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  2. KeKatCookie

    Things that you find annoying

    17. Sex jokes 18. People who make sex jokes 19. Kelly Clarkson songs 20. Summer
  3. 3Xi3X

    hello, here is a bit of my story

    So nice! My mother would call that a tear jerker. I don’t cry though. (Too manly 😋). ::heart pounding:: Thank you for sharing. Now you can live a new life in a way, and however you want to. But first, eat.
  4. kelico

    Welcome our new Moderator

    Welcome back and congrats! Good job to all that ran!
  5. I just got a Fitbit a few months ago and I really like the female health tracker. It makes it so easy to track my cycle and has been accurate so far for the beginning of my cycle. It even warns me 2 days before it starts so I am more prepared.
  6. Hey! I'm an asexual demiromantic Christian, and no, I don't treat it as a gift. Not really. I struggled with being asexual for a little while, due to mentions in the Bible about how sex is a gift, but there's also parts about how being a virgin is all good and fine. And eventually I embraced my asexuality, knowing that is a part of how I was made. It is a small blessing, in a way, as I don't lust after others, or negatively desire people sexually, which I guess means I don't sin in that area. Also makes it easy to not have sex outside marriage, haha. I don't ever want sex!
  7. oldgeeza

    hello, here is a bit of my story

    Hi, welcome and thank you for sharing your story, I hope you find all the answers you're looking for, the people here are fantastic, extremely helpful and they will happily offer any advice you may need or even tell of their experiences too, I hope you like it here and good luck. It sounds like you are a little younger than I am, but grew up in the 80's, the time when, well at least in my experience, you were gay or straight, if you weren't married by a certain age, you were seen as gay, this was unacceptable back then, and, alike to me, it took you into your 40's to discover that there were others who felt similar to you and that there was a term for it, I must admit, my way of getting around the relationship thing was work, I've never been into the religion thing, I know a lot of people who are, but again, that wasn't my thing. I come from a very dysfunctional background, my family didn't work, they relied on my income to support the home, pay the bills etc, so it was easy for me to get out of relationships, I had a few, none of them lasted more than a few weeks, I tried sex due to peer pressure and I didn't like it, I shrivelled up after a few seconds, afterwards, I'd be sick, then light up a cigarette to calm myself, I only had two sexual partners, in total I probably only had sex a handful of times, I hated it, in fact I dreaded it, so much so that from the age of 19 to 23 I never had another relationship, then at 23, a relationship just happened, luckily sex was never initiated, it was the longest relationship I had lasting 28 days, that was to be my last relationship, all partners had used me to cheat on their partners, but in a way, although I felt bad for the cheated partner, I guess I was releived to not have another relationship, the pressure was off, I was happy, happier still when I asked why the relationship had ended, the reply I got made me realise that I was going to be single, no sex, no pressures, no having to put up with all the stresses of why ni kids, why the relationship wasn't working, that was back in 91, it wasn't until 2007 when, whilst off work, I bought a computer, I googled "I don't want sex" it bought me to this site where I'm still learning to this day about myself, about asexuality and the likes. I hope you get along well on here, take care
  8. will123

    Incredibly Ace Moments

    LOL Not sure if I'd be up for that. Offering a helping hand over an obstacle I'm OK with. To walk along with a female friend holding hands? Uhhhhhh I don't know....
  9. I feel ya. I have a degree in wildlife biology and masters of environmental education and am working for a Parks and Rec department in the town next to where I live. I do get to use my degree though sometimes but not as much as I thought I would be.
  10. motography

    hello, here is a bit of my story

    awesome! this self discovery is the best, and at least for me figuring out I am asexual felt like a weight was lifted off my shoulders. no more needing to fake being sexual (to yourself or others) and also knowing that there are other people out there going through the same stuff helped me become more comfortable with myself and feel not as isolated also if someone said this to me I would have responded the exact same way as u because that is a wild statistic lol
  11. This. He's a bit of a prude, and assumes I must be one as well.
  12. KiannaKitter

    Things that you find annoying

    13. People who don't pick up after their dogs. 14. People who throw trash in nature. 15. Mosquitoes. 16. Winter.
  13. firewallflower

    What Are Some of your Weirdest Habits?

