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  2. Sexual Ally

    Sharing the knowledge

    I love the idea. Whether it would be economically viable, I've not a clue. I guess I'd ask 1) is there currently a market for downloadable plans in general at this time? Or have free/paid tutorial sites such as YouTube/SkillShare saturated this market? 2) Assuming one owns the necessary tools and knows how to operate them, would the materials for this item make your download more cost-effective than purchasing the same item pre-made? (This in no way precludes the fact that builders and tradespeople will always exist and want to ply their craft, for self-satisfaction, efficiency and quality. But if materials + download = less $ than quality pre-made, that could help make an educated decision as to the viability of yr pdf on the market).
  3. iyote

    What's The Stupidest Thing You've Ever Believed?

    I used to think that everyone had to get married at some point. It freaked me out.
  4. ☆゚°˖* ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ

    Friend not getting it whatsoever

    Well after reading the comments I had to take the dang test. 13. LMAO
  5. I'm happy with my partner and feeling ok with skipping sex but that's only because I know I'm allowed to look elsewhere (even though I'm not bothering). It made a big difference to learn that he simply never had any intrinsic desire, he did it to make me happy. I used to feel inadequate. He's very kind about my experience of sexuality, but I'm like, eh, charity sex isn't that fulfilling. Celibacy seems nice for now. If someone I'm attracted to expressed interest in me, well... I might switch gears, haha. Maybe I'll try dating if I have time, but not anytime soon. So you can't be ace. But maybe you can feel chill about celibacy? Did you think your partner is ace? Have you talked about asexuality with her? You know it's not a transient thing, right? Sexuals have ups and downs, after all. Devastating to learn it's not a phase, that it was and always will be this way -- but better to know, I found.
  6. AwkwardSquid

    Star Wars Trailer

    I honestly came here cause I wanted to see if it was about the movie or game trailer XD the trailer was sorta boring for me so I am not even bothered to think what might or might no happen cause I feel like we just got random stuff without a bit of a idea of what might be happening except fights and well more fights.
  7. Scout the Supreme Overlord

    Scout the Supreme Overlord

    Hey AVENites... long time no see. I wonder if any of my old friends are still on here?

    1. kelico


      I remember you!

  8. Anthony Bogaert, a prominent researcher on asexuality, has said that a lack of a sex drive - or "an enduring lack of desire for all forms of sexual activities" - is a more stringent definition of asexuality than lack of sexual attraction. Lots of asexuals have a sex drive - it just isn't directed toward partnered sexual activities. And increasing someone's sex drive doesn't change their orientation. In the past, people tried to change homosexuals' sexual orientation by giving them drugs like Viagra, but it didn't work. All it did was lead them to want to engage in more homosexual activities. If an asexual takes Viagra, it might give them a sex drive and want to masturbate, but it isn't going to make them want partnered sex. Now, libido can fluctuate for all sorts of reasons, and people can go through periods of little to no sex drive for one reason or another (depression, abuse, medications, lack of an appropriate partner, etc.). But when someone has never had a libido and this last for years beyond adolescence, I think it's safe to say the person is asexual.
  9. ☆゚°˖* ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ

    Friend not getting it whatsoever

    *Cries in bi-erasuse* Being told that your orientation is invalid is the woooorst. I'm so here for you Ace fam.
  10. Flute16

    Star Wars Trailer

    I love the new trailer, tbh. I didn't like TLJ, the prequel to this movie, but I actually think I may enjoy how this trilogy ends. IDK, I'll have to see what other people think of the actual movie before watching it myself.
  11. Flute16

    Star Wars Trailer

    Not from a Jedi. 😒
  12. The thing is that there could be an attraction during the sexual activity. The drive doesn't necessarily have to be there. While being open to sex isn't meaning much, if there is some potential attraction before or during sex, that's what I call being allosexual. All this mean is non-libidoist sexual would require the other to initiate.
  13. Urishir

    The Banning Game!

