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I mean... yeah, agreed. 😂 'S*x' gets me every time, as do the even weirder versions I've come across. And I'm sure you can imagine Tele's no-bullshit opinion on it. But of course, I am a very charitable person.
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Asexual and Allo Relationship Questions
Philip027 replied to EdenWar's topic in Asexual Relationships
"Interesting" is a rather charitable way of putting it, I think. I roll my eyes intensely whenever I see someone saying "s*x" If I feel compelled to respond it'll usually be with a cheeky remark like "six? six what?" -
Coffee and a Lack of Empathy (game)
allhailtheglowcloud replied to Ace-TheTimelordsCompanion's topic in AVEN Arcade
Screw relationships, navigating the high seas is much more fun! Now all you need is a pirate ship. My shoes are trying to eat my dog in revenge, how do I stop this? -
I think it says something interesting about our society that simply the word 'sex' might be offensive to anyone. (This certainly isn't new information, of course.) If it's a conversation between adults, whether those adults are people who absolutely love sex or are repulsed by sex or anything in between, the word 'sex' itself should just be a neutral and straightforward term. Everyone knows what sex is, and calling it that isn't offensive. Considering it offensive just adds to problems like shame and repression and the sense that it's something hush-hush or bad. Slight tangent from
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What if one's pronouns doesn't align with one's gender identity because one has no gender?
chronicallypessimistic replied to Snarkyaxolotl's topic in Gender Discussion
It's not like you have to use she/her as a female. It's not like you have to use he/him as a male. It's not like you have to use they/them as an enby. It's not like you have to use all or any pronouns as a genderfluid person. There isn't a given pronoun to anyone of any gender. Just use which one you feel comfortable with and what you truly believe fits you. I personally just use she/her because that's what I'm used to and what I'm happy with being referred to as. It's often said that demigirls, the gender I identify as, are meant to use she/they, but that's def - Today
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The New Aromantic Thread (v.1.5)
chronicallypessimistic replied to Lambda Corvus's topic in Romantic and Aromantic Orientations
Tertiary attraction is basically any form of attraction that isn't romantic or sexual. Here are some that I know of: Aesthetic = Finding someone physically attractive Sensual = The desire to interact/touch someone in a non-sexual way, such as hugging or cuddling Platonic = The desire to form a platonic relationship/become friends with someone Alterous = The desire to have a special emotional connection or emotional relationship, but is neither completely platonic or romantic Emotional attraction = Having an affinity for another person based on their persona -
Coffee and a Lack of Empathy (game)
WanderingPurpleDragon replied to Ace-TheTimelordsCompanion's topic in AVEN Arcade
Play an annoying song on repeat and then the other one won't be stuck in your head. I struggle navigating relationships. -
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So much for putting summer tyres on. There was a bit of sleet yesterday morning, and I wish I'd packed some gloves. It turned milder by lunchtime, though.
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Banned for taking a nature hike to extremes
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Banned for refusing to join in!
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Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!
fantastic mx. foxglove replied to the bumbling rotifer's topic in AVEN Arcade
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Blatant lie or rumour about the person above you game
fantastic mx. foxglove replied to Sammie's topic in AVEN Arcade
allhailtheglowcloud is a time traveler, traveling through time at sixty seconds per minute -
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Yuck Watermelon?
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Coffee and a Lack of Empathy (game)
fantastic mx. foxglove replied to Ace-TheTimelordsCompanion's topic in AVEN Arcade
Become an absolute menace at work so that people are stressed about you instead! I have a song stuck in my head -
I wonder if he's now down to the bottom of the barrel, lawyer-wise, since he doesn't follow advice and doesn't always pay. But as I said, if they can pull it off. they will be considered the top of the heap.
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What if one's pronouns doesn't align with one's gender identity because one has no gender?
Snao Cone replied to Snarkyaxolotl's topic in Gender Discussion
There are a lot of ways people describe themselves in these situations - cis-by-default, cis-genderless, agender, demigender, etc. No shortage. I know a lot of people who have never felt the need to distinguish themselves as their assigned gender at birth or feel particularly attached to it, but are still comfortable being perceived in that general way and get by through daily life without much challenge in that department, and so they accept that they're cis by nature of receiving cis privilege. But then there are some people who want to distance themselves more from the institutions of gende -
If you're asexual and aromantic, does it means you'll always be lonely?
blerghhh replied to lily6780's topic in Asexual Relationships
I agree with this, it feels like I'll never be a priority unless I'm in a romantic relationship. My friends do care for me, but it seems like I can't ever get as close as I would like to because they will always value their romantic relationships over a platonic one -
What if one's pronouns doesn't align with one's gender identity because one has no gender?
Lilihierax replied to Snarkyaxolotl's topic in Gender Discussion
You mean what happens? Well, nothing. People can use the pronouns they feel are right for them, even if they don't how to explain their decision. I use she/her because that just I've always been - it's my default, due to being born female. I don't have any strong sentimental connection to those pronouns, they are simply the only ones I've ever been know as, and it doesn't bother me, so I have no reason to change them.