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  2. I have a good self esteem tho so it is not about that. As I said I like my body as it is, I just do not identify with it. I am into girls so it makes sense why I like breasts. Thats why I struggle so much. MY body is basically perfect. WHY would I want to change it? To pretty to be transe? I think I just wanna "LOOK" soft like my art. Curves are soft. It suits my personality. I know I do not need the breasts to look soft, but I want my body to look balanced in proportions. As long as it looks balance and soft it is fine. I have noticed that I like this anime characters that are male, but look so feminine they appear androgynous. I want the softness female has, but not be "girly" if that makes any sense. I am not a big fan of things that are to masculine and box-like. If you have seen my art it is rather soft-looking. Like that bird.This youthful softness.
  3. AVEN frequently has that effect...
  4. AnnaC

    Hello! I’m new!

    Hi everyone, I’m new to AVEN, but not to asexuality. I first found out about asexuality when I was 17, and it’s been a good nine years since then and I’m finally now comfortable in the knowledge that I am asexual. Well, I’m not sure if comfortable is the right word... I know that I’m definitely asexual - sexual attraction is a thing I have never been able to make head or tail of, but I definitely am not comfortable enough to tell anyone in real life that I am. For some reason, I feel like as an asexual person, I don’t really fit in with straight people, or with the wider LGBTQ community. Is that a weird way to feel? I’m also pretty sure (I think?) that I’m biromantic, so I don’t know how to explain myself to people and I don’t dare to go on dates with anyone because I’m afraid of what will happen when they find out. It’s been such a weird, lonely situation to be in, that after a whole 9 years, I’ve finally plucked up the courage and decided to join you all here (the fact that I’m off work with a fever that is likely addling my natural inhibitions is probably helping too). Anyway, thanks for having me, and I look forward to making new friends on here! 🙂
  5. Some sexual people definitely aren't attracted to random strangers on the street. And for some, it can take falling for someone who has reciprocal feelings in order for to experience what's identifiable to them as sexual desire/attraction. There are lots of different ways of experiencing one's sexuality; if you want to have sex with other people, you're sexual. At 16, I'd suggest just keeping an open mind. There's no rush to label yourself.
  6. CBC

    Autosuggest nonsense thread

    True, though. 😎 Well, other than it not being a disease haha.
  7. AceMissBehaving


    I once had a gig at a bridal expo, and the free sweets was 100% the best part of the whole thing
  8. ryn2

    anyone past 50 on here?

    It’s always frustrating how sunscreen is one extreme or the other!
  9. CBC


    Oh ewww, haha. I'm not even ace and that's all kinds of nope to me.
  10. Strange-quark

    Red, Green, Blue, RAINBOW GOATS!

    green 3
  11. Nowhere Girl

    Indifferent Asexuals, A post as Advocacy for them

    But as an asexual, you have just as much of a right to have your political opinion about sex, as does everybody else.
  12. Telecaster68

    Frustrating representation

    For sexual people, it's not a separate thing. They're deeply entwined together.
  13. Lichley

    Excited to see where this goes!

    Welcome! Nice to meet you, have some cake
  14. Lichley

    What a year to come out

    Welcome! Still time to do both and get an awesome new job too
  15. Lichley

    Special Snowflake Says Hello

    Welcome! Oh yeah there’s definitely cake here
  16. Lichley


    Welcome! Saw this and thought of you
  17. neecee

    Does anyone else have trouble making new friends?

    I wouldn’t say I’m bad at making new friends as much as I’m bad at making good friends. I have a handful of very close friends that I’ve known for 10+ years now, and I’ve noticed that I have a weird mindset of wanting allllllllll my new friendships to instantly be on the same level of those close friends. So in a way, I set my own self up for failure.
  18. ThatRangerGirl

    Excited to see where this goes!

    Hi all! I’m Sian. I just signed up for this site but have followed the Facebook page for a while! I identify as homoromantic asexual and have done for some time! Move started joining up to websites and apps in the hopes to meet other asexuals! So I’m excited to see where this site goes and chatting to some awesome people! 🤙
  19. Lichley

    Ace and Disabilities

    Welcome! Well, there are sites like Acebook as asexual dating sites, and sites like OKCupid have an asexual option
  20. Lichley

    How to come out to your parents 101 needed

    Welcome! I’d definitely recommend the Parent’s Guide ^^ but I’ll throw in a couple of other things to check out too http://www.Asexuality archive.com/asexuals-on-coming-out-experience/ https://www.deviantart.com/secondlina/art/Sketchcomic-types-of-Attraction-298804729 https://www.vox.com/culture/2018/3/26/16291562/asexuality-tv-history-bojack-shadowhunters-game-of-thrones
  21. Mythos1

    Frustrating representation

    I think it was more down to the documentary than anything else. The programme seemed very black and white, apparently it never mentioned a spectrum, and it lead him to believe we were all alike. But what caught my attention was the fact it stated that we don't experience romance!...like, excuse me, what? I had to explain that romantic attraction was a completely separate thing, he had no idea!
  22. Lichley

    Have a slice of coming-out cake

    Welcome! Pro tip it usually automatically becomes a picture if you just paste the url or a picture directly in, and then asks if you’d prefer plain text
  23. Welcome! Oh we were just checking that they were okay with being called sluts, otherwise it would have a very harsh connotation - but since they’re okay with it and actively use it then it’s ok
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  25. BumbleBeee

    What a year to come out

    Wow! I'm glad that you're coming to these realizations about yourself, and I really hope everything works out. Happy late birthday, and here's some Cheese Cake to celebrate ; )
  26. Aldis Friedman

    Aldis Friedman

    My relatives have noticed my ace ring! They think it's just a regular ring though. At least I feel less weird wearing it!

  27. pickles mcgee

    anyone past 50 on here?

    I second this. What a great crew. It's nice getting to know people better as we share more; hoping to meet as many of you as possible IRL. I got my first sunburn of the trip yesterday, on my back. DARN! 😡
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