    Banned for not knowing about life Lee "Life" Seung Hyun is a Zerg player from South Korea who formerly played for Afreeca Freecs and KT Rolster. He is permanently banned from all KeSPA events due to his involvement in the 2015 Match-Fixing Scandal. Hes still considered one of the best players ever...
  14. Out of the saddle

    Hello Again

    Oh jeez... Wow I just discovered this about myself really recently. That was way more answer than I was ready for. This is really difficult to talk about. Thanks for the response. I'm 46 but not sure who I am at all...
  15. Rhaenys

    What's The Stupidest Thing You've Ever Believed?

    That Shah Rukh Khan sang all his songs by himself.
  16. Rhaenys

    KPOP fans?

    I'm a very proud NCTzen, EXO-L and BLINK. I also like Red Velvet, Itzy and I'm warming up to TWICE. I wouldn't call myself a CLC stan but i cheer them on cause they're underrated af.
  17. Rhaenys

    Who is your favourite Marvel character?

    Dark Phoenix Storm X-23
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  19. Rhaenys

    Game of Thrones! [spoilers, probably]

    1.) Daenerys Targaryen. Started off a weak girl then rose to be a Queen. I loved that character development and how she seizes power despite everything that happened to her. I also love that she is flawed, makes rash and bad decisions without thinking of the aftermath because I think it makes her somewhat realistic because nobody in general is perfect or 100% good. I see myself in her somewhat as the weak, controlled girl who is trying to figure out who she is. 2.) I read and own all of the books. I have the World of Ice and Fire book and I am waiting till I can get Fire and Blood. I read the books first then watched the show back in 2013. I prefer the show because it is simple. The books are plot and character heavy to a point I do not understand how people remember all of the details. One of the book characters though that I love and wished was on the show was Princess Arianne of Dorne. 3.) I don't know. Hold on let me do a quiz. I got House Tully but I honestly think I'd fit in more with House Martell cause I have the Salty Dornish look. They're one of the more liberal houses and I have a strong personality that isn't in line with traditional feminine roles. 4.) I want Dany to be Queen but there is so much signs and hints that suggest they're going to turn her into a bad person and kill her off but oh well that is how that show works. I think it will be Jon honestly (Show Jon annoys me I don't get the appeal behind Kit Harrington especially with female fans.)
  20. I see.I feel much better to know it.Thank you!
  21. Philip027

    If I have no libido, can I really know I’m asexual?

    How could it not? Genuinely curious here. I'm still really not getting how you can view someone in a sexual light and yet still claim you have no sexual drive. Being open to sex isn't really indicative of anything, other than not being sex repulsed. Asexuals can be open to sex.
  22. Gloomy

    2020 U.S. Presidential Race

    I must say, I like Adam Kokesh’s style too.
  23. firewallflower

    Quickly, Before They See!

  24. Liking someone sexually doesn't mean there's a libido. It just mean you'd be open to the action provided that person is wanting the action as well.
  25. Ace Christian

    Friend not getting it whatsoever

    My church definitely encourages people to wait, so during those messages and the following small groups I've been extremely lost. I was confused about what people even saw in all that stuff because I thought everyone thought like me deep down. It only really hit me that people actually desire that kind of stuff a few months ago. In totally unrelated news, I've been anonymously emailing a professor of mine about me being trans. I really want to let him know who I am, but I'm really scared to do it even though I know he's 100% accepting of me, so I'm currently trying to work that out.
  26. The Incarnation Of Boredom

    The Banning Game!

    Banned for being confused about life. (Same?)
  27. kumiko_itoe

    Hello Again

    LOL! There is something called busy with work and family. Besides, I am openly ace and am not bothered with how others perceive me. So whether they understand me or not isn't important when it comes to achieving my goals and the results I am after at work. Also, sexuals make only 99% and not 99.9%. So there are roughly about 77million Asexuals in the world (though this is only those who are willing to be known. There are many many others who are but so afraid of being ostracized that they pretend to be sexuals). I am close to several asexuals in real life who aren't on AVEN.
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