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  2. Arodash

    Horses and Equiestrian stuff

    Thats just awful
  3. Quacks

    Quacks

    I hate my anxiety riddled brain 😒

  4. GatsbyGirl

    Horses and Equiestrian stuff

    Parents tell them to, they think its cool, they think they know what they doing but dont mind abusing the horse... the list goes on.
  5. Calligraphette_Coe

    Can you Become Intersex?

    No, being intersexed is a condition with which one if born- its physical and often chromosonal/genetic. I would really, really doubt you'd be able to find a doctor who would do sugery to give you some semblance of both kinds of genetalia, and there is nothing hormonal or any stem cell therapies that would re-write your chromosones if you're not already a mosaic. Having some possibility myself of being partially mosaic because of exposure in utero to DES, I can tell you the other defects that often accompany it are not any fun. What you're describing sounds mostly psychological, and people have often used either 'bigendered' or 'intergendered' to identify as such. I'm pretty androgynous, but I myself don't identify as either of them-- I'm pretty much a non-op transfeminine person. And I sort of lead two different lives because of having no other options.
  6. Christmace_liv

    The Banning Game!

    Banned for wanting people to be colour blind
  7. CBC

    Best friend

    I think... you've got confusing feelings you're working through. It's possible to truly want someone to be happy and be glad when they're going on dates or in a happy relationship or whatever, and then also feel sad and/or jealous if you have feelings for them. I've been there. If you haven't worked out what your feelings are or what sort of connection you want to have, things are going to be confusing. It can be difficult to be "just friends" if you don't feel like you're just friends. On the other hand, maybe you are moving past your feelings and that's good. I honestly have no really advice though, I'm sorry. That's just life. All you can do is let it play out sometimes.
  8. Anthracite_Impreza

    How does asexuality effect physical health?

    It doesn't. It's an orientation just like being gay, and there are no known (inborn) health implications to that either. Aces are more likely to suffer mental health issues but that's cos of the stress of being a social minority, not because of being ace.
  9. Jelle van der Lee

    pictures in rainbow order

  10. Gentle Giant

    anyone past 50 on here?

    Our plow guy finally got here and got the most of the snow plowed out. I just got in from scraping off some of the leftover stuff. I don’t know how much we got but it was a lot. More than 6 inches. This weekend got laundry done, vacuumed the upstairs, listened to and recorded to MP3s some LP records. I record whole sides of records instead of individual songs to keep it simple and less stressful. I transfer to computer and label it. Still have it get mixed up in Windows Media Player, but am able to correct it somewhat. Hard to get separated tracks together but came up with a work around to get them together again. Easy to add and replace wrong or missing cover art. VLC player back to skipping again. Boo! Anyway the records I recorded were Monkees - 1st, More of the Monkees, Pisces Aquarius Capricorn and Jones LTD, Kiss - 1st and Love Gun. I plan to get the Beatles 1967 - 1970 Blue Album and many others done later. It will be nice and convenient for listening to my favorite albums I don’t have on CD on my computer. listening to the records themselves is a lot of fun. Need to do that more often. Watching The Monkees first season on DVD. Just watched Monkees A La Mode episode last night. Super funny! “Rob Roy Fingerhead?!”
  11. Silence4now

    Feeling Lonely

    Absolutely!!! Respect is key to any person who shares their life's experiences with another. To me it is critical, regardless of what type of relationship or orientation to such, that no one hides cards up their sleeve's.
  12. antisocial_shut_in

    Best friend

    So basically I concluded that I have a alterous attraction to my bf. There are some days I think I'm crushing on her and others I'm just chill. She's going on a date and I don't really feel anything. I'm happy for her and I want to help her get a gf and I want to be friends with said potential gf so I'll have more lgbt friends and I dont really feel jealous or anything like in movies. Maybe a little sad but pretty sure that's really only cause I'm going to feel left behind cause then both my friends will have SO and i wouldnt. This girl also started talking to me but ehh I dont really feel anything but flattered. Idk what I'm feeling really, nothing is the best thing I can come up with. I figure I'm just over her romantically but Idk if I'm just having a chill day in the feels department. Cause sometimes I think about her and want to see her and spend as much time with her as I can but somethings we hang out and I completely forget that I might like her. What do you guys think? Be as Brutally honest as you want
  13. Acing It

    Non-British: What do you find weird about the UK?

    That makes sense, but that's only the case in the UK for some reason.
  14. Firefly8

    Horses and Equiestrian stuff

    Think like a horse- try to understand why they behave as they do with everything. Do not accept any excuse for someone hurting a horse. Avoid all bits, tie downs, spurs, whips, etc. Ride with a rope halter and no bit. Only food, water, and medicine goes in a horse's mouth. Don't leave a halter on if not riding. A helmet won't save you from your stupidity. It's never the horse's fault.
  15. Arodash

    Horses and Equiestrian stuff

    Whatttt then why would they do it?
  16. Acing It

    Non-British: What do you find weird about the UK?

    Oh yes! I lived with a friend for a while, sharing her place, and she insisted on carpet in the bathroom (with a bath and everything, not the American version of bathroom called a loo 😊) for some reason. Her son came to live with us and being male, stood up to wee and the carpet around the toilet turned magically white instead of being blue, after a while. 🤢 She had it all take out and instead of having something more practical, put carpet into the bathroom again.
  17. GatsbyGirl

    Horses and Equiestrian stuff

    Just cause they have a horse or ride doesnt mean they love it XD
  18. Arodash

    Horses and Equiestrian stuff

    I'm an American and pshhh why should anyone care about money? Shouldnt it be great that everyone loves horses?
  19. Silence4now

    Feeling Lonely

    About the bf. When you think about what makes you feel comfortable with someone, pressure to perform should never be on the list. You should note being up front about how you feel and think will cut down on hurt feelings for everyone. You would likely not be in as awkward of a situation perhaps. I can however relate to the desire to have someone around that makes me feel good too. Friends deserve a chance to be friends. If you arbitrarily decide what your friends will or will not do you are hardly being fair either. I do not mean to be critical but the best friends you will ever have do not need a map to find you. Either of those friends could be ace and just as terrified of societal acceptance. It would be a bold move for you to just call it what is right there with both of them and I bet they would both respect that and try to get a better understanding of their friend...provided they really are such. Silence4now
  20. Skycaptain

    Non-British: What do you find weird about the UK?

    To be fair, modern building regulations state that windows must open outwards, and side hinged so that people can get out in case of fire
  21. I just recently realized that I fell under the term asexual and have lots of questions and this is an important question of mine.
  22. Oh,i'm sorry,i didn't know the situation was like that.If that's the way it is,than it was a smart move to cut them out of your life.Life is already tough on its own,you don't need toxic people weighing you down and holding you back😊💖
  23. Muledeer

    Muledeer

    I have Puppy Fever!  Looking for  a new dog.

  24. Skycaptain

    Horses and Equiestrian stuff

    @korik, this may be in your purview
  25. HelloSnakeEyes

    Feeling Lonely

    I've never smoked crack but I know I don't want to ever.
  26. Moderne Jazzhanden

    The Banning Game!

    Banned for not being colour blind! 😮
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