copy who must have gone a long way to end up in Warsaw. Even disregarding all the issues we have with this definition, it seems incorrect to me. Doesn't "intercourse" mean only some kinds of sex? Coitus, so PIV, by extension also anal sex - but it seems not to include everything termed "foreplay". And sex is obviously more than intercourse. By the way, recently I've read a text about how it really would be better to avoid the word "foreplay" altogether because it creates the assumption that all non-PIV sex is "lesser", just a preparation for the "main event" - and, as is widely known, at least for most women these "lesser" sexual activities are more pleasant than the "main event".
  6. chairdesklamp

    Kink, BDSM, and Cake

    I'm visually repulsed, but I've been in Internet fandom since it existed, so I'm also kinda used to it. Thought I'd look at Fetlife. Unfortunately, the site does not like Safari at ALL, so I'm gonna hafta hope it works on the even more busted laptop. I figured I'd just use a username that is not this one (which is my usual one) incase anything goes wrong. A big part of what drives me to explore (rather than being curious but apathetic/too lazy to get questions answered) is I KNOW it's just such an accepting community. As a trans, disabled, mixed-race guy who IDed as bi until recently, and of course realising asexuality being a lateral move, no change, most people hate me for some reason of bigotry. But, wow, the "select your demograph" menus have EVERYTHING.
  7. Toothlesss

    Synesthesia

    I haven’t been diagnosed but I’m pretty sure I have a more obscure form of Personification. Different movies/shows/medium all tend to have a unique feel/personality to them. I can also feel physically heavier when watching something more adult or more rarely makes me sob. I’m not an expert so I’m going by what I know of synthenesia. (I’ll edit for spelling when I’m not on mobile)
  8. D_Saudade

    How do you want to be buried?

    I agree. But I would also like it if I can be compost or fertilizer. More greenery and flowers 🌳🌻
  9. CBC

    Wanting sex as a asexual

    Hey, I definitely didn't say I was never interested in licking anything... Oh look, I've derailed a serious thread again. My work is done here. (Sorry guys, carry on!)
  10. Skycaptain

    Change one letter (5 letters edition)

    Flint
  11. Dreamsexual

    Wanting sex as a asexual

    In the right context, that goat is probably what I look like ... Us lickers gotta stay together against you naughty non-lickers
  12. Skycaptain

    Change one letter

    Sell
  13. Skycaptain

    Change one letter (3 letter variety)

    Apt
  14. wirewalker

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

    Red 1
  15. Skycaptain

    Alphabetical "Better than sex" game

    Zulu dances are BTS
  16. I don't understand the question. Are you asking how a heteroromantic homosexual manages to exist without any romantic/sexual overlap? Tbh my first assumption is that the person in question has some internalized homophobia and should make serious attempts to reconcile himself with himself. If that doesn't work, then open relationship or poly relationship would be best, I'd think.
  17. CBC

    Wanting sex as a asexual

    I enjoyed my goat, yes.
  18. Skycaptain

    Guess the word!

    Quarters
  19. Dreamsexual

    Wanting sex as a asexual

    But beware the goat ... that thing made me snort out loud in mirth. Three times.
  20. Skycaptain

    You can only answer with a question

    What if the answer is yes?
  21. Skycaptain

    The Banning Game!

    Banned for not understanding BDSM
  22. Skycaptain

    Word association game

    Singular
  23. Skycaptain

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

    Nun
  24. Skycaptain

    Combine your username with the username above you

    CaptainCustard
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