    I mark syllables (on the fingers of one hand, so in fives) when reading. I have no idea why, or when this started (fairly sure it was after I'd already been reading for a while), but I do it. And don't like putting the book down unless I'm at a multiple of 5. It's bizarre. I also tear my hair, which is definitely a habit I should break.
  14. daveb

    Age difference in partners

    My dad's last partner (long time girlfriend, eventual wife) was around 20 years younger than him. But she eventually died of cancer and he's still around. Being younger is definitely no guarantee that they will outlive the older partner. Anyway, I think age differences are less important than compatibility, common interests and viewpoints and other factors. I think life stages can be more important, too. That is, if 2 people who are at similar life stages but years apart in age they might be more compatible than 2 people at different life stages but the same age. Also, maturity makes a difference, in my opinion.
  15. KeKatCookie

    Getting Hormones Checked For Parents?

    Thanks :) I'm glad it turned out okay. I haven't come out to my parents yet, but they know I don't feel sexual attraction. I've just never explicitly said "I'm asexual." I'm hoping that someday I'll get the guts to come out, and I can use this to help explain. That it's me, my feelings, my mindset, not the chemical makeup of my body.
  16. 9. People who don't stop talking 10. Reading posts/news stories that are clearly inaccurate or fake 11. People who believe said stories regardless and try to convince me they are right 12. Them acting insulted when I don't agree even though I was polite and it's nothing personal
  17. Ameline257

    What Are Some of your Weirdest Habits?

    I'm always afraid of running out of something. So when ever anything gets even half empty I feel like I need to stock up on said item just in case....even when it is something I rarely use. This becomes more bizarre when you find out I'm also the first person to throw something away I think I don't need.....then end up needing that thing days later. My mind just can't seem to make up it's mind. I wear a coat even in the summer because I just always feel cold. I eat dessert first...because why the heck not?
  18. Aha same. My mum was always against me watching sex scenes then when I was old enough too, I found I didn't like it. At all. As soon as kissing went on for over a few seconds I looked away- still do! It frustrates me, especially in films like Terminator. Like, give me the action and the robots. I get that they had sex. Just show them going to the room together and waking up in the same bed, idk. I don't need - or want - to see any of it! Especially not in action movies. (that's the worst part about the second Matrix film.) I don't get sex jokes either. Sometimes I'm totally innocent, like, what's funny about bananas. (seriously? What is? Bananas are just a nice fruit) Or I just don't get it, especially since I have a bit of a science head when it comes to the human anatomy.
  19. Sure I've heard of it. That's cool that it's been granted World Heritage status!
  20. Fluffy Femme Guy

    Incredibly Ace Moments

  21. daveb

    Return of the Dragon

    Good to hear from you! Good luck with the module and with the house and hopefully retirement and all!
  22. 3Xi3X

    Welcome our new Moderator

    This is so exciting!! chongwrahshulations! ::already eating::
  23. motography

    Things that you find annoying

    5. Seeing people I don't like in public 6. Having earbuds that fall out whenever I run 7. Denial of climate change 8. When people don't text me back 😪
  24. Fluffy Femme Guy

    I should have known I was asexual when....

    I remember being very confused at this when I was younger.
  25. Aldis Friedman

    What Are Some of your Weirdest Habits?

    I must schedule everything and it must stay that way. For instance, showers are always at 6 in the morning, unless I wash my hair, in which case it's usually at 8.30 in the evening. And the water must be cold, too.
  26. Same. I still don't understand what 'turned on' means and honestly, I don't exactly want to know. And yeah. Sex in general and desires for it utterly confuse me!